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It is impossible to lose something that was never yours to start with, and no one can steal that which isn't yours. You wanted him to like you, yet his preference of personality was hers, not... Flirting

Dysfunctional communication skills, focusing on what the other should do rather than their choice of words or actions, prioritizing entitlement over partnership, failure to define what each can... Break Up & Divorce

I've always viewed kissing as more intimate than intercourse. The focus and connection are more direct, and it's easier to be in tune with and react to subtle changes. Understand people are more... Relationships

The older people get, the more set in their ways they tend to become, and they're not necessarily tolerant of differences. Seniors also find that things that didn't bother them when they were... Relationships

There is generally some type of physical attraction to hold our interest over time, but it has nothing to do with being perfect. After all, it's not what we have but how we use what we have that... Relationships

I'm not fatalistic. I believe love is what we choose to create and nurture together. People often want to take the easy way, primarily focusing on their expectations of others rather than looking... Relationships

I'm single, because women, in general, appreciate me more for the potential they believe I can become than the person I actually am. They may start out showing appreciation, but, as they settle in... Relationships

Venting is a common behavior, and I understand some people believe they need to do so in order to reduce the pressure building inside. Unfortunately, the pattern can backfire, especially when... Relationships

The first step is to become observant. Notice changes in his demeanor and address them when they are first observed. Also, notice how your choices impact him and show consideration for his... Relationships

Of course it is possible. All it takes is for one to start showing more consideration for the other, considering how a choice might impact the other before taking any action. A bit of caring helps... Relationships

It takes two to argue, so don't give her anything to push against. You want to be honest with her, yet you don't want to be truthful. That inner conflict will often come out as conflict with... Relationships

They have as much to do with each other as you deciding whether you want to put on your right shoe first or your left one. You can be infatuated without caring about anyone other than yourself,... Relationships

It's the prevalence of entitlement. Rather than looking to see what we can do to improve our situation, we look to others to provide it for us and then get bent out of shape if it doesn't happen... Relationships

The parents are the role models for the children. How would being inconsiderate of your partner be a quality you'd want to pass on to your kids? Parents have the opportunity to open the eyes of... Relationships

Can you speak Swahili? If you say "no," then just try. You say you can't, as you've never been taught Swahili. How is this any different from being in a healthy relationship? People assume they... Relationships

After over 44 years as a licensed marriage and family therapist before retiring, I've seen it all. Can couples therapy be helpful? Yes, it can, but it usually isn't. The reason it often doesn't... Break Up & Divorce

Identify your expectations of yourself. Are they realistic? If not, get rid of them. If they are realistic, set a plan of attack and then follow through and measure your progress. Confidence comes... Relationships

People often focus on what they find to be attractive and don't consider what the other person views as attractive. Just because you're drawn to a person, that doesn't mean that person will be... Dating

Have you never accidentally stepped in dog poop? We're not always as aware as we'd like to be, so it is possible to end up in abusive relationships. The issue is not whether you found yourself in... Relationships

Normal just means common. War is common, so it is normal. Does that mean it is functional and ideal? You could say that not arguing isn't common, so, by definition, it isn't normal. We don't need... Relationships