Me and my husband separated because of his infidelity. Me and our two kids had to live with my father. After 3 months, my father didn't want us to live there anymore... because he wants to be able to bring a friend over... and he wants his personal time and he feels we should work it out for the kids. I understand that... I asked my husband if he can pick us up because I have nowhere to go. I don't want the kids on the street and he has a house. He said there nothing he can do... Just pray about it... I'm hurt because he's not thinking about the kids. I can be homeless but I rather my kids to be alright. He told me too look into shelters. I tried calling him and texting... Nothing.
Your ex is a piece of work. First he cheats on you and now he is telling you to look into shelters with his own children? That is wrong.
I'm disappointed in your father as well I understand he prefer to live alone without kids around but to throw his daughter and grandkids out on the streets?
I'm so sorry for this I hope you can find a home for you and the kids
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What's with these two? Is the house communal property? Dad can suck a bag of dicks - that's some cold shit there. You shouldn't "work it out" for kids. Don't fall for that trap. If you do pray is there a way to solicit their help? You need pro bono legal help ASAP
here is what will likely happen. you either get an apartment to house yourself and your kids, or your kids will have to stay with their dad, which can give him more custody than you since you cannot secure housing for your children.
The consequence of living in west with heartless people without faith. Get divorce then. Make him pay the child support. Find a job.
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after you separated ex is right. your parents should help you find a place.
after all your DAD is the one changing the situation.
Sounds like your husband is just like your dad. You can either give him the children if he’s willing to take them. File for divorce, also they ti get some child support. How old are your kids?
You can take legal action dummy. Also cut your dad off he is a piece of shit. I can see why you chose a bad husband.
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