This happened- - In train there's this tall and really cute guy sitting opposite to me. He has well defined jawline. At a glance I guessed he must be my age. - We kept exchanging glances, nothing much, just very normal glances you shot at co passenger. - I take peak at his ID out of curiosity (he's still wearing it) - Turns out he's in junior college 😭 which is kind of like 17 years old. - And I spent rest of the travel cursing myself and feeling guilty :/ :(
Why don't people talk about jailbait boys? I feel really guilty :/ ?
A momentary attraction to someone shouldn't make you feel guilty;human beings are visual creatures and we all might have went through this experience at some point of our lives; imagine if he wasn't wearing that ID card would you know the reality? a lot of things that we think in our heads are merely based on the given situation; you realized that it was wrong is what you should be appreciative of yourself than feeling guilty.
That's one year under the age of consent in the United States and all you did was look until you saw his I. D. Perfectly natural and nothing you can be blamed for.
A google search of India's age of consent laws turned up 16, so why are you even worried?
Lol at that gif. 😂 <3 Well, at least you didn't have a small crush on someone thinking he was a boy but turns out it was a girl O_O I was so shocked and embarrassed when I found out about it. My mini crush lasted for 2 hours 🙄😂
by the way, you shouldn't feel guilty, you just looked at him. You didn't flirt with him or touched him or something O_o I found a guy very attractive too only to find out he was underage! But boy, did he look older than me. I was 21 and he was 17 too. My crush faded in 50 minutes XD
Lol, she looked like a guy! Acted like a guy, talked like a guy! I saw her at the send off party, she was dancing with another girl. I thought it was a cute guy, haha. After an hour or so, I went to the corner and stood up on the chair, trying to find someone who was lost in such a crowd. So I was looking for my friend and moving to the rhythm happily lol. Then I saw that girl also stood on another chair, I looked away. Then she touched me on the shoulder and I thought - "Wth dude, how dare he?" O_O
Then she smiled at me and said hey, I think your friend is looking for you, look over there *pointed his finger at my friend who was looking at me, giving a wtf, where have you been look"lol. Her voice was high pitched, girlish. Lol
When I went to my friend and the group, I asked my friend about that girl because I was confused whether it was a girl or boy. She said, it's a girl! Why. I was like OMG 😂😂😂😁
An ant only has nine neurons to remember and deliver on your queen's abdomen. Therefore ants like to get lost in shapes like the 6, the 9 or even the endless beautiful 8. But we don't want to be ants! We humans have millions of neurons left to grasp the beauties of our environment and let them affect us. And what else, as if not everything that is naked, beautiful to look at, that sounds good and that feels wonderful, should be closer to us humans than humans? Enjoy your ability to discover and experience beautiful things around you. Your perceived fear comes from the false morality of the society in which you live: sexuality, feelings and their appropriation are seen as a harbinger of a crime rather than as a sign of humanity and as a sign of the culmination of our creation. And that happens from time to time. But what makes us different from crimes? The politic? No. The moral: also no. The use of force: yes! This is what scares you: that our society, unreflectively, accepts the absence of violence and fear with jealousy, condemnation and spell. You can see: I advocate a non-violent world in which everything beautiful can be absorbed and accepted if there is no violence, material or personal constraints between people.
So you're saying, you were ogling an underage guy because you thought he was older?
I've actually done that with girls. And I'm not a pedo, but I have a very difficult time determining age. Younger people look older to me, and older people look younger to me. I understand why you feel guilty,.
Gosh.. girls are so innocent.. There’s nothing to feel guilty about what you did.. It’s absolutely normal.. (if I’d go by your logic.. I’d be hiding my face in the ground about the messages that I sent you..)
Society has a double standard, in this situation, it would be less frowned upon, unless you were his teacher or coach. But if it was a 17 year old girl, people would react as the man is taking advantage.
😂 don't worry... I've had crushes on girls of your age as well. And its not like you're soliciting him, you just had a momentary attraction. So yeah chill out
Yeah, that's true. But, it's not like you'll be having a physical relationship with him. Yup, girls mature pretty quickly in comparison to guys with the exception of me.😅
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