Girls, should a guy that's overweight wait until he's slimmed down or fit to approach and talk to girls? (Page 2)

[TessCasie]

I’m bit overweight myself but my stomach ain’t that big and protruded it’s semi flat. But if a guy I’m meeting for a date has a big chubby full bloated stomach it’s a turn off.

[TessCasie]

I meant his stomach has a big paunch belly

[MissGeorgia]

It depends how overweight.
If he’s simply got a bit of tummy, that’s fine. it’s actually sexy

[Asker]

Overweight like chubby

[tatianamay]

don't wait. And if you're working out, and making an effort to lose your fat, its a good thing

[Asker]

If i dont wait, girls will reject me because im overweight still

[tatianamay]

There are girls who like chubby men. Go for it. Don’t wait

[Asker]

haven't met them yet. They mostly like muscular or fit and lean guys

[tatianamay]

Okay, well, then lose the extra fat first and yk, maybe get fit. And then approach them. You can get muscles even while dating them

[SpaceNinja04]

Haha 😂 no, absolutely not. Your soulmate could be in any body ❤️

[Asker]

It'll better his chances if he loses the weight though no?

[SpaceNinja04]

Well, if they really really are interested in him weight is nothing. I'd say no. What I'd look more into is how he's communicating to his potential s. o. if I make any sense.

[Aphrodite801]

Are you like 500 pounds or something? There are plenty of fat guys with fat girls. Go date a fellow overweight girl, that simple.

[Asker]

I had dated an overweight girl (2 actually). you're not making me look like a hypocrite here

[Asker]

And im not 500 pounds. But i am chubby

[Aphrodite801]

Ah, I see I have blocked you. Which means you are a sexist. So not only are you a bitter sexist, but you’re overweight too? 😂😂😂

[Asker]

You blocked because you didn't like my opinions

[Madison193]

don't assume people's weight

[Aphrodite801]

Triggered fatty found

[Asker]

Are you gonna block me again because you didn't like my political views?

[Madison193]

@Aphrodite801 it is rude to assume things about people also if you've never been fat you have no room to talk I've been small, medium, and large and in the process of losing it rn but the heck if I become xs just to please society

[Aphrodite801]

Keep crying big girl, big mamaa

[Madison193]

@Aphrodite801 Lol!

[Babygirl_S]

He should wait if he only wishes to date a slim girl.

[Asker]

Yeah that's what im doing. I know slim or curvy girls dont like fat pieces of shit, so im working my ass off, lifting and cardio and eating right too

[anonnonaaa]

I don't think so. But if thats what he wants to do and if thats what makes him comfortable, then sure.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is a little overweight but he is going to gym now and already lose some weight

[girl2034]

No fat guys can get girls too

[Asker]

Seems very rare. Im still working on myself though

[Anonymous]

I think you look ok in that photo

[Asker]

Not good enough yet to approach any women though

[Asker]

You dont even know whwt i look like. Im anon

[malwins]

please post a pic