I don't know which to listen to!

[CHARLOTTEfour]

I weigh 135 lbs and am 5'4". I am medium build, because I have a 6" wrist and that denotes medium build for someone of my height, as found online kn multiple websites. Judging from weight alone, I sound chubby, but then I wear a size 2 in jeans and a 2 or 3 in dresses. I don't know what to believe, I don't know if I'm fat or thin. My guy friend told me out of the blue I only look not a pound over 120, and my doctor has confirmed that I have a medium build. I wear a small, XS or medium in tops depending on brand, but most often a small. I'll tell my friends my resolution is to lose 20 lbs, to be at 115 and they all think I'm crazy and that I'd be anorexic at that point. I know at least 5 lbs is muscle because I started working out, but I cannot tell if I'm thin or not. Please don't give me that "it's better to be healthy" because this is REALLY BOTHERING ME. thanks!

[TheDigitalSaint]

Just keep exercising and maintain a healthy diet. Avoid processed foods, eat smaller meals more frequently and make sure you get plenty of sleep. When girls take good care of their bodies through simple steps, their bodies will help regulate their weight to the ideal requirements. Balance is key.

[vivian11]

im 5'4 115 and wear a size 4 or 6. and I will never me a size two in jeans. Don't concentrate on the numbers just if you like how you look. I probably look bigger than you even though I weigh less. its all about how our bodies distribute the weight I guess.

[CHARLOTTEfour]

Hey actually I was curious to see if you were right, based on your pictures (you're gorgeous, by the way!) we're pretty much equal in proportion... Probably why most guys say I don't look a pound over 115 or 120 haha

[Deft_maiden]

Screw the websites and charts. Do a blood test. If it all comes back normal and you like what you see in the mirror that is what counts.

[kheserthorpe]

Weight matters less then waist circumference.