We got into a huge fight yesterday, but we still talked today?

[Anonymous]

We got into another huge fight yesterday, about trust (I basically accused him of taking advantage of me), and after that I was sure we wouldn't speak for a while because of the things he was saying:

"this [relationship] is getting really hard"

"I'm just gonna stop trying so hard"

"this is tiring"

I was not going to contact him today because I knew he needed space. However, he did make contact with me; it was just short and sweet (he started the convo but didn't finish it). I know he's still very upset with me, and I know how I'm feeling right now, so why won't he just give himself some space to think about everything? Will this situation ever get better after this?

This is the second time we've been through this :/

[Racez]

Time. Time will heal the wounds.

Drop him messages from time to time.

Or better yet, call him. Tell him let bygones be bygones. You're both experiencing the same pain, and you should be there for each other.

Problems prolonged will cause more havoc as you go through long-term relationship. It will cause attraction to fade upon each other. I'm sure you don't want to lose him. = )