Im too insecure to wear short things cause I have a flat ass - how can I get rid of this insecurity?

[Anonymous]

As you can see on the pics (it was a video, i screenshotted), Im very skinny and have 0 curves. Im flat.

Please dont tell me to do squats, my body won't change much. I have a petite figure and thats just how i am.

My question is, does it look very very bad? I always wear long things that cover my ass cause i feel that uncomfortable showing my body.

How can i overcome this?

Updates

+1 y

Hey everybody, thank you for taking your time to actually answer my Q, much appreciated!

I just realized that I actually dont give a shit what others (especially men) think of me. Its ridiculous.

Its my body and I have to like/love it.

Have a blessed day!

[markscott]

First, you don't have a flat ass. In fact, your ass looks quite nice and attractive. But to get over insecurities about your body is another story. That takes time. Some of the things that may help, is knowing that everybody has something, usually a couple or more things, that they don't like about their body. This is almost universal. None of us have perfect bodies, and we all tend to see and fault, or supposed fault, in our bodes and exaggerate it in our minds. So, you are not just one, or one of a few, who think their body is flawed. Consider yourself as a special person, but still no worse and no better, than most other girls. You have great worth as a person, no matter what your ass looks like, and that is the most important thing. Let people see who you are, what you are like. Any guys worth anything will like you for who you are, not your ass. You don't need to be perfect or great, to attract guys or to have a wonderful relationship with a guy. by the way I'm still surprised that you think your ass isn't attractive. You really do have a nice looking ass.

[Anonymous]

Your ass looks fine, I wouldn’t think to myself “damn she has a flat ass” if I saw you in person, I know what you said but you can add size to it, If you eat above your calorie maintenance, have the right protein intake and work up to a 60kg squat for reps, you would notice a big difference, I trained my girlfriend, who had an ass maybe slightly bigger, but 8 months later and it’s starting to get quite big

[Asker]

I tried to eat more than i need and i ended up being obsessed with counting calories and shit like that. It actually made me sick.
I eat what i want and when i want now and thats enough. I guess thats just how i am.
But thanks for your tips

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I understand that some people can have an obsessive personality when it comes to that kind of stuff and it’s not like you’re super skinny so you’re ok, whatever works for you

[tempolocus]

i used to be really flat too, i know you said not to say this, but for about 4-5 months i was doing squats w weights among a few other glute excercises, and it really made a huge difference! i saw results in about a month but continued them after, so you wouldn’t have to carry on for as long as i did. rather than being upset over it, you should either work w what you’ve got or do what you can to make it better, though i don’t think not having curves makes you unattractive :)

[Anonymous]

What’s your weight and height? You have perfect legs

[Asker]

Im 173 cm and 55 kg

[Opinion Owner]

Love what you said. You have a beautiful body! I wish I had your legs!!

[Asker]

Yesss <3

[JonJames]

Try to ignore the rude and stupid comments. All you need to do is find one loving guy.

There are guys that LOVE a smaller ass. One reason I like it is I can get ALL the way into her ass. If I can't slip my balls in her pussy when my dick is in her ass, I am not in far enough. This is not easy with a big ass girl, but is entirely possible with an ass like yours.

[Anonymous]

your body looks good and you shouldn't be ashamed of how you look just cos porn and media mean you have to be like they say. enjoy the body you have and show it how you want, your you and that's what matters no some idiot saying you have to have a big ass to wear short things. never let anyone put you down about it.

[FakeName123]

Research has found out that worldwide there is one single-factor all men are attracted to. That's hip-to-waist ratio of 1 : 0,7. While you are too slim for my taste, it's not that bad.

Albeit doing some sports could definitely help. Bike tours, squats, etc.

[JulieXO]

I don’t think it looks that bad tbh. You don’t need to feel insecure, not every guy is into huge Kardashian asses. I’m sure some would find your body type much more attractive.

[SngBirdy]

Some? Almost everyone.
This fat ass meme is American, the rest of the world doesn't think like that

[Genie23]

Well, I think you shouldn't worry at all. You have great legs and your butt looks absolutely fine. Some guys actually prefer women who has petite butt. :)

[NicolaJ35]

You are very slim, but that certainly isn't a bad thing at all.

