Have you ever had romantic feelings for someone of your same gender?

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

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2 mo

To answer the question myself I've never had romantic feelings for other guys, but I've been told that the way I can get insistent to have a male buddy sometimes gives them this impression.

Ironically, the only guy who kept consistent contact with me, turned out he liked me that way and disappeared as soon as he understood I wasn't interested.

[WhiteSteve]

Only Tom Brady at times, but it was purely about football and the sports-joy he brought me😅😂

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yes, quite a few and more than the opposite sex. I've only had crushes on other girls when I was a teenager and then I've had women flirt and stuff with me online. So, it's safe to say I have more queer experiences. Liking a guy seems more foreign to me, even though many people would expect me to know things like that. But I really don't so I can't relate (which is also expected of me).

[wolfcat87]

I've had pretty strong crushes here and there throughout life. I think that in the rare moments where I fall for a girl I feel more romantic towards women than I do towards men, but I feel more sexual towards men.

[SotiCoto]

Tommy Karevik. The present lead vocalist for Kamelot.
Amazing singer and full-time firefighter. Swedish.
Definitely top of the "would go gay for" list.

[OlderAndWiser]

No. I have a good friend who i love as a brother, but I’ve never had romantic feelings for a guy.

[EmmaMary]

Absolutely Not... Never Have and Never Will.

[Nikki1989]

Romantic, only twice, but I had had strong feelings for many women.

[Dargil]

There are men I have found unusually attractive and have said: If I were a female, I'd want to down with him.

[LiamJHayden]

Nope. But again, what others do is not my business.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, I have not. I have felt very close to my friends, and had a strong affinity to them. But I've never felt anything romantic.

[Jamie05rhs]

I totally get your update, man. I've had gay dudes try to come on to me before as well. I guess that's the thanks I get for loving everyone lol. At least they know I'm not a bigot!

[OfMiceandMen]

Not romantic feelings, but I have thought to myself... wow, he's a good looking guy, on occasion.

[helva]

Unsure if I had romantic or platonic feelings or was infatuated.

[FunkyMonkee]

Only once, by accident because he looked exactly like a girlfriend I just lost a few weeks before. Then, I found out he's a guy.

[MemeSupreme]

thought i did once but i was confused lol it's not for me

[Fireguy17]

no I have not.
I have never looked at one of my buddies and thought about doinking him.

[Anonymous]

Not romantic ones but feelings so uncanny of an actress I actually did end up meeting and becoming friends with.

[ab2shifty]

Uhhh

[AmandaYVR]

Nope.

[NathanDavis]

no, just very very few women

[Anonymous]

No, and I can say with 100% confidence that I never will.

[Wallythewalrus2]

I mean, maybe myself. Other than that, no.

[LazerBean]

Nope

[JacobJordan]

I am not gay so no

[Anonymous]

Yes a few times.