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What, in your opinion, makes a man ready for marriage and kids at 20 to 30 vs. those who wait till they're 40 or even older? (Page 2)
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A man can choose to marry or not. It's a free will.
Of course. I never said it wasn't. I was asking what was the difference between those who ARE ready for marriage and kids (ESPECIALLY AT AN EARLY AGE IN LIFE), vs. those who aren't.
For those who marry early. They see it as an opportunity to fellow their parents footstep. My cousin married at 23 because he saw that his mother got married at 18. So. b
Being strongly independent in marrying is a great beneficial.
My friend got married at 49. To his old high school classmate. He wanted to see what marriage would be about. But would'nt cared for it.
@christoff92 I see. Well, thanks for that info. 👍
But the consequences of not doing it are way harsher than doing it.
In my observation white men hate to have child of his own. Asian men are mediocre and black men want to stay as a baby himself. I don’t think men are that pond of offspring. In animal world especially insect, they just lay sperm and move on?
Everyone is different and that is the truth and reality. There is no "set age" for any of these life events.
I know that everyone is different, you're right , duh, however. I was just wondering what are the differences in mentality (or maybe external circumstances) of people who are READY at those ages I mentioned vs. the other side of it. Because everytime I go out (like to the mall or just anywhere really), I am always seeing people, mothers in particular, that are either pregnant heavily or pushing two plus kids in a stroller or one stroller and another child holding their hand or walking/running close by. It's a sweet pic to see, but SOMEBODY had to tap that in order for that lady to get that way!
It's not all mentally either. It's financially, emotionally, and maturity as well. Do you want a man who has no sense of finances running your household with a kid or more? Or someone who is psychologically insane? It depends on more factors if they have a steady job, if kids/family is what they want, and what their goals are.
If they want either
I don't want either one, sorry, not sorry
Hahahaha, having children after 40 years is completely useless, when they are teenagers the parents will be old, besides that women after 40 years give children with congenital problems and die in childbirth.
Says the guy who knows nothing about age.
1. My aunt had children (twins to be exact) at 48 so there goes YOUR theory! Plus, the girl twin was in the gifted program!
2. Grow up and stop making fun of me or people asking the question! What's with you? ! ! You're mean.
3. I was asking mostly about MEN and their experiences!
4. I could lie about my age because I can pretty much PASS for someone a lot younger than my age.
5. There's always adoption anyway if I was really that desparate! Why doesn't it HAVE to have your genetic line? !
Usually an upbringing/maturity thing.
I definitely want to be in control financially
Every man is different
I know that. I was just hoping to get some insights as to WHY the difference and how. If not where. 🙂
Stupidity and denial work well.
How is it stupid to procreate/spread your genetic line?
If that were the case, boy are there a lot of "stupid" people... which is probably true haha.
Divorce is a serious hazard for men, so getting married is stupid for men.
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A fair legal system.