I knew my ex for 6 or 7 years out of that time we dated for 3 years and lived together after having a child for 2 yrs. We've had our ups and downs but I still love him to bits. We've been apart for a year and as time goes on my feelings are going up and down like a yo-yo, meaning one minute I feel like I'm over him and the next I'm so in love my feelings hurt and I cry.
He says he doesn't have any feelings left but was still willing to help me until I went on holiday with my friends. Since I returned he picked us up from the airport took my friends home and then we argued. Contact is now very minimum and he will sometimes go 4-8wks without seeing his child (his choice) and now wants to take me to court for access. Also after returning from holiday he deleted all of my friends and family on face book, not sure if he deleted pictures of us from our baby's christening but I do know that every other picture ha had where we both look stunning from holiday was deleted...I deleted all of his ages ago of face book but not on other sites because I haven't logged into them. We have both joined a couple of dating sites. He has been checking me out on one of the sites but I'm not sure if he knew it was me or not as there's no profile picture but my information is correct. He commented on one of my blogs stating that I was unique etc. I commented back after a while with some hints that I was I. From there he has hidden his account after seeing my comment. Since the break up we have chilled out quiet a few times and I've received gifts off him on a couple of occasions...All this stopped after I went on holiday. I have dated other guys but still feel hurt and in love. I have tried to tell him in the past how I feel but he says it's not what he wants to hear. We have slept together a few times since the break up and he has surprised me with new things. I don't understand this man and get confused when things are on my mind because of the stress, manipulation and games. I would really like some advice please...
He says he doesn't have any feelings left but was still willing to help me until I went on holiday with my friends. Since I returned he picked us up from the airport took my friends home and then we argued. Contact is now very minimum and he will sometimes go 4-8wks without seeing his child (his choice) and now wants to take me to court for access. Also after returning from holiday he deleted all of my friends and family on face book, not sure if he deleted pictures of us from our baby's christening but I do know that every other picture ha had where we both look stunning from holiday was deleted...I deleted all of his ages ago of face book but not on other sites because I haven't logged into them. We have both joined a couple of dating sites. He has been checking me out on one of the sites but I'm not sure if he knew it was me or not as there's no profile picture but my information is correct. He commented on one of my blogs stating that I was unique etc. I commented back after a while with some hints that I was I. From there he has hidden his account after seeing my comment. Since the break up we have chilled out quiet a few times and I've received gifts off him on a couple of occasions...All this stopped after I went on holiday. I have dated other guys but still feel hurt and in love. I have tried to tell him in the past how I feel but he says it's not what he wants to hear. We have slept together a few times since the break up and he has surprised me with new things. I don't understand this man and get confused when things are on my mind because of the stress, manipulation and games. I would really like some advice please...
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