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Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating?
There is no one, de facto definition of cheating. It's wildly open to individual interpretation. Or, at least that's what people think it is, open to their own, personal interpretation. It's about... Relationships
Do you find this famous picture controversial?
I've heard about this controversy. No, I think the photo is an interesting piece of history, and it should not be demonized because culture has changed. Also, this is a tightly cropped image. The... Relationships
Which year are you nostalgic of?
Not any year in particular, though I am very sentimental, maybe too much (it makes life hard). But I have noticed that things from the early 1990s look 'normal' to me, because those were my... Dating
What do I do when I’m not sure about a guy I’m seeing?
Yes, it's waaaay too fast. This isn't love. He shouldn't have said it, and you shouldn't have said it back. Combining this with your other question Is it okay to be turned off by a guy that cried... Relationships
Do you believe in life after love?
"I don't want any relationship for now, that I am sure. But I also don't want to feel what I feel now. I know three months after twenty years could not be enough to be over it, but I'm tired. I... Break Up & Divorce
Does voice affect a person's attractiveness?
Yes, voices are integral for me. I notice them all the time and am instantly and innately attracted or repelled. Some might be between, and especially when it comes to business or some temporary... Dating
What would you do if you had a personal android all for yourself?
You said we can't destroy it, but that is exactly what I would do. I'm against A. I.; especially robots. Relationships
Do you tend to trust people easily?
I don't trust easily, I generally read people well, and I can be skeptical, but I also fundamentally believe that we have to take some amount of risk, and put our faith in others, or we would... Relationships
What do you love the most about yourself?
I clicked on your q to see how other people answered, but I wasn't going to answer, myself. But I like what you wrote in the body of the q, so I will answer I guess. I am very affected by things,... Relationships
Who do you trust more, men or women?
That's quite the admission on your wife's part. Must be some stories there, her distrust of men. I don't think either gender is more or less trustworthy than the other. I can tell you that I've... Relationships
Girls, have you ever made the first move on a guy? If so, what prompted it?
A few times. It was prompted by a particularly strong attraction, both physically and their personality/character. I've never done a cold approach. Have to get at least somewhat comfortable and... Dating
Does it mean you don't love someone romantically if your heart doesn't always skip a beat around them?
No, doesn't mean she doesn't love him. That skipping a beat is a hormonal reaction to the presence of the other, or something specific they said or did. But it happens much, much more frequently... Relationships
Should I explain, before ghosting them?
Explain. Don't ghost. Ghosting is avoidant, unkind, and the coward's way out. Dating
Was I wrong to leave the house because my wife always sides with my mother and relatives?
I asked a q on here once, long ago, about whether it was better to stay in an argument and try to finish or resolve it, or if it was more optimal to walk away and reconvene at another time. One... Relationships
Is the term "girlfriend/boyfriend" immature?
Yes, totally agree with you. It only felt right as a teenager, and maybe somewhat into twenties. It felt absolutely ridiculous referring to my mother's man as her boyfriend. And she didn't like... Dating
I don't approach women anymore because I guess women don't like to be approached by random guys and figuring them out is tiring?
Unless you're in a bar or dating context where it's expected, most women won't say yes. That's not to say that it's always a bad thing, though. Most women need to feel comfortable, safe, and that... Dating
Is it common to be scared of catching feelings?
Is it common to fear being hurt by someone you care deeply about? Yes! Everyone feels this way. It's part of the human experience. But everyone has a different tolerance or intolerance to this... Relationships
