Looks Don't Matter? The Reality May Be Harsher Than You Think (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

honestly, looks get the attention. but in the long-run, it's the personality that matters.

[roxbby]

Most definitely.

[lovelyhoneybones]

Looks 100% matter, I just think it's toxic when they're all that matters.

[MOUTHWASHING]

Relationships are based firstly on physical attraction so yes, if you are ugly it gets extremely more difficult to find a partner (im 30 and I've only dated once in my life, im still virgin) It is extremely sad i say knowing that the future is only loneliness

[Twalli]

I always say this whenever anyone asks if looks matter for dating.

"Looks get you a first date, personality gets you subsequent dates".

It's just the first date unattractive people have trouble getting, if they have a good personality

[es20490446e]

To be completely honest, I only need a girl which looks are just good.

From that point on it mostly depends on personality.

[1828avaava1828]

Woot woot

[es20490446e]

@1828avaava1828 Yeeeeaaahh.

[AnonAndrew]

Anyone who says looks don't matter is delusional. Of course they do.

There's plenty of research to back this up. Not that we need it if we've ever actually paid attention to people (and ourselves).

[FreyaRed]

Appearance is the visit card of your DNA, that's why it's not surprising it's more important for others than your intelligence that is often even counter productive, because intelligence is often considered a threat.

[scarlett774]

Agreed looks fade over time. You can be in a relationship with a hot guy but what is he’s not smart, it’s like talking to a pretty wall. You fall in love with the heart, mind and person, not with their appearance

[Bricealan]

I agree with you in total. I, in fact, had the say plastic surgery, nose bob and chin implant and it changed things for me remarkably, and never had a regret in doing it...

You are correct, the Reality is Much harsher than most think.

[nelly83]

For most people in general. Looks do matter. But of course there are always rare exceptions where some people truly don’t believe looks don’t matter.

[Tamera952]

Well written and an excellent article I just wanted to say.

[Incelmax666]

The truth is harsher than this. The right morph is actually unattractive to women because he lacks harmony. I have a strong jawline and good forward growth, deep set eyes, but I lack harmony.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Looks matter but really everyone has their own taste of look. Presentation matters anywhere else. If you see someone dating ugly for you, you'd just assume looks don't matter for them.

[rienna888]

yeah i hate when people say looks don't matter. Like bich it matters to most people.

[genericname85]

of course looks matter xD everyone who doesn't see that, lives in denial of reality.

[AdithyaR]

It's true, no matter how much we try to overlook it, looks will always matter.
That's why I found solitude more useful.

[Jltakk]

Looks do matter, end of. We want personality to matter, but people are willing to sacrifice a dead personality if that means the person is easy on the eyes.

Its harsh but true.

[RavVid]

Largely true. As society gives more leeway to the good looking, I assume that they are going to be more exploitative. So I reverse discriminate.

[EmotionOfFear]

Your body is just the advertisement for your sperm/egg.

[_no_one_]

No one is ugly, it's just ur perspective which makes someone ugly.

[EABsTUQ]

No such thing as good or bad. If we had a law against drinking juice then that would be considered bad although people still would be doing it haha.

[_no_one_]

Yea thas true, selling weed is illegal in my country but, who cares? Lmfao