GAGers! does any of you know how to stop catching feelings for someone? :'( :( ? (Page 2)
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Picture their corpse with flies and maggots all over it... works every time.
It is like the quest for blue rose (though genetic engineering has made it possible to make blue roses). I feel the same Don't get me wrong but I want to focus on my work.
Stop giving people chances & think rationally sometimes.
Best answer is a poem by Wendy Cope: Two Cures for Love
1) The hard way: don't phone or write a letter
2) The easy way: get to know them better
I WISH, I WISH, I WISH I KNEW HOW TO STOP THE INSANITY!!!
i guess by finding one you love is the only chance...
Ask them out once and get rejected. You'll lose feelings pretty quick.
Stop infatuating or thinking about them when they're not around.
Oh. Did anything happen since last time we spoke?
kind of hun :(
Is it a new guy or ex..
someone am actually talking to
You proposed?
I won't give any wishy washy advice like a philosopher but i remember that day about an year ago when you adviced me on similar situation.
And hence i know how it feels. Let me know.
you won't stop have feelings if you spend time talking to him. Like an Alcoholic who brings a beer to an AA meeting.
You ask us how to stop have feelings , don't talk to him, you're feeding your own addiction.
@KempisMC
Oh you are nearly of my dad's age :-)
But you know that girls are like brittle glass that needs to be handled with care. I don't think she wants any logical answer because she already knows that. She was depressed and people when depressed often have tendency to share their inner feelings or frustration such that they only want someone to lend a shoulder to them and listen ;-).
It can only make her stronger, I don't agree with your assessment , I have 4 sisters and little advice we give here are nothing to te tragedies of life , so a reality that you are her might not want to see, is not sugar coating something that has an advice you survive ,
Too many people are afraid to hurt others and walk away from a NON cruel truth , and they miss the opportunity for growth.
Im right here babe. U dont have to look far and wide for the one 😘
''Catching Feelings'', Maybe its just my stupidity here (And most likely), But what do you mean by that?
stupidity? really? when you will know what it means to have feelings for someone but when in return the person doesn't feel the same then we'll see
Oh, I wasn't saying the phrase was stupid D:, I was saying i was stupid for not understanding it, Sorry if i accidently upset you there.
And, Just be miserable and dont talk to anyone? :)
I too would like to know the answer. :/
you have to make it happen.
don't give up.
Simple focus on you :)
Think of the guy as a douchebag.
I runaway screaming
don't wanna run away
I wish i knew the answer to that.
Get yourselves a handsome asshole
not funny
I just joked while you were probably too serious (you should stop being so serious, try to take everything as a joke -- that itself is my answer to your question). Anyway, is that friends with benefits?
nope not at all!
But then why you think it's bad? Is that someone you're not supposed to catch feelings for?
that would be easy here, lots of them on GAG, maybe they are not assholes, but they give asshole answers and replies.
As long as you can't delete your replies, it will continue to happen.