What are the chances he would we be serious with me, we are dating?

[Anonymous]

I've known this guy I use to date in the past and we didn't work out because we were young.

He messaged me back stating him and his fiancee had broken up for good. She left him and she's also pregnant. She had dumped the poor man like so many times throughout their relationship due to differences they tried to make work.

I remember when he moved on to another woman, had sex with her and his ex showed up to grab somethings and he left the new girl in the car and dumped her for his ex right back over again

Well he doesn't love her anymore and is tired of not feeling appreciated. He told her he will always love her but is no longer in love with her.

Now he's talking to me :) she is only 5 months pregnant.

I like him so much. He's great and we are much more mature now. What are my chances with him if he said he's not in love with her anymore due to her dumping him so many times and possibly stealing something from him.

I do know he wants to see his baby after she gives birth.

Updates

1 y

Again he told her he's not in love with her anymore.

[Anonymous]

I dont see this as good. he's very much still in love with his ex. You need to give him like a year or 2. I never mess with men who are just about to have a baby. Because those men still sleep with their baby mammas believe it or not. I'm not someone to give bad news but I'm honest.

[Asker]

Him and I are together everyday. He doesn't sleep with her. In fact she moved out of his apartment when she left him. He works from home I'm always with him. We have sex everyday. 🤪

he's not in love with her anymore. He said he was deeply.

[Opinion Owner]

We will see in 5 months

[Asker]

I know she dumped the man like 20 times. He is so fed up and over her crap. Girl she stole his computer 🖥 and important stuff. He would be a nut to run back to her regardless of a baby. But yeah so far we've been having a blast and I hope it lasts. A couple of her things are still over here. Not sure how he plans on giving it back.

I caught him looking at her IG photos 3 days ago but then he blocked her after viewing her page. I asked him what was that about. He said nothing.

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm interesting well I do hope things will good well for you two. If not I'll be here waiting to help out

[Asker]

True :)

[spartan55]

Poor guy, just can't stop himself from cheating... enjoy.

[Asker]

You clearly didn't read the story. Enjoy

[spartan55]

Uh, sure did... you seem to think that guy is the victim... not smart.

[Asker]

I think he's the victim because his ex gg admitted to dumping him several times dur to differences. He's now enjoying time with me. Only issue is he isn't posting me and seems to be hiding me on his social media
Not sure why if he's not with his fiancée anymore.

[spartan55]

She probably dumped him because he is cheatin shitbag. Yeah, he's the victim when he kept going back for more... oookay. 🙄
You claim he isn't with his 'fiance' any longer. So they aren't together, yet they are still getting married? It all sounds really trashy and fucked up. If he isn't fucking her now he will be soon.

[Asker]

She wasn't ready to marry him. He somewhat forced her into it from what she told Me. He was obsessed with her like crazy. She gave his ring back and left. She's pregnant with his baby and has mixed feelings. He says he wants to see the baby then he says since they couldn't work things out he doesn't really want to be present for the child.

I do know he told her in front of me that he loves her but no longer in love with her anymore and that she hurt him and he's drained.

I am now the new woman in his life. We've been having a blast but he's been acting weird not sure why. He said it best for them to break up because she was emotionally abusive.

Not sure why he has his ups and downs if he's happy they aren't together anymore.

We've been having fun though. I caught him looking at her social media page but then he blocked it. So he has her on block means he is definitely over her.

[spartan55]

So you think because he blocks her he is over her? Wow, that's not smart.
I will predict she gets ZERO child support from Mr Wonderful... 😂

[Asker]

As dumb as it sounds... everyone called him an idiot for going back to her. I went swimming over his apartment today.

She texted him begging him back after I posted photos of myself at his apartment. He didn't answer her though. I asked him to block her texts but he didn't he just kept reading them.

he's not going to get back with her. She treated him too terrible. She texted him stuff like I want our family back. Come up with a plan to make this work and stuff.

She also called me trash in the text. I then proceeded to take more photos and she saw my stories. I wanted to let her know I was at his apartment. However, I didn't take a photo with him. He doesn't post photos of us YET.

Anyway she's suddenly begging him back. I don't think he will go back ot her. She has hurt him too many times. I remember him crying over her years ago.

How can I be helpful in this I'm wondering. No they were not married. They were only engaged and they had a bad break up. After that he called me up do now we hang out while she texts him like she's desperate lol.

[spartan55]

And then he gets tired of you, or you two get into a fight and he goes to hang out with her. The red 🚩 flags are there, you don't seem to mind.

[Asker]

He has never hung out with her and then hung out with me. I didn't hear from him until 2 years after which is when she broke up with him. We started speaking recently and enjoying each other's company.

The only bad thing is him pursing her over me but he has since apologized and said she ruined his life by hurting him so many times and now she's pregnant by him.

That's all I'm saying. So doesn't seem like you think he will stay with me then? Then why did he run back after years wanting to hang out with me when she dumped him after the 100th time. He even bought her a ring and she threw it in the trash during an argument.

He got the ring back and she did it a second time crying saying he loved her. She just can't stay with one man and gets bored fast. So unfortunate for her and dumb of him.

[spartan55]

I'd be interested to hear her side of all that.

[Asker]

Yup.

[spartan55]

That's why I mentioned him portraying himself the victim. So are you just going to take his word for ALL of those things he said?

[Asker]

I've read text messages of her breaking his heart so yes. He would literally cry for this girl and pray she would stop leaving him to go out and have fun.

She stressed him out a lot. Now he's with me having fun. I'm just wondering why he continues to read her messages instead of blocking them.

Their baby isn't even due until November and I'm 100 percent sure she's flirting with him because he showed me the texts with her number. He just ignoees her.

Her last text was , " i love you , lets continue with our family and would you like me to stop texting you?"

He never answered that and I don't understand why. I asked him if he told her to stop texting and he said no not yet.

What's the hold up? Block her you know? She's talking about loving you

[spartan55]

I wouldn't be havin that shit. You going to put up with it? What do you think happens when the baby is born.

[Asker]

Like most couples. Him and I would still be dating except I'd have to wait for him to see his baby I guess. I dunno :(

The baby will be fresh and new. She probably won't have it around like that.

He still hasn't blocked her but everyone is telling me because they need line of communication open.

[spartan55]

Like most couples? Lol... honey nothing about this deal is common or normal. Is this guy really your best option, or your only option? Tbh, he doesn't sound like a good guy, at all.

[Asker]

he's sweet, soft spoken , talented, funny and romantic.

[Guy13]

No…not good.

[Asker]

What why not?