Boyfriend of just 2 months.
I know he loves his space... and so do I. But I HATE it when it turns to neglect.
He frequently goes the whole day without contact of any sort, which I'm OK with because he did tell me from day one that he does like his alone time, but he also explained that anything more than 2 days would cause him to question if everything is alright.
Anyway, he goes the weekend without any contact and me... thinking he would appreciate this space, didn't initiate any contact either. He text me on Sunday night saying "Hey babe, what are you up to?" I didn't contact him back until the next day around 4pm. 1.) I WAS very busy. 2.) He needs to see how him pulling off those 2 days stunts pushes me away. I called him and no response. Assuming he's still working, I shoot him a text NOT responding his question but letting him know I got the tickets for the event we planned on attending this Saturday-- to approve of the seating or if I should get different seats.
It is now Wednesday and I he has completely ignored me. I don't get it... I gave him space, but it seems he likes it on HIS own terms? Or should I have initiated contact? Or is he just being dramatic? Did I mess up big time? Should I call? Should I wait?
I know he loves his space... and so do I. But I HATE it when it turns to neglect.
He frequently goes the whole day without contact of any sort, which I'm OK with because he did tell me from day one that he does like his alone time, but he also explained that anything more than 2 days would cause him to question if everything is alright.
Anyway, he goes the weekend without any contact and me... thinking he would appreciate this space, didn't initiate any contact either. He text me on Sunday night saying "Hey babe, what are you up to?" I didn't contact him back until the next day around 4pm. 1.) I WAS very busy. 2.) He needs to see how him pulling off those 2 days stunts pushes me away. I called him and no response. Assuming he's still working, I shoot him a text NOT responding his question but letting him know I got the tickets for the event we planned on attending this Saturday-- to approve of the seating or if I should get different seats.
It is now Wednesday and I he has completely ignored me. I don't get it... I gave him space, but it seems he likes it on HIS own terms? Or should I have initiated contact? Or is he just being dramatic? Did I mess up big time? Should I call? Should I wait?
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**Edit: He didn't pick up my call on Monday nor did he respond to my text message and it's now Wednesday...
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