If you tried to be a little more confident about it, I know you could pull it off and I really believe you'd look fantastic.

[NicolaJ35]

Really loved to read your update.

Go girl, don't give a shit what people think because you are as I said I think you look great anyway.

[Asker]

Yess! <3

[NicolaJ35]

Thanks for the reply :)

[SngBirdy]

What makes your bottom halph pretty is the shape of your legs and your butt, not the size.
You have a pretty lower halph, stop humble bragging

[Asker]

Im not bragging at all. I seriously been wearing long loose shirt that cover my butt since years!

[SngBirdy]

Then you are just delusional and you should stop watching youtube fitness transformations where women get fat and think their butts look amazing.
Jokes aside, your legs and your butt are pretty, nuff said.

[aa180]

Lol, you do realize that the flatness of your ass is more visible when you're wearing tight pants compared to when you're in shorts, right? If you have no issue going out in tight pants, then you shouldn't have any issue going out in shorts.

[Paris13]

Hmmm... That's Me. I Look Like You.
My Advice: You and I can Either Put on some Pound to Make our Buns Round Or Let it Be with Slim, Jim Legs. lolxx

[Paris13]

Walking helps but it can be a Wear and Tear on those Buns. xx

[CuChullan]

You may not be as curvy as some women, but i cannot see anything about you that's unattractive. The arse isn't that flat either, in fact it has a good shape to it.

[Coffeebeanz]

Your booty is fine. You have a great shape which is more important than size.

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/bQJK8PcM5hY

[Asker]

Lol okey thanks

[es20490446e]

You are welcome ;)

[JimRSmith]

You don't look bad at all. No reason to feel insecure.

[LiLaLydia]

no need for a big ass to wear shorts

even if it's flat, the long thin legs will make up for it

[House5plusforth]

Whoever told you that your buttocks was flat told a lie for your body
Firm is not Flat.

[SentientBrick]

I think your good. If you really want change do exercises that build up your Glutes!

[Anonymous]

I like it how it is, do not change anything...

Stop believing everything they write in those women magazines...

[Asker]

you're actually right...

[Anonymous]

Your ass is flat but it's not a turn off. Im find flat asses attractive what I don't like are huge asses like what Kim K or Nicki Minaj has

[wannaplaytoy]

wear short to cover your ass and thigh high stockings trust me

[Asker]

My legs are too skinny, sticklike

[wannaplaytoy]

i dont think so

[gangs_and_guns]

U dont hace much flat ass. Looks ok. U have nice legs and sexy

[HenloSuper]

I'd just like to ask to see if you'll post more I'll like your bum ngl. It's nice. Attractive and not flat

[Retep1]

Not bad at all. Looking damn passable

[AmourHoney]

Big butts are overrated

[douride2]

Yea right. If my behind only looked that bad?

[esotericstory]

Do booty work outs to grow a bigger butt.

[Asker]

And you should get a brain lol

[esotericstory]

No defeatism. You can get a bigger butt.

[BigBlueGuy]

No not bad at all actually

[SpunkNugget]

Add some chicken fillets in

[Jmeyer192]

You aren't flat and you have a nice ass

[Tyffen]

Looks nice to me...

[Tyffen]

Why especially men?

[Asker]

Never have i heard a girl talk shit about my looks. It was always just men. In the middle of the street they would call me names like anorexic and stick and stuff like that.

[Tyffen]

Wtf... That's messed up... 👀

I guess there is a bigger divide between men with standards and morals, than those who have none...

[Asker]

I hope so...

[Tyffen]

To a lot of guys, the face is 80% of the physical attraction... Like me...

[Asker]

My face looks even worse. I guess ill be alone forever lol...

[Tyffen]

Don't say that...

I have the same feeling sometimes, but it passes...

With a good personality and a healthy body like that, you'll definitely score a good guy...

[Anonymous]

Girl ur ass is fine. You have a cute lower body.

[gym4ever]

do squats.

[FrenchyRomain]

have you tried squats?

[Asker]

I play volleyball