If you see a female eating alone in a cafe/restaurant, what are your first thoughts out of the two?

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SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

I've worked as a waiter for years in various restaurants. I think I can give you a more insightful answer than most (since waiters and restaurant staff ALWAYS talk-shit about the people at their tables).

The answer to your question is: It depends entirely on the woman, and how she presents herself.

If someone seems shy, meek, apologetic or otherwise socially awkward based on a (at least seeming) lack of confidence in herself... then... yea... it would be more the 'loner' option. That being said, if that girl seemed nice, it wouldn't be assumed she 'has no friends'. Just that maybe she's an introvert, or enjoys her own company.

Most of the time, someone isn't going to come-off as an introvert. If you seem more-or-less-normal and/or seem confident... nobody will think twice about the fact that you're there alone. The trick is; to not SEEM self-conscious or uncomfortable with the fact that you're eating alone. If you treat it like "nothing"... then it isn't something people will think much about. 🙂

DannyUk2017 · Accepted Answer

She is a confident, independent woman and she likes/wants to enjoy her breakfast/Lunch/Dinner...🤷‍♂️

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

Boyfriend /Husband is Working, Out of Town. Took the Day for Her to shop and then Eat Out. No Relationship, Just Spending Time with Herself. xx

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

Definitely confident.

RiseofArtemis · Answer

Strong independent modern women = To miserable lonely single feminist that has no children has a job that needs a lot of hours and probably has a pet, very likely to be a cat as those when they meow have the same frequency as a baby.

My suggestion to not be part of that lonely group. Get a husband have a baby and be a stay at home mother. Your life, emotions and wellbeing will be far better if you devote your life to family then to a boss who doesn't care if you die.

Our entire being is centered around family. Men provide the stuff women need to feed the children. If we had a small village in where the only thing done was harvesting food, chopping wood and gather resources then women would be looking after the children and make sure the village was clean and the buildings where tidy while looking after the kids.

There is nothing difficult about it as that's our basic human programed life. Some greedy corporation wants to make you a wage slave so they can fill in their pockets.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

That she's just trying to enjoy some food. Some people like eating alone, myself included, so I don't judge people when they're out alone.

TroyDT · Answer

I chose B, but it could be a multitude of things, and my gut reaction would depend upon how she is dressed and how she is acting. Maybe she works in a small office and has a 30 minute lunch. Maybe she was meeting someone who had to cancel at the last minute. Maybe she is painfully shy. Maybe she prefers to eat in peace.

J2ohhhhh · Answer

If she was eating a 20 oz steak, I'd assume that she's not a vegan. But normal people don't make wider assumptions based on that little information.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I do this a lot… 🤣  I like to eat alone on my own time, my own happy space with my own company. Idgaf what others think.

MementoMori_ · Answer

Good question. I see lots of guys do this but rarely girls. I would probably have to go with her being a loner just because it seems so relatively rare and unusual.

Aerolyn · Answer

I doubt that I would be thinking either of those thoughts.

bubblegunnn · Answer

Ima think like.. damn wish i could go out independently like her

Msputiton · Answer

I honestly wouldn't even pay it any mind. She hungry and wants to eat. That's good enough for me

VanillaSalt · Answer

Lol I don’t notice her. She’s not my concern and I’m busy.

musicbrain5 · Answer

I don’t think either of those things. She’s just another hungry customer.

LilyFlorisa · Answer

I have never considered like that. Sometime, don't even notice.

MCheetah · Answer

C - What the hell is that that she's eating? Maybe I should've ordered that. Too late now. Dammit!

bolverk · Answer

Neither, as a man who has dined alone frequently, it could be that the woman could be working away from home on at contract as I have done.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I've never once thought either of those things.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Neither. I don't concern myself with other patrons. I'm there to eat not to silently judge everyone I see. I most likely wouldn't even notice.

Iron_Man · Answer

Nothing at all when people work during the day they go out and eat by themselves on their lunch break it’s natural

loveslongnails · Answer

She's hungry. Those choices are infantile, sorry.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Naturally I'll think she might be somewhat lonely

ODC2112 · Answer

She was hungry, I don't think she has no friends, nor is she confident or independent.

Fuentes · Answer

It may be her lunch break, maybe she is traveling and decided to stop at a spot. I really don't care what other people do

StickStickity13 · Answer

Neither, none of my business and I probably wouldn't even notice.

BJP21 · Answer

She's a confident independent woman who knows what she brings to the table.

collie22 · Answer

she's not with her friends so she's alone today. i eat by my self sometimes

Anonymous · Answer

Definitely not your twisted options...

Nahid1707 · Answer

She's a confident independent woman Who is eating her food

Hardworkingguy · Answer

She's so attractive men are afraid to get near her worried they would be rejected

TheFlak38 · Answer

Option 3: she's a mental nutcase. Women need company just as fish need to stay in the water in order to survive.

Apulu_Imback · Answer

... she is hungry...

leighbee · Answer

She can eat by herself if she wants to!

AviatorTom · Answer

I would suspect she's probably on a business trip.

RavVid · Answer

I'd think she was single.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

She must wanna fuck me!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

She's a confident independent woman

Jennz6 · Answer

She doesn’t have friends

Massageman · Answer

#3. She's hungry!

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Her husband’s pooping

art84 · Answer

She likes to eat alone.

AndrésC64 · Answer

That she's hungry.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

None of my business.

maximumpower · Answer

She wants to eat alone.

Avatar74 · Answer

She could be waiting to meet someone

legalboxers · Answer

you leave her alone

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Somebody stood her up.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think either.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing? I eat out alone too so what?

Salooj · Answer

I’d think she’s travelling or something

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Femmenistka!

Wise4myage · Answer

I say B.

Anonymous · Answer

Neither.

Anonymous · Answer

try nothing

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