It doesn't have anything to do with intelligence. It all depends on what makes you happy. Some guys are happy getting married and some are happy bring single. That's all that matters.
It is a myth or a conspiracy stating that "smart men will never get married." They get married just as much as everybody else do. Overall, the people who believe in such like this are wearing tinfoil hats.
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Well , i do not want to get married because I do jot want to get divorce raped.
Why do I even want to live if I won't get married? .. it's just stupid.. I mean.. everybody wants to get married at least being with someone (one only person) for the rest of their lives
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I do not. I am pretty sure my opinion will not change as well.
With my question i wish to see if other have the same opinions as me and obviously there are I see marriage as an archaic and oppressive institution made for times woth a different socioeconomical situtation. As soon as women are equals than men and do not " answer" about their behaviour thanks to feminism and sexial liberation , i do not see the value of a marriage to a man that does not want children like me. As I said in some other comments nowdays the risks outweigh the benefits from it.
Interesting.. I don't share all your thoughts but I can just agree with you on that part "I don't see the value of a marriage to a man hat doesn't want children" .. thanks for replying.. and there's parts of what you said that's true but it's something complex
Mmm. Haha no. It’s whether if you love that person and your mentally ready and you will never find one like him/her. It’s thank you next, until you click with someone
Not marrying because of fear doesn't make you smart, it makes you a coward.
Choosing the right woman to marry is what makes you smart.
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Two questions : 1) How many women compatible with marriage do u know? 2) How many stable and " happy " marriages do u know? I know very little out of both of them.
Untrue because any smart man would be and should be afraid of marriage. If you think that there is equality of the genders in divorce court or any court for that matter, you don't know what you're talking about.
The right woman will respect me and be smart enough to know nothing changes when it goes well but its a massive pain when it goes wrong. And while woman are the gatekeepers to sex men are the gatekeepers to marriage. So with mens knowledge about the trap increasing and the current metoo climate we would be unwise to take unnessesary risk.
1) Its not about being compatible with marriage, it's about being compatible with a person. And pretty much all but one woman I know would do just fine in a marriage 2) I know of at least 9 marriages off the top of my head that are going beautifully, 2 of them even just had a kid. 1 is finally pregnant too. I know of 2 failing marriages, 1 failing because the guy (my coworker) cheats on his wife all the time, the second failing because the man has become an alcoholic and the wife (my coworker) is not going to continue subjecting their two children to his drunken behavior.
Its alright to be afraid of marriage, but to avoid it because of fear is cowardly.
And there are no "gatekeepers"
Get rid of this idea that women are evil and you'll find that there's actually something there that's worth the effort and the risk. The benefits outweigh the risks, and I say this as the person with the most earning potential out of me and my current boyfriend.
What benefit does a marriage have that a normal relationship does not have which outweighs the risk of divorce for the man. The idea that the girl would otherwise not be with him is not a valid answer since if she truly valued him she would stay regardless.
I am afraid there are " gatekeepers" and it exactly how sawno said. I am not saying women are evil. I am saying that risks outweigh the benefits. I do not want to get married and lose so much of my labour after the divorce and loosd my children. Every practical man in the West fears marriage. I am glad u know a lot of successful marriages , but thr bigger picture shows other things.
A boyfriend doesn't have the same rights if you're unresponsive in a hospital as your husband does. There are other legal issues like that that a marriage would take care of. If I die early, I dont want my money going to my siblings, I want it to go to my husband.
You can determine all these things in many separate legal documents but why do that when you can just do it all in one doc?
You should never go into marriage believing it will end.
And if you're so afraid of that, prenup. That way you're signing 2 legal documents instead of the 20 it would take to have the same level of legal commitment.
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It doesn't have anything to do with intelligence. It all depends on what makes you happy.
Some guys are happy getting married and some are happy bring single. That's all that matters.
Plenty of smart men have been married and plenty of smart men have never married.
Your marital status has nothing to do with how smart you are and vice versa.
I see no reason to get married. You can still be together the entire life in a monogamous relationship if thats what you want.
However splitting up is way easier if you are not married
Einstein got married and divorced. If he can't figure out women, then I shouldn't get married.
It is a myth or a conspiracy stating that "smart men will never get married." They get married just as much as everybody else do. Overall, the people who believe in such like this are wearing tinfoil hats.
Well , i do not want to get married because I do jot want to get divorce raped.
I'm a smart man and i got married. Best decision of my life.
You're 22, how long could you have been married for? 😂 Give it 2-3 more years buddy and then we'll see if it's the best decision you've ever made.
My uncle is old and never did and he has no money problems like everybody else so maybe
A lot of people want to be with someone for the rest of their lives.
Unhappy marriages and divorces are more common than happy.
You'd be a fool to.
I can do anything a married person can but without gambling everything I've ever worked for
Whatever helps you sleep at night. They say ignorance is bliss.
