The gym is tough, because a guy like me would never make an approach in that environment. Yes, I'm a fellow gym rat, and have worked for a couple of gyms, and personally I resent the whole meat market approach. I also don't respect women who put on make up to do cardio, and spend as much time at the water fountain talking as they do working out. :). I put my head phones on and tune out. That being said, the times I have met girls before is when you see the same person a few times. You work out at the same time of day a lot, maybe use some of the same equipment. The stretching/ab mat area is a good gender neutral area. Start a bs convo maybe about how I just am not into it today, how do you use that machine, make fun of someone/something at the gym. However that goes, invite for drinks later. My friends and I are grabbing a drink if you want to come... Outside of that wait for them to approach you. Good luck!
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Well if that's your real pic, then you shouldn't have a problem. Some guys find a girl that goes to the gym as much as they do a little intimidating. I love it! But just go to the machine next to them and comment on how much weight they performing. Hopefully its a lot cause you don't want to seem like your desperate. Once you intiate the conversation, sort of just linger around him but don't talk to him. Maybe walk by him a few times throughout the gym to do a different excersise but make sure you strut your stuff. Hopefully if he has enough confidence, he will start to intiate conversation with you and ask you to go out for dinner or even a nice run together.
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In all honesty, a nice smile and eye contact would be nice. Then if a machine is open next to me or something she can come over, use it, and we could have a good conversation. I don't usually go to the gym, but if I did I wouldn't mind this.
yep I go to golds gym
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