If a prenup, a document that enforces a certain financial commitment in a certain way, is a lack of trust and confidence... wouldn't a marriage, a document that enforces certain financial commitment in a certain way also show lack of trust and confidence in a relationship?
What's the difference between one piece of paper and another piece of paper, both of which specify legal financial obligations between a couple?
@bamesjond0069 When you get married you promise in front of God and all your friends and family that you will always love and care about another person. It is a pledge based in honor more than it is a legal vehicle. Lawyers and politicians sort of corrupted it by introducing things like no fault divorce and tax advantages into it. A prenup is a legally binding document protecting one or both of the people in the marriage from each other.
So why even get legally married if it's a promise before God friends and family? Only if one of you didn't trust each other would the legal aspect be important at all.
I'm already in an open relationship which I've explained before. A legal ceremony wouldn't change anything. The only advantage to marriage at some point would be for tax purposes.
Love of my life? Did I ever call anyone that in conversation with you? What we do is consensual. It gives her pleasure, so that gives me pleasure. "Value" doesn't come into play.
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No but she certainly needs to be rich if she should have me sign a marriage contract, but she also needs to sign my prenup.
Nope. It's their assets before they got with me, and relationships and marriages aren't 100% guaranteed so I would understand.
No, I can see why he would want one. I might do the same if I was in his shoes.
yes. it shows a lack of trust anmd not much confidence in the relationship.
If a prenup, a document that enforces a certain financial commitment in a certain way, is a lack of trust and confidence... wouldn't a marriage, a document that enforces certain financial commitment in a certain way also show lack of trust and confidence in a relationship?
What's the difference between one piece of paper and another piece of paper, both of which specify legal financial obligations between a couple?
Like why get legally married? Don't you trust me to take care of you? Lol
@bamesjond0069 When you get married you promise in front of God and all your friends and family that you will always love and care about another person. It is a pledge based in honor more than it is a legal vehicle. Lawyers and politicians sort of corrupted it by introducing things like no fault divorce and tax advantages into it.
A prenup is a legally binding document protecting one or both of the people in the marriage from each other.
So why even get legally married if it's a promise before God friends and family? Only if one of you didn't trust each other would the legal aspect be important at all.
Trust doesn't matter after the divorce
Not at all. I'd be the first to offer a prenup. Men get screwed often in courts anyway.
No, they've made sacrifices to get to where they are in life. It wouldn't be fair of me to take that from them.
No, but I think I might wait till he changes his mind
Why?
@marish01 I don’t even want to be married and if I did it would be for Love 💕 and there wouldn’t be a need for a PreNup
1. Prenups get thrown out of court fairly regularly.
2. You are not going to stick with your partner for better or for worse, for sickness and in health, when you have a parachute to deploy at any time.
No, but I wouldn't want to marry in the first place. LOL
Why? would that stop you or your woman from sleeping with others?
Wtf? So you think a piece of paper will stop people from doing that? You live in. Dream world of religion.
I'm already in an open relationship which I've explained before. A legal ceremony wouldn't change anything. The only advantage to marriage at some point would be for tax purposes.
My point was there is no need for people like you to get married. It's meaningless.
Marriage is meaningless to everyone. It's more religious "traditions". Divorce rates are high.
@Paul09 speak for yourself.
It's mostly meaningless for "people like me" lol... except when it offers financial or societal benefits.
Do you value the men that fuck the love of your life?
Love of my life? Did I ever call anyone that in conversation with you? What we do is consensual. It gives her pleasure, so that gives me pleasure. "Value" doesn't come into play.
You said your significant other.
So other men give you pleasure by pleasuring her
I get pleasure seeing HER pleased. Spin the words any way you like. Who said it's men, or only men, giving her pleasure? LOL
Whatever. This poly bisexual turns me off. I'm done.
Good !
No I woukd not if marriage
No, I would not be mad as long as I could read what I was agreeing to before signing
I have enough so no. As a guy I am interested in love and pussy. Not money.
I don't think I would be mad cause it's just a way of being practical.
It's their money and they want to secure it, what's wrong with that?
Yes because that's would hurt my feelings because I'd feel like that then didn't trust me.
God Bless
Better no. That’s just protecting them. I wouldn’t mind signing one if she was.
But there aren’t a lot of rich women out there
Nope. I know several methods for getting separate property declared as community property.
Yes because if I’m in love (vise versa ) and made a vow in public (like church) and in front God. You’re not going anywhere….. hahahahaha
Nope... I wouldn't ever be in that predicament to start with.
Nope, I am not getting married for money. I am only marrying for love.
I do not believe in "marriages" . But if I did, I'd definitely ask for one.