Discover

Opinions

Show Only Superb
Show Only Most Helpful
Liked by Question asker
  • Questions
  • myTakes
Deimy
+1 y

He said he is singls but cheated on this girl with me and she is ok with that, defending him. He humilliated her while talking with me. Why?

She is of course not "ok" with that, she is defending him because probably she is scared of him and of losing him, it happens to really many victims of psychologically abusive relationships, even... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
+1 y

Can’t you be nice to a girl without being called a simp? Like what happened to that?

That is just not true, being "not a simp" doesn't automatically mean you are an ass, there is a whole range in between. I assume you behave like a simp with girls you like and you get no success... Flirting

Anonymous
+1 y

How do I get over major trust issues in my relationship?

With communication and cooperation. You aren't trusting his intentions towards you, his honesty, rather than his "impulses". Everyone has impulses but deciding to indulge on them or not is up to... Dating

Anonymous
+1 y

Is it normal to decrease the interest in women seeing they are more interested in our career than the real us?

If you ask if it's normal in the West in general I'd say no, here (EU) I never really heard any man getting this concern, and very rarely heard of women selecting partner around the "money"... Dating

Anonymous
+1 y

How do I stop being jealous that my boyfriend has female friends?

You are jealous because you don't trust him, in general. I can't know if it's rooted in you (trust issues) or if it's something he does that develops your jealousy while you normally wouldn't be,... Dating

twinson
+1 y

The person you've been flirting has invited you on a date, but there, he's constantly on his phone and texting someone. How would you react?

I would send visible but indirect signals that I find this not appropriate, like for example I would stare at him or quit talking with a serious face until he finishes his phone entertainment,... Dating

Anonymous
+1 y

Is it bad I don't want kids because I don't want to have ties with him forever if it doesn't work out?

It's not bad, you are actually making sure the kid grows with a proper childhood without disastrous situations of parents arguing and splitting, single mother in poverty and bad psychological... Relationships

poneglyphs
+1 y

How common do you meet crazy or mentality unstable girlfriends? I hear lot of these ex's from friends and coworkers?

It's all in your power, it depends on how you select women. If you just pick a random one because she is attractive, well, that for sure won't grant you she is mature, has relationship skills and... Dating

moonpie89
+1 y

Do you push people away when you're hurting ?

Yes, usually I need space to recover and to process what happened and people wantint to help me are generally a burden to "manage" rather than a help (even though they have good intentions), so I... Relationships

Anonymous
+1 y

Should I take it that he isn’t interested or he needs time?

He is an adult and unless he is an extreme introvert with low social skills who can't dare saying anything except using indirect ways, then he would let you clearly know if you are wanted or not.... Relationships

Sun_Kim-Ai
+1 y

Would you ever have an affair with a nun or a priest?

I personally don't think I would, an affair is based on sex and if I imagine a priest or a nun I would imagine someone much more inexperienced than me or who had only a type of hidden lovers and... Dating

Anonymous
+1 y

Should I accept going over his house?

It's all in your power. If go over his house, and you don't want to have sex but he expects that, well you just have to say "no", maybe reminding him you warned him earlier that you stated it was... Dating

barn_stormer
+1 y

Do fat girls deserve love too?

They "deserve" it in theory but typically there is no national service that assigns you a partner who gets forced to spend their life with you, faking love etc, so there is never a dynamic of... Dating

Anonymous
+1 y

Should I make the first move?

First of all be aware that any written thing will be screenshotted or photographed and sent to his closest friends. So be aware that it would become public although they'll play it cool to not let... Dating

PainusNdeeAnus
+1 y

Why do women want us to like them for more than their looks?

Because women are people and have their own personality and individuality. They want it to be recognized, because that's the very first step to obtain respect and a bond in general. That means... Girl's Behavior

Anonymous
+1 y

What do you think of guys who have abandoned their child / children? Would you ever date someone like that or stay with them?

I'd see multiple red flags here. He not only decided to have a kid while not being sure about wanting to be a father, but even when the kid was born he even abandoned it. It looks like someone who... Guy's Behavior

Amanda771
+1 y

Why does my boyfriend prioritize his female best friend more than me?

I tend to believe their friendship is genuine, I have a lot of male friends but especially childhood male friends feel more like siblings or family members, their presence is "obvious", it's not... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
+1 y

My man never tells me anything nice. Instead he does criticize me now and then. Am I right to feel bad about it?

"Am I right to feel bad about it", is not a question, you are right to feel in any way you do, in any circumstance. So your feelings are anyway valid regardless. It's what you -do- with that,... Guy's Behavior

Anonymous
+1 y

Why do girls have so many pillows in their bed?

It's really not:"why do -girls- [...]?", it is:"Why does that girl have 30 pillows on her bed?". It's not such a common thing for "girls" that I know of, this is the first time I hear about that... Girl's Behavior

7barbieringz
+1 y

Why does my guy friend only call when his girlfriend isn't around?

Assuming the girlfriend exists, his behaviour is strange. I have only male friends and the ones who got a girlfriend just meet me together with the girlfriend, or without, but the girlfriends know... Guy's Behavior

Xper Points 6,046
Moderation Success Rate
No. Superb Opinion
Loading...
Loading...
The question is being reviewed...
Compliance with site rules is being checked...
Final touches are being made, it's almost ready ✨