You should help her to stop feeling self conscious. So now if you meet an amazing girl that's on the bigger side, you're gonna stop yourself from getting to know her better just because she may feel self-conscious? What if she, as a person, can give you the best moments of your life? Are you just gonna let that go because she's bigger?
I don't agree with your title. People should be with who they want to be, no matter how fit or how big someone is. Self consciousness shouldn't be a problem if there's a strong emotional connection, if she knows you don't care about her body, and that you want to be with her, she shouldn't feel the need to be self conscious.
As a guy who goes to the gym I notice that girls can get the feeling they are inferior. Since so many of them rely on looks and nothing else, when the guy looks better than her and she is attracted, she is gonna have to figure out another means of attracting him and this stumps them.
I do think lifestyle wise they struggle as well. Fat people typically lead sedentary lifestyles while fit people will want to do physically demanding activities.
I don't agree with that. I find that it's more skinny and fit girls who think they aren't skinny enough and are more insecure about their bodies always talking about how they need to lose weight. Most of the big girls I know are secure with themselves.
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(My reaction when an already skinny or fit girl says she needs to go on a diet.)
Weight probably does play an important role in the amount of self confidence she have. But not to say that fit people need to e with fit people and vice verses I'm bigger and been with tons of fit guys the key is to make sure you don't really care about their weight.
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just go with what you like, that goes for everyone.
That's really dumb. People should just date who they like. So their insecure, make them feel better. And if you can't no big deal, just accept their company. Jut date oh you like and are attracted too
She constantly kept comparing herself to you, that's why she felt insecure.
Get someone who is confident of themselves (no matter their weight).
When you find that you will hear how ridiculous the title or your question sounds.
Eh. My ex was on the "bigger" side and I'm skinny and small. We were ok with that. Honestly, he wasn't my "type". Cuz I like skinny, scrawny guys and my ex was stocky/husky a bit. But he was confident about his body and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
That girl may be self conscious. But not every bigger girl is. In fact, lots of big women seem to be very secure with themselves.
Adults should just date who they wanna date.
If you fall in love with someone it is what it is.
I consider myself fit, but I'm willIng to love whomever. That being said, I have certain things that I find attractive in girls, and honestly I need to be attracted to someone to fall in love.
But I'm not one to tell fate where to strike.
1) 'fit' people can be insecure
2) 'bigger' people can be confident
3) If a 'bigger' person has self esteem issues, it isn't necasarily because of their weight
4) you're a moron
I don't agree, I think you should be with whoever you're attracted to, the size shouldn't matter. People have different definitions of "fit" and "bigger" and just because someone is "bigger " doesn't mean they don't necessarily have confidence.
Who cares? So much shallowness here. I sort of understand what you mean, but I still don't see why it matters. It's all about preferences and personalities.
Well yeah she would see how fit you were which caused her to feel bad. I don't think that is true and should be that way it's kind of wrong and not cool. Everyone would be with who ever they are attracted to.
Next time you have a thought, just... let it go.
(No that was not a frozen reference, it was a Ron White quote)
i disagree... what if a fit person LIKES a bigger person and vice versa?
I don't agree. Although I do agree that slimmer people just get along with slimmer ones. However, I have a crush on a bigger guy. And I don't think he looks big at all
The chances are that's what they are going to do anyway. But I would date a fat person but he had to be really funny and a good person.
But I perfer fit brunttees and blond. but that's just me
People should be with whoever they like as long as they are attracted to each other.
It has nothing to do with her weight, but all about to do with her age. 9 out of 10 girls are self conscious about their bodies at your age.
What is it like inside your funny little brain? It must be so boring.
No I don't agree and a bigger person might still Judge another bigger person. And a fit person
Might like a girl more curvy.
No. People should just go for who they like and not restrict themselves because of stupid stereotypes.
Yes, we should start controlling who breeds with whom. lol
I disagree. Different people like different things in a partner.
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