Is it better to getting to know the person better before flat out judging him or rejecting him?

[scott04sa22]

I never told anybody this but lately I been cooking a lot and been doing lawn care for a family member who was diagnose with colon cancer. I been using the times both home and away on improving myself. When im away I use that time on learning new recipes and lawn care. At home I use the free time I need. When I’m mowing the yard or cooking it helps the mind. Even though I might not be able to drive I do have abilities I can do like being handyman, a old fashion amish cook, knowledge on electronics. I cut my own hair for almost 20 years and I’m thinking about learning how to sew again and do other things. I do have some positive surprises. The main question is it better to get to know the person better before judging him or rejecting him?

[Guy13]

In theory it is better but reality in our Intelligent Design suggests that we are critical thinkers by Nature…one with Being. Soul, Mind, Body receiving information, whether visual, auditory, or read, and synthesizing immediately.

We are the highest form of Creation with abilities to critically reason and critique. We do not possess the ability to be non-judgmental. We may have the ability to withhold Final judgment until all lesser judgments can be formulated and summed against our past experience and their summed judgments.-This we can do but to be a blank listening board able to receive data without analyzing in judgment is not plausible in my “Judgment” 🙃😎

[hahahmm]

The less wise you are the more you need to get to know a person to read them. The more wise you are the more you see revealed from a distance. That said... a wise person also realizes that nobody is perfect. But there are also degrees to it.

[kylee2437]

I think it’s better to know and not judge however I think people are allowed to have their own standards and although you do have great qualities, it may be a red flag to some that you don’t drive especially if you don’t have a reason not to drive. Not every woman is like that though. My friend drives her boyfriend around everywhere and doesn’t mind it. I personally would mind it because I am an independent person and would find it troublesome to have a boyfriend constantly having me run around his schedule

[scott04sa22]

Yes, The reason I was a little more open because I wanted to show people what I could since I don’t drive and it is a red flag to most women. There is a reason on why I don’t drive or can’t drive I’ll tell it another time when I’m ready and comfortable. If I do find a girlfriend she doesn’t have to worry about driving me around all the time unlike the other drive less guys. In my city there is both public and private services available here for someone like me

[katiesmuff]

I think it's always better to get to know a person before judging.

[Sparkie460]

You should never judge a book by the cover. It's better to open it up and see what it's about before placing judgment. You might actually like it

[Adam1978]

If you got the time and has limited options yes.