Man can be short, ugly, go bald, have a smaller penis, and the list goes on. Even if just one or two of these things go wrong it's all over for a guy. Woman have so many privelages compared to woman that it's just sad. I'm disgusted by manhood cause man have nothing compared to woman. Zero advantages. White woman who are beautiful are on top of the world with their privelages.
BOTH men and women have advantages and disadvantages in society. Yes, there are certainly areas that, especially in the post-feminist world, where men are severely disadvantaged, but you still have options: you can improve yourself, you can pay for things, or you can choose not to participate at all. Sure, it's not the fairy tale necessarily, but you don't have to play dumb and let yourself be destroyed by a woman or by the legal system - you just have to understand the system you are working under (which will often be dictated by STATE law, so things can be very different from state to state), and understand your risks and liabilities and make good decisions accordingly.
Complaining about it isn't going to do anything for you but make you look like a pathetic whiner, which no one wants. If you want change, you have to BE the change and you have to be able to recruit others to your cause - and THAT means you need to be doing things better than most people, and making better decisions.
You'd be amazed at how your looks or your height or your dick size will be overlooked if you have talent at something entertaining or especially useful, or if you have a good enough income to live a fancy lifestyle. All that goes back to improving yourself. And the truth is that even though, as men, we start the game with zero points and we have to build everything ourselves, at least we have the possibility to improve. Women start their adult lives at the very top, and can only go down from there, and nothing they can do can reverse whatever losses she sustains by her choices. That's a different kind of hell.
Suicide rate for men is higher. As a man you have to even sign up for selective service. You have no choice. Men that were drafted into the Vietnam by selective service ended up dying. Several men have PTSD from war and traumatized by it. Some of them had no choice. Some end up killing themselves because of it. there's no advantage whatsoever in that situation. You are not allowed to really have feelings as a guy otherwise people will mock you.
Even the pressures of being a man in society and adhering to the gender role of it causes stress so severe enough that men kill themselves. No one gives a shit. There was never any advocacy for men nor will there ever be.
And no one to blame for that but MEN. Have some accountability. Y’all love to say y’all created society right? There you go.
@Aphrodite801 no actually women are equally to blame as well
Stop being delusional, y’all made most problems for y’all selves we could never be equally to blame. Most problems in the world are caused by MEN. Do better.
@Aphrodite801 He is right. You woman are equelly to blame. Learn to take some accountibility for once. You woman can only appreciate strength and success.
Pretty sure you misspelled “privileges” a few times there, so we can add better skills on that front to women in general. I understand that you’re frustrated about the seeming gap in society that men and women have and there are certainly gaps that exist in certain social situations but it’s a lot more complicated than you think, or are willing to think about at this time. You have every right to be upset, but don’t go believing that manhood is a death sentence, nor is it isolation. Women are not the bane of your existence.
I know exactly how complicated it is. I have seen and learned a lot in my 30 years of existance. I know that woman have a few disadvantages too like giving birth, and periods, but all the other supposed disadvantages woman have are like rape, harrasment, less payment (which I don't agree with) etc. are man to blame.
I also never said that manhood is a death sentence, but many things can go wrong. Balding at a young age is a good example.
So you just want to talk about how men have it worse more than any other group in the world? You don’t want to talk about potential solutions?
I know the solutions. I would just like to hear your hones view and opinion without damage controling.
Both of you need to quit whining
My opinion is that we need damage control to fix it, mainly getting rid of the patriarchy which has made it so that men are emotionally and physically isolated outside of romantic sexual relationships with women to help give them the option of other communities
There’s patriarchy hiding in the bushes! Get ‘em!
I like being a girl and would not want to be a guy. Too many hassles
You deserve an MHO for your honest and logical opinion.
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u You see the entire world from an extremely biased perspective. Apparently, you have never spent much time with women or you would understand some of the disadvantages that they have.
Mother Nature dictates that for a man to be a "real man" is that he must suffer in life even if there is no reward at the end of the journey and society will make sure to let him know if he fails
for example Carmelo Anthony recently retired from the NBA without a championship. most people would consider him a loser for not winning anything but it takes "real men" to know what he went through. of course, if I gave reasons why he didn't win a title, I'd be "making excuses" for him
Mother natrure can go F off and eat a D.
i interned at the maternity ward today at the hospital. one woman died from giving birth. another woman almost died after giving birth and was shipped off to the intensive care unit. another woman had trouble giving birth, received a very painful epidural and got a c section. after the doctor got the baby out, the surgeons attempted to stitch up her vagina but couldn't. every time they tried to stitch her back up, her vagina would open back up again. her vagina was severely lacerated and had a lot of cuts. she couldn't stop bleeding and lost a lot of blood.
all throughout history women have died giving birth to others. It even happens to this day. show women some respect.
Not only this, women make less money after marriage / children while men make more money.
Through out history men died in wars, just like today in Russia and Ukraine. Men also died by protecting their women and took a bullett for them saving their life and die. (Aurora shooting 2012.) But of course as you said people don't care about that at all. When a man dies in war or take a bullett and die for their girlfriends, nobody cares. When women die in giving birth everyone suddenly cares.
