Other Why do people say they're fine when they're not? (Page 6) Nayrr Follow Yoda Age: 23 Follow FacebookTwitterWhatsApp 73 Why do people say they're fine when they're not? Post Opinion Like Share Follow 10 likes
Aiko_E_Lara Follow Master Age: 26 +1 y 3.2K opinions shared on Other topic. It means they are trying to deal with it without involving anyone but sometimes it can be ego. 1 0 Reply
Evil_Chuck Follow Xper 6 Age: 38 +1 y People who have to ask the question don't need to know the real answer. 1 0 Reply
kellis-henry Follow Xper 2 Age: 61 +1 y Everybody is fine in someone's eyes so I never purely make judgementIf someone is confident about themselves more power to them. 1 0 Reply
rapfan107 Follow Guru Age: 28 +1 y 1.1K opinions shared on Other topic. They don't wAnt to worry other people , they don't want others to think they're vulnerable and there's a lot other reasons 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (30-35) +1 y Because people who admit they are not fine are sometimes shamed for not being strong enough. Mental health problems are also stigmatised. 2 0 Reply
Anonymous (18-24) +1 y Sometimes it is hard to tell people what is really going on. They might feel like they would be burdening you. 1 0 Reply
MrBurke Follow Xper 6 Age: 24 +1 y I am not fine but I really want to be left alone so please kindly fuck off 1 0 Reply
lsjr16 Follow Explorer Age: 31 +1 y 524 opinions shared on Other topic. They don’t want to tell people their personal business or not comfortable telling their feelings. 1 0 Reply
ktgh95 Follow Xper 1 Age: 28 +1 y Why do people ask "How are you?" when they don't really care? 2 0 Reply
SexyAshh Follow Guru Age: 29 +1 y 611 opinions shared on Other topic. They dont want you to pry and ask questions 2 3 Reply Nayrr +1 y Can I ask you a question? Reply SexyAshh +1 y Sure Reply Nayrr +1 y Thanks Reply
missMaden Follow Xper 2 Age: 23 +1 y Maybe to not put you down or maybe they are not that good to say how they truly feel 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (30-35) +1 y Mostly to seem as if they are fine to hide the pain they are actually in 1 0 Reply
Anonymous (25-29) +1 y To make other leave them alone. Probably because they had a bad day or do not want to be bothers 1 1 Reply Opinion Owner +1 y Bothered* Reply
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It means they are trying to deal with it without involving anyone but sometimes it can be ego.
People who have to ask the question don't need to know the real answer.
Everybody is fine in someone's eyes so I never purely make judgement
If someone is confident about themselves more power to them.
They don't wAnt to worry other people , they don't want others to think they're vulnerable and there's a lot other reasons
Because people who admit they are not fine are sometimes shamed for not being strong enough. Mental health problems are also stigmatised.
Sometimes it is hard to tell people what is really going on. They might feel like they would be burdening you.
I am not fine but I really want to be left alone so please kindly fuck off
They don’t want to tell people their personal business or not comfortable telling their feelings.
Why do people ask "How are you?" when they don't really care?
They dont want you to pry and ask questions
Can I ask you a question?
Sure
Thanks
Maybe to not put you down or maybe they are not that good to say how they truly feel
Because they don't like to talk to the person about it
since when have people cared?
that should answer your question
You don't want to let others pity or condescend you
Because that's "I'm Fine" means
They don't want to be vulnerable.
Explaining it to other people makes it worse.
Mostly to seem as if they are fine to hide the pain they are actually in
Because it is hard to open yourself to others.
To make other leave them alone. Probably because they had a bad day or do not want to be bothers
Bothered*