I agree. Ignorance is bliss.
I don't know but a lot of people are taught to marry the first person they have sex with which is a horrible call in most cases
If I think of smart men I immediately think of einstein. He was married. Twice, even, I believe.
But he regretted it.
What’s your source on that sweet cheeks
There are sources to prove that. And do not call ke " sweet cheeks ".
He was smart in one way maybe not in another
Not saying I am against marriage I am not but at least one of his wives took him for his money
Then state the source, sweet cheeks.
He definitely had to pay the first wife alimony him being who he was
Getting the government involved in my relationship is *INSANITY.*
They are less likely to rush into marriage and may get married later, but no smart men generally end up getting married.
I am never getting married because of the situation of laws and women in the west.
What do you mean? Are you from an eastern country?
No I am a westerner. But the laws in the west are against man both in divorce and child custody.
Oh right yes. You mean the female privilege of women almost always winning no matter who is at fault.
Yep , that is it.
Why do I even want to live if I won't get married? .. it's just stupid.. I mean.. everybody wants to get married at least being with someone (one only person) for the rest of their lives
I do not. I am pretty sure my opinion will not change as well.
Hi Mr Asker.. what do you want to achieve with this question and what's your view or opinion about it? Just curious don't take me wrong 😁
With my question i wish to see if other have the same opinions as me and obviously there are
I see marriage as an archaic and oppressive institution made for times woth a different socioeconomical situtation. As soon as women are equals than men and do not " answer" about their behaviour thanks to feminism and sexial liberation , i do not see the value of a marriage to a man that does not want children like me. As I said in some other comments nowdays the risks outweigh the benefits from it.
Are equals with men sorry.
Interesting.. I don't share all your thoughts but I can just agree with you on that part "I don't see the value of a marriage to a man hat doesn't want children" .. thanks for replying.. and there's parts of what you said that's true but it's something complex
What type of smart are we talking here? Book smart, street smart, socially smart?
He means smart as in someone ends up old with mad cash
Stephan Hawkins got married. So does my professors.
Most of my professors are too. But in this current form of society , marriage is a war deal.
Mmm. Haha no. It’s whether if you love that person and your mentally ready and you will never find one like him/her. It’s thank you next, until you click with someone
Well, good luck finding a guy. But I am sure i am never getting married no matter what.
I'm not playing on getting married either but it's for self worth reasons
Haha I have a guy thanks. Good for you
There are a lot of highly intelligent men who are or who have been married.
Not marrying because of fear doesn't make you smart, it makes you a coward.
Choosing the right woman to marry is what makes you smart.
Two questions : 1) How many women compatible with marriage do u know?
2) How many stable and " happy " marriages do u know?
I know very little out of both of them.
Untrue because any smart man would be and should be afraid of marriage. If you think that there is equality of the genders in divorce court or any court for that matter, you don't know what you're talking about.
The right woman will respect me and be smart enough to know nothing changes when it goes well but its a massive pain when it goes wrong. And while woman are the gatekeepers to sex men are the gatekeepers to marriage. So with mens knowledge about the trap increasing and the current metoo climate we would be unwise to take unnessesary risk.
1) Its not about being compatible with marriage, it's about being compatible with a person. And pretty much all but one woman I know would do just fine in a marriage
2) I know of at least 9 marriages off the top of my head that are going beautifully, 2 of them even just had a kid. 1 is finally pregnant too. I know of 2 failing marriages, 1 failing because the guy (my coworker) cheats on his wife all the time, the second failing because the man has become an alcoholic and the wife (my coworker) is not going to continue subjecting their two children to his drunken behavior.
Its alright to be afraid of marriage, but to avoid it because of fear is cowardly.
And there are no "gatekeepers"
Get rid of this idea that women are evil and you'll find that there's actually something there that's worth the effort and the risk. The benefits outweigh the risks, and I say this as the person with the most earning potential out of me and my current boyfriend.
What benefit does a marriage have that a normal relationship does not have which outweighs the risk of divorce for the man. The idea that the girl would otherwise not be with him is not a valid answer since if she truly valued him she would stay regardless.
I am afraid there are " gatekeepers" and it exactly how sawno said.
I am not saying women are evil. I am saying that risks outweigh the benefits. I do not want to get married and lose so much of my labour after the divorce and loosd my children. Every practical man in the West fears marriage.
I am glad u know a lot of successful marriages , but thr bigger picture shows other things.
A boyfriend doesn't have the same rights if you're unresponsive in a hospital as your husband does. There are other legal issues like that that a marriage would take care of. If I die early, I dont want my money going to my siblings, I want it to go to my husband.
You can determine all these things in many separate legal documents but why do that when you can just do it all in one doc?
You should never go into marriage believing it will end.
And if you're so afraid of that, prenup. That way you're signing 2 legal documents instead of the 20 it would take to have the same level of legal commitment.
It's true if you add on "to awful people" at the end