orig he broke up w/me because he felt like I had more feelings than he had for me.. but he kept sayin he wanted to get dinner in a few weeks to talk.. he kept pushing it off until I finally said if he wants to talk we need to talk because I wasn't dragging it on anymore. that's when I found her stuff at his place already and told him I was not ever going to be with him again. (he was trying to force me to NOT go into the bathroom where our puppys crate was) and that's when I saw her stuff there.
Sorry, but plenty of girls that age aren't very different mentally from girls in late twenties. And they're a lot hotter.
I know women hate it and look down at it when men their age get younger women--but that's just how it is, something men can and often will do. And according to reports, it's awesome, lmao.
If you agreed with it, I would be shocked. Women hate it when men their age date younger girls, because they must. It's a hatred borne of need. If men your age, late twenties, all decided to chase younger women when they hit the age to marriage, it would spell a lot of trouble for single women who didn't marry early. However, as a man, I have heard of huge advantages of dating younger girls when you hit late twenties--at which time, dating becomes *so* much easier for men, haha.
As much as girls will down-vote me: the fact is, if you want to marry and have a family, not only is a younger girl going to look up to you more, she's probably hotter (more in the peak of her personal hotness, haha) and if you want kids, a younger girl gets pregnant a lot faster. Also, she just has a lot less *history* and emotional baggage. That, and if you can get a younger girl, as a guy... why would you *not*?! Lol!
haha yeah, but I feel like that's OK though - a 16 year old dating a guy who was 18..or up to 21 is somewhat normal. they are still in the same mental state - they are all still learning who they are and developing themselves as a person. after 21 I think it gets a little iffy. I say that because 21 year olds are obviously legal to drink and its tough to date someone you can't take to the bar with you. and a guy who is 23 dating a 16 year - there is something wrong with that guy's head haha
definitely not asking him. his friends pretty much told me that he was bragging about his hot new chick. they were all shocked. (see the comment I wrote above yours to the other guy)
orig he broke up w/me because he felt like I had more feelings than he had for me.. but he kept sayin he wanted to get dinner in a few weeks to talk.. he kept pushing it off until I finally said if he wants to talk we need to talk because I wasn't dragging it on anymore. that's when I found her stuff at his place already and told him I was not ever going to be with him again. (he was trying to force me to NOT go into the bathroom where our puppys crate was) and that's when I saw her stuff there.
Is not your problem if she is 18 or 22 if she likes him and they have communication is not a big deal. few years sew nothing so this problem is subjective Is possible a girl at 20 be more mature then a 30. Or not
lol I'm not though. I am actually a very good looking girl myself and have a lot of guys asking me out. ultimate betrayal is cheating. I just want to know what a guy his age would have in common with a girl that age! :P I think its disgusting.
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Just let the guy go free , your the one who broke up
He makes a point...if you broke up with HIM, why are you so concerned about his dating practices?
orig he broke up w/me because he felt like I had more feelings than he had for me.. but he kept sayin he wanted to get dinner in a few weeks to talk.. he kept pushing it off until I finally said if he wants to talk we need to talk because I wasn't dragging it on anymore. that's when I found her stuff at his place already and told him I was not ever going to be with him again. (he was trying to force me to NOT go into the bathroom where our puppys crate was) and that's when I saw her stuff there.
He moved on , maybe you should too
Sorry, but plenty of girls that age aren't very different mentally from girls in late twenties. And they're a lot hotter.
I know women hate it and look down at it when men their age get younger women--but that's just how it is, something men can and often will do. And according to reports, it's awesome, lmao.
This actually makes sense...
well, men in their 20s also hate it that all the girls go for older guys. everyone hates it, everyone does it.
i disagree with everything you just sad, sorry. lol
If you agreed with it, I would be shocked. Women hate it when men their age date younger girls, because they must. It's a hatred borne of need. If men your age, late twenties, all decided to chase younger women when they hit the age to marriage, it would spell a lot of trouble for single women who didn't marry early. However, as a man, I have heard of huge advantages of dating younger girls when you hit late twenties--at which time, dating becomes *so* much easier for men, haha.
As much as girls will down-vote me: the fact is, if you want to marry and have a family, not only is a younger girl going to look up to you more, she's probably hotter (more in the peak of her personal hotness, haha) and if you want kids, a younger girl gets pregnant a lot faster. Also, she just has a lot less *history* and emotional baggage. That, and if you can get a younger girl, as a guy... why would you *not*?! Lol!
Well that's not a relationship! That's called "babysitting"!
She's hot or she's really awesome to hang out with. Like I mean I would go out with her and she would make my day kind of girl! that's probably why..
When I was 16, all the girls dated guys 18-23 years old.
You girls started it.
haha yeah, but I feel like that's OK though - a 16 year old dating a guy who was 18..or up to 21 is somewhat normal. they are still in the same mental state - they are all still learning who they are and developing themselves as a person. after 21 I think it gets a little iffy. I say that because 21 year olds are obviously legal to drink and its tough to date someone you can't take to the bar with you. and a guy who is 23 dating a 16 year - there is something wrong with that guy's head haha
We are allowed to drink at 16. By the way, it is a question of maturity, no doubt. Maybe the girl is very mature, you don't know...
Well you broke up so why don't you let them go...maybe its for booty/looks.. you really can't know why unless you ask him
definitely not asking him. his friends pretty much told me that he was bragging about his hot new chick. they were all shocked. (see the comment I wrote above yours to the other guy)
You never know, some girls are very intelligent at that age. I think you need to move on.
why do you care if your not jealous? you broke up with him move on who cares live your life let him live his
orig he broke up w/me because he felt like I had more feelings than he had for me.. but he kept sayin he wanted to get dinner in a few weeks to talk.. he kept pushing it off until I finally said if he wants to talk we need to talk because I wasn't dragging it on anymore. that's when I found her stuff at his place already and told him I was not ever going to be with him again. (he was trying to force me to NOT go into the bathroom where our puppys crate was) and that's when I saw her stuff there.
It isn't like she was 18 or 19...a female at 22-23 can have the mental maturity to date a guy in his late 20s.
Is not your problem if she is 18 or 22 if she likes him and they have communication is not a big deal. few years sew nothing so this problem is subjective
Is possible a girl at 20 be more mature then a 30. Or not
Who cares, she's young. When you're a man at that age, you get your pick of the litter.
I don't think its any of your business,your broke up so you should move on for your own sake.
Does she look anything like you?
honestly I haven't seen her. I would rather not, you know?
You won't move on and chances are you will stalk this guy
nope! haven't talked to him in over 2 weeks and haven't been to his house in the same.
Well you seem like you would because you clearly are jealous and won't get over this soon.
you got me all wrong!
If you asked this then you are jealous. Not caring=not bringing it up.
Move on as jealousy is ugly
You are jealous...obviously jealous
lol I'm not though. I am actually a very good looking girl myself and have a lot of guys asking me out. ultimate betrayal is cheating. I just want to know what a guy his age would have in common with a girl that age! :P I think its disgusting.
Jealousy is an ugly emotion. You wreak of it
The girl was only asking about his thought process...give the girl a break... its not an uncommon question...
Jealous
From the looks of it you are either a multiple account of the QA bengi or just as petty, jealous and judgmental.
i don't know the girl from a bar of soap but I do know what she's going through...end of story...i don't think she's jealous
Thank you Bengi.
Hottie ;p
thanks
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