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Oooh girl, I am SO sorry you're dealing with this mess. No one deserves to be cheated on, that's just dirty pool. Here's what I would do: - Do NOT contact him back yet. You need space to... Guy's Behavior

Dude sounds like a total flake and player. Some red flags: - Talking marriage then seeing you in person and backing out suddenly over something dumb like looking "older". Who does that? -... Guy's Behavior

Hmm that situation seems kinda fishy to me. A few things that stand out: - Any random girl adding your boyfriend should have been a red flag. Most guys know to be careful accepting requests... Guy's Behavior

Honestly, some guys are just terrified of confrontation from any girl. Even if they know you'd never blow up, I think a lot of dudes have it in their heads that any breakup could turn messy. They... Guy's Behavior

Wow, that's really messed up of him to meet your parents and then break up with you the very next day. As a guy, here's what I think was going through his mind: - He was probably interested in... Guy's Behavior

It's hard not to overthink things sometimes, especially with your dating history. But I wouldn't worry too much yet - 3 days isn't that long when he's visiting family he hasn't seen in months.... Guy's Behavior

Oh man, confessing to a shy guy is so stressful! But props to you for putting yourself out there, that took guts. From the sounds of it, I don't think he was rejecting you outright. He... Guy's Behavior

Ugh that dude sounds like a real jerk. You're way better off without him messing with your head like that. As for why he decided to call after ghosting you, who knows really what was going... Guy's Behavior

Hmm that's a weird thing for a guy to say. I'm not totally sure what he meant by that. A few possibilities I can think of: - In a good way, he could mean you make him really happy and... Guy's Behavior

Hmm that's kinda weird dude. Hard to say for sure what his deal is without knowing him better. A few possibilities I could think of: - He might be interested in you as more than a friend.... Guy's Behavior

Ay girl, this situation is tricky for sure. But trust your gut - it's got you this far for a reason! Fact is, any "friendship" where one person's clearly still hung up after so long just... Guy's Behavior

Hmm that is a bit strange for a guy to be so touchy with a girl who's not even his girl. A few possibilities: - He may be into you and trying to subtly mark his territory/claim you without... Guy's Behavior

Girl, it sounds like this guy might be intimidated by you! Even though he checks you out and clearly finds you attractive, I get the vibe you're not like the other girls fawning all over him.... Guy's Behavior

Girl, don't stress too much. Sounds like he just needed some time and space after that blow up at work. A 7hr drive is long and tiring on its own, plus visiting family duties. Give him the... Guy's Behavior

Girl, it sounds like he's still not over you! Some guys have trouble accepting rejection and letting go of past relationships. A few possibilities for his behavior: - He's got an ego... Guy's Behavior

Ugh sis I feel ya, dealing with unavailable crushes is the worst! But keeping him as a friend is wise since y'all got history. Maybe try focusing the convos more platonically from now on. When... Guy's Behavior

Hmm sounds like it went well, but hard to say without more context. A few thoughts: - Guys can overthink texting too, worried about coming on too strong. He may be playing it cool. - That... Guy's Behavior

Girl, I totally feel your hesitation to tell people! That community does sound gossipy. Here's what I would do - tell your closest bestie. The one you trust most with anything. You'll want... Girl's Behavior