Guys, how would you react if a girl started crying after losing her virginity?

[Anonymous]

Not full out crying but she was tearing up a little, how would that make you feel? and what would you do if that happened?

[WordSmithing]

This has happened to me and I have to admit, it is one of the single most unpleasant experiences I've dealt with, at least it was at first. I felt so terrible, I had inflicted emotional AND physical pain on someone that I cared deeply for. Immediately the "mood" was ruined and my focus shifted to her well being. We ended up laying there for quite some time cuddled up in bed until her tears dried out. It was also my first time and despite the utmost gentleness on my part it was not a pleasant experience on her end, and for that I felt like a terrible human being!

It ended up being something more romantic than it was awkward or depressing in the end. However it can put a dampener on the sexual relationship if you don't confront the issue head on and smooth it over. If you are asking out of personal experience I absolutely encourage, even urge you to provide comfort to the man involved (sounds odd I know). It might be physically painful for woman but the men in these situations suffer a different, perhaps less severe, emotional trauma.

Don't let him think he did something wrong, or that he is at fault (unless he was unkind). I know I felt an unease and reluctance to broach the topic of sex or attempt it again... and that never bodes well for a relationship.

Hope that helps!

[Rawrzz]

I would never fuck a virgin, so there you go. I would never put myself in that situation, because not only do virgins not know how to fuck, they cry because society tells them that their hymen is worth something and makes them 'pure', and they get clingy, because you *must* be their soul mate since they lost their V to you.

[NiallM]

Well I'd just cuddle her and try to show her that she made the right choice, it wouldn't change my opinion of her, Its something special to her

[oldanddecrepid]

Ask her if she is okay... and then comfort her tell her how much she means to me and let her know how beautiful she is.

I would never want her to feel like it was a bad thing and that it did not matter to me that she lost her virginity to me.

[now56]

Yeah, it is the guilt feeling. So, i would empathize her and hug her tight until she stops crying. So, she would know that she's not alone and did the right thing.

[godfatherfan]

I would assume that always happens. Since women are emotional beings and it might be a little overwhelming. Guys on the other hand want to High Five everyone and be like "finally, thank god..."

[rjroy3]

It would make me feel bad for having sex with her, awkward and kind of make me not want to do it again. But i would talk to her and ask if she's ok and what's wrong.

[JaysunPro]

Embrace her reduction and give her full support and assurance. I would wonder to myself if she has a personality disorder. I would levy and cure her emotional catalyst.

[clhcountry]

I would feel bad that she is crying and I would try to comfort her as well as I can.

[koullaras]

I'd slap her, tell her to come to her senses and then tell her she's welcome.

[abw121290]

I would hold her and tell her she made the right decision. I would be there for her!

[GoodDogNigel]

I would feel pretty bad, wondering what I did wrong.