We have had ups and downs and on and offs a few times now but we can’t stay away from each other and each time we are together our feelings grow more and more. We both know it and feel it and have stated so. However, he’s an attorney and just started this job and he feels so stressed from it at times, so when he feels good and relaxed about his work, then suddenly he’s so ready for me and is everything between us is perfect.. but then a new week may start and it may be a horrible week, and suddenly he “can’t do us” and it’s too high maintenance for him right now and he says we should stop, but then he always 100% comes back and regrets it because then his work becomes manageable again. He’s only been here for a month so far (at his new job)... should I just wait out the beginning and hope it gets better? Please keep in mind I have deep feelings for him, more than anyone I’ve ever met in my life and I would be incredibly heartbroken to say goodbye. But I also get so heartbroken when he suddenly pulls the rug out because I’m just added stress/distraction because he doesn’t have time for me. And when I say time I mean sometimes he can only see me once every 2 weeks and that just really drags on me.
Guy and I have deep feelings for each other but whenever he gets too stressed from work he completely pushes me out. What to do?