This means that men are disposable.
[This means that men are disposable.]
men ARE more disposable. you can't sustain a human population with 100 men and 1 woman. but you can sustain a human population with 100 women and 1 man. society can still reproduce because 1 man can get 100 women pregnant. but there's only a limited number of times a woman can give birth
You are completely right about war. But when it comes to 1 man reproducing with 100 woman, it's not a healthy approach because his kids will all be siblings, and it can end up with incest. So please stop with this "man are disposable because of this" crap. The same amount of man are needed.
@beingamansucks
humans will cease to exist on earth if there aren't enough women giving birth. just a fact. this is why evolutionarily men protect women. thats how the generations were able to continue... its also why you get to exist on earth today.
if all women died, nobody would be giving birth.
The same can be said about men. The same amount of man and woman are needed.
I hope you don't wonder why I have the username I have after this sentence.
You are acting as women regularly die in child birth. I never knew anyone who died in child birth before. So being disposable is better?
@beingamansucks
for millions of years, women have died in childbirth prior to modern advanced technology. even till today, death upon childbirth isn't uncommon. people at hospitals see it almost on a daily basis.
besides that, women also have to go through the torture of labor and pregnancy. or have their kids ruin their careers. do you want to go though that?
i have never heard of men being disposable in modern society. and there's no evidence that men are disposable.
You literally said that men aren't as needed. What does that tell? Also, you should know that all the modern stuff including hospitals, and women child birth is here because of men. Men is the reason why you have all the tangable stuff in life. So saying that men aren't needed just shows how you don't aporeciate none of these and you don't care about men. If it wasn't for men you would be living in a stone age era.
@beingamansucks
without women dying in childbirth and sacrificing their careers to raise their kids, there would be no men.
so show some respect instead of constantly slandering women...
how are men not needed if men are in charge of governments making all the decisions and running countries?
You said that men are not as needed as women. Also, sacraficing their careers? How? Who brings the money while the women is with the kids? Men. Women doesn't sacrafice their careers cause they go back to work after a few years. I didn't slandered women.
@beingamansucks
whenever the kid is sick, it is alway the women taking a day off from work.
studies show that women do 2x the amount of housework, childrearing duties as men despite the fact that she works a full time job as well.
[Who brings the money while the women is with the kids? ]
most men have nothing to contribute nowdays. breadwinners aren't a thing anymore.
Explain to me why do men rule every sport out there. Why is it that women can't compete against men in any professional sport? Men build up society too.
And vice versa. Meaning that women are not more important.
You don't appreciate men and don't care about them. In fact you feel superior to them.
This means that men and women are equally important?
We don't have disadvantages. The problem is no one will vote republican based on their policies so they came up with all this emotionally addictive nonsense to con people into doing it. And taking advantage of common male sexual frustrations is one of those efforts.
Yea, people vote for Biden and Obama so they can destroy everything including the barely existing privelages of men.
My dad is short, bald, I guess some would say ugly, he is definitely a unique looking gentleman to say the least. He found my mom. They have been married for nearly 50 years. They had me. They are happy. I think there may be other factors going on here. 🤷🏻♀️
If this is true he deserved better from mother nature, but as you can see mother nature doesn't care about your dad, even through he cares about his family.
Ummm. It is true.
Men aren't supposed to wear shorts to our business, but women, can wear their skirts and dresses as long as they're not like, well, ya know. Yeah, men HAVE to wear pants of some sort, even in the dead of July
Exactly bro, exactly.
I would disagree because what you got are a lot of things if you´re emotional healthy. First and most of all you have chances to achieve something long lasting in life.
Because being beautiful has its good but also bad side and it fades after time.
It might take hard work but in my experience the success I had to work felt better than the one that was given to me.
I can see what you´re coming from though. But I think your perspective is too narrow.
Everything fades away in life. Not every woman hits the wall early, and they can also achieve a lot of stuff in life. Woman don't go bald either.
If I started balding in a young age how the hell is that going to make me feel better that not all man are balding ffs? Woman never go bald in normal circuimstances.
Both genders can achieve success in long term. I'm also talking about feeling good in my skin which is also a long term thing.
I started getting thinning hair which often results in baldness. A friend of mine that started getting that around the same time as me just accepted it and now he has a huge circular bald patch and all of his other hair is receding at the front. But I had a different mindset and attitude towards it and continued looking for solutions. I managed to prevent it from getting worse but never stopped looking for a solution and I found one several years later. Now all of the thinning hair is reversing and so is my gray hair as well.
If I just complained about it, do you think I would have found that solution?
You're being melo dramatic and are acting like the world's biggest victim. I'm sorry your sad and I don't mean to be rude but you gotta climb out of that hole and survive. You can and you will but the self pity will bring you down if you don't snap out of it.
Stone cold Steve Austin is bald and was the champ lol. Listen if you to deal with one period you'd trade that away for being all of the things above lol.
I would rather have periods every month than to be bald.
