Do you enjoy being single? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

I find it infinitely less complicated. It's not that I want to be single. It's that the offering of women today really is a losing proposition. Most women today don't want a partner. Feminism has given them a distorted view of what a relationship is.

[Guanfei]

Of course not, it's a curse for me.
People who say they enjoy it know that at the moment they get tired of it, they can change it.
But I can't, I didn't choose it.

[queenofconvo]

I fully enjoy it till I want someone to hold me at night and make me feel safe.

[orangecherry]

That's really sad. There are times in the past that I enjoyed being single, but for the most part I am happier in a relationship.

[HiddenIPLuv]

accept how a woman looks? lol u got it backwards, most guys find all guys physically attractive, its the personality that turns us off... usually not the looks, unless he's gay

[HiddenIPLuv]

i mean girls

[Imsmurter1]

i never had a girlfriend sometimes I struggle with loneliness as an adult man.

[ODC2112]

No, but stay with stupid people is worst then stay alone, and now there is a trend to be stupid.

[Anonymous]

It’s never been by choice but it has some pluses after being single for 6 years but I do miss having a woman they are just not interested

[WalterBlack]

Very relatable.

[Opinion Owner]

@WalterBlack Yeah seems like more more men are single than women

[WalterBlack]

I'm wondering how that works. You would think it would be more evenly proportioned.

[Opinion Owner]

@WalterBlack You would think but most women on here have boyfriends, on dating apps it’s more men so I don’t know why it is that way but that’s what I noticed

[elias001]

I've missed a lot of shots and I really regret it
i think it was really cool to be single but im not enjoying it no more

[NathanDavis]

wait... you're in love with a novel?

[Asker]

Yes, I didn’t want to have to go through being with a man who gets turn off by my naked body when in a intimate relationship.

[NathanDavis]

and you reached that conclusion... because of the toxic BS from one guy?

[Asker]

Yes. I doubt there are men who will get turn on when I get naked.

[NathanDavis]

well, I am not sure that is true... a lot of different man are into different things

[Asker]

But the chances of a man getting turned off is very high. I felt that reading novels and being in love with the men in it is a safer way to feel accepted and loved. Their expectations of a woman are not that high too.

[Asker]

If one of those men turn out to be real I will marry one of them so I don’t have to go through being hated for how my body looks.

[NathanDavis]

but you're aware that a novel is just fantasy... right?

[Asker]

Sadly most men my age had unrealistic expectations of how a woman’s body should look because they watched too much porn.

[NathanDavis]

do you like your body? are you okay with your own body?

[Asker]

Yes to me I had a hot body, but I doubt there will be a man who loves me and my body.

[Asker]

I never gone under the knife to get what I wanted all of it is due to hard work like healthy diet and workout.

[NathanDavis]

okay, if you are okay with your body and love yourself... the chances that many other guys would feel the same about you

but here you insist that all men or most men are just toxic and unrealistic and would hate it... I do not think that is true

and if you base that idea, out of your bad experience with this one toxic guy... than that is a problem

and the other problem is to look for a fantasy to feel safer, that can´t be healthy either

[Asker]

I think it’s also harder to find a man who doesn’t mind if I leave my pubes alone.

[Asker]

I’m someone who preferred a man to not groom down there, it’s harder to find a man who doesn’t feel the same way as I did.

[NathanDavis]

pubic hair is very common, and most people do not mind, some even prefer it... you should not be worried about

the concern here is that you should be thinking about every man on this earth to be the same and just as the one toxic guy you have met before...

[Asker]

I think that’s the real reason why I got so scared and guarded when several young guys tried to make a move on me. I assumed they expect me to have the perfect body and will probably abuse me if I choose to date any of them.

[NathanDavis]

there is a few idea now, in your mind... that are you are taking to an extreme

not every guy out there will hate your body, not every guy out there has unrealistic expectations of a body, and not every guy out there is going to abuse you

you should not be just assuming, that all men out there are so toxic

you need to work in this twisted perception that persists in your mindset, because is not healthy at all

[Asker]

Thank you for your help. I didn’t know having those thoughts were affecting me so badly. I realised my experience with my first relationship has made me scared of being in relationships and the only way to escape being in a relationship is to read novels so I can feel like being in a relationship without getting hurt.

[NathanDavis]

just take it easy... when you meet someone, take your time to really get to know someone first, and know them better, not everyone out there is that bad of a person

[Asker]

Thank you. You gave me a good advice, now I’m more confident in meeting a better man.

[NathanDavis]

good luck... and take care

[Asker]

You too. 😊

[NathanDavis]

will do (=

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, I hate being single, but being with the wrong person would be worse, and I've yet to find the right one.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Just like brother and sister...

Whistling 😗 and passes by unnoticed 😂...


Lala la la la la la 😸

[SignedAutographs]

It's ok, not great though. I'm an only child and male. And I'm 33. I need to start having at least one kid, even though I don't want one. Problem is, I'm NOWHERE near ready to have one

[Better_off_here]

no hate it and i am jealous of anyone that has someone :(

[Vivaldi]

I hate being single but I can never ever have a girlfriend. No woman has interest in me.

[User_69]

i was before marriage :D being single is the best thing ever !

[jamesgoldman]

Yeah, I have the freedom to spend all I want on myself

[KrakenAttackin]

Women are never really single, they have their friends with benefits, guys in rotation, and Beta orbiters.

[maninavan]

After a long, toxic relationship, I adore being on my own. I smile so much now.

[Anonymous]

stay single, flirt with many,
no drama's
ukkk livin the best life man