Which cheater is worse, a selfish or a vengeful cheater?

[Tulipsxoxo]

- Cheating for whatever selfish reason such they didn't satisfied your needs, there was poor communication, etc.

- Cheating in revenge that you got cheated on, humiliated, treated horrible, etc. You had every intention to hurt them back and maybe even planned it more than the selfish cheater.

Selfish cheaters

Vengeful cheaters

Both are awful cheaters

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Also, the vengeful cheater made the partner think that everything was forgiven and worked out while secretly carrying his/her revenge affair. They might also not feel too romance with the affair partner but just doing it in revenge. All they want is revenge.

[FreyaRed]

Selfish are worse because they are often initiators who kill and destroy respect and trust in a relationship. Revenge cheating is emotional reaction, that grands maybe some temporary satisfaction but transfers the guilt of failed relationship to last cheater.

[SarahS98]

Given the updated information (using another person in the process), it would be vengeful cheaters for that same reason.

[inhua]

the one who started it first

more fault should be on whoever the first shots were fired from

[MementoMori777]

Vengeful because that's out of hatred as well, not just lust and selfishness