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Anonymous
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Is this red flag I am getting used?

First of all, if you agreed to not leave him with a blood pact, well, whatever, that's all crap because it doesn't represent how healthy the relationship is and nothing happens if you actually... Dating

Anonymous
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Want to sit on boyfriends lap but not lead to anything further? How do I initiate it?

In a relationship, you should be free to do what you actually want to do, and to trust your boyfriend enough to communicate with him about that. If you want to sit on his lap, you can just... Dating

roxystars19
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He's dating someone else and I am so distracted with it. How do I handle a huge work event with this on my mind?

This thread is really confusing, it's not clear what signals he gave you before, or if you were in a flirt, in a relationship, had sex etc. So, since you say you didn't "rush feelings" I'll assume... Dating

Anonymous
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Girls, Would you ever date a guy that looked like this?

I agree with anything SueShe said because that's exactly what I was about to write, and I add that another aspect that makes you a potential date or not is not just your "specs" that you have... Dating

Anonymous
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Why did he get a girlfriend?

Probably he got a night of passion with this new girl, rushed things as hell to get a serious relationship with her, and now is starting to question if this was just a fling. Rushed couples can... Guy's Behavior

Bethany22
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How do you wish you had spent your 29th year?

Mine was horrible, I was recovering from a long psychological trauma and wasn't able to function anymore, completely unreliable like if I had mental disability. Now I recovered but I wish I had a... Girl's Behavior

Anonymous
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I didn’t have sex with my ONS/hookup when I met him the second time?

Well, sex is made in 2, so I assume he didn't initiate anything, but you didn't either. So you weren't in the mood as well, I think. If he perceived that, he was just being in tune with you I... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
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Do you think this is a funny thing to say to a woman who loves Star Wars?

I think it sounds bad. You aren't talking about Star Wars here, you are clearly using it as a "decoration" to make the question look better because you know you probably shouldn't ask this... Flirting

Anonymous
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Women consider me a fantasy, am I cursed?

My first thought is that you shouldn't pursue her. All the intro about how successful you are with women doesn't matter anything about the real issue which is a coworker is in a relationship and... Flirting

Anonymous
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Is it a bad sign if he doesn‘t want to date girls from his own country?

Traditional girls are for sure different than average European girls: they demand a marriage very early in life and want to settle down, with little or zero requirements about relationship skills... Dating

poneglyphs
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Is it hard sharing your life with someone after you been single for so long? Do women don't want to date virgins because it's a hassle?

It can be hard, yes. You get used to be single and you might fear losing your autonomy, getting overwhelmed when things are too rushed for you (and for you, any pace might feel rushed). I am... Dating

emmiebelle
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Should I take this as a bad sign and cut off contact with him?

I think the main problem here is: he told you, and proven you, how he is. And this is not going to change, his communication is not reliable to set up any expectation to get any consistent... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
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Is this consider a red flag?

I would mark it as a... Orange flag. He feels like controlling because your Facebook profile is yours and you are not even officially a couple as far as I understood, so it's far from being his... Guy's Behavior

Kileo123
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Why do most men like bad women?

"The guy you liked" is one guy, not "most". And as others said it's hard to picture there is a general preference for "bad girls" of that sort. This guy has his own reasons to have chosen her, and... Dating

Anonymous
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Has a person ever told you to get a job first before you could date them?

I never got this requirement directly like that but I can easily see why some guys want a woman who is financially independent, especially in the US where you don't have a lot of public services.... Dating

Anonymous
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Should we keep dating?

I think you are not excited right because you perfectly know he is more into you than viceversa. He is granted to you, you didn't have to "earn" anything from him, you didn't have to chase or to... Dating

Anonymous
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I love this guy but he has told me he’s feeling down and just needs to clear his mind that’s all. What should I do or say to that?

First of all this thing where you are "even" doesn't work like that. You won't fix a problem by adding another fault to the counterpart. At most you fixed the "justice" between you two, but you... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
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Why does my best guy friend treat me like his girlfriend, but says we're just friends?

This is not fully a friendship already, because I'm ready to bet that if one of you gets a proper partner tomorrow, the other one would get mad jealous about that. Right now you are each other's... Guy's Behavior

sportchamp618
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Girls, what is with the really gorgeous girls dating really fat guys? I mean what happened to survival of the fittest? Care to explain this recency?

Well it's anyway not something you see "very often", but it can happen. Normally you shouldn't question the partner choices of the others and if they are in a relationship with a person you... Dating

Anonymous
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Ex said he wants to be friends for 2 weeks before continuing our relationship?

The fact you break up and get back together often (you even say how it is "usually"), hides extreme communication issues between you two. Extreme. It means one of you two (or both) is being an... Guy's Behavior

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