Ok well that's how you feel. I am not trying to be cruel to you. I'm sorry you feel so horribly. Have you thought about talking to a professional? It's not good to go through life feeling this way. I say this because even though I don't know you, I still would like you to be happy and work through this. If you do work through it things will be better.
I rather work on myself, and go to have a hair transplant. Anyway thanks for being cool. I just needed to went a little bit.
Good luck and my pleasure. We all have our things. Just remember sometimes working on yourself as good as it is we all need help from others. Nothing wrong with that.
The only people in this world with real disadvantages are morons. If you constantly feel downtrodden and just can't seem to pick yourself up, you probably fall into that category
Man have no privelages in life. Women first as they say.
Because we don't need privileges. We allow those to women because they're the weaker and less intelligent sex.
C'mon bro, being a man is awesome
(Literally)
Being a man is awesome until you grow up. Balding doesn't make things better either.
@beingamansucks the hell.. you're scared of going bald? Wear a fucking wig if you can't own it.
Also if you have low testosterone you can get certain drugs clinically prescribed to fix it, and maybe even covered by some insurance if it's essential for normal function. So, what is left of your problem when you're strong and ripped? Does baldness matter? When lab made dick pills make your dick hard as a diamond, do you think your shortness will bother women?
If you're not comfortable with the doctor's offices then fine, you can try your own coveted sublimation therapy at home. Listen to the following twice a day for one month and report your results:
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dG5cZzbKvW0
The grass is always greener on the other side. You’re depressed because you lack purpose and drive in life. Time to switch things up: buy a plot of land and build a cabin by hand, get a new job on a fishing boat, start exercising more- go for mountain hikes, go on a cross-country or cross-continent road trip. Sitting around stressing over things you can’t change doesn’t do anything but hurt you. You were created for better things.
And yet there are still plenty of men that do just fine, including the short ones Thus regardless of environment, what matters most is our mindset. Limiting beliefs, are just that. There is so much power in our words and thoughts that it's almost unbelievable. i do not concern myself with the privileges women have, only with what I can make out of life.
There sure are disadvantages but complaining won't do any good
Let me hear your opinion about it. I'm curious. Are you happy that you were born as a woman? If so, why?
Yes because thats what im supposed to be:) there are advantages of being a woman in the western world yes. But it doesn't mean life is perfect for women. There are disadvantages in both sexes.
Focus on changing for the better in things you can do and the rest learn to accept:)
You realize that women also have to deal with public disapproval over looks as well right? It's not like that's unique to guys.
Yea, but a good looking guy can go bald too and lose a lot of his attractiveness, while that can't happen to a woman 99.9 % of the time.
It's ok for woman to be short, they don't go blad 99.9% of the time, and they don't have a penis to worry about. Women win.
It's ok for women to be short, but being taller than their guy they're interested in pretty much means their crush is doomed to failure. There aren't a lot of guys I've met that will date a woman significantly taller than them. Women don't tend to go bald but there are plenty of other ways in which the female body ages and lets just say we have to pay way more attention to it than you guys do (how often do you start stressing about how many age marks you have on your skin or if there are too many lines one your face? Women are held to way higher expectations in terms of maintaining their appearance). And while male genitalia do seem slightly inconvenient, try periods, giving birth, post-partum depression, and menopause and then tell me that having a penis is such a tragedy.
There are higher expectations for womans appearence? Blame your own gender for it. You are the one who accepts man at their bear stomach state.
Dude, why do you think so many girls express interest in guys who are well dressed or physically fit? Society in general, both sexes, just to be clear, assume that women will and should work harder on our appearances. If a man wants to wear gym shorts every day for a year, no one will even blink twice. If a woman chooses to do the same there's a good chance she'll have to sit there and defend it or explain why to someone. If a woman were preparing for a party or event you'd assume she'd do hair, make-up, outfit, shoes, jewelry/accessories, perfume, nails, etc. All guys have to do is find a shirt without holes and take a shower if they're feeling fancy. Heck, part of the modern feminist movement is just directed as fighting gender-based expectations of attire and appearance in the workplace (there's similar issues for certain racial and religious groups as well).
Lol the modern feminist movement is doing just fine in that. Ik most guys don’t give a f about make up or what u wear. What we do give a f about is if you don’t do your fair share in a group project. Same goes with boys too. Everyone has to pull their own weight and life a finger and work
@JohnK123 I also know most guys don't care, but enough do that it affects us. And dude, I don't know about you but I was the smart kid. I did all the work thank you very much. And it's the guys in my engineering classes that were most inclined to sit back and have me do it. Really the guys in any class I've had that tended to flake the soonest.
That’s great but Ik many great engineers of both genders. I just know more instances across all the schools and friends I have of girls not doing their work, only caring about their nails or looks, complaining about school uniforms, doing tik toks in class, and not even doing hard work in all girl schools. They literally get their hands held in school all the time
There are pros and cons to both genders with different advantages and disadvantages. I think you need to get off the internet for a little bit and go out and enjoy life. If you have a flaw there are ways to compensate for it.
Yes. I will do hair transplant.
Women have the ability to have children. Be thankful we weren't structured after bee / ant colonys; the Queen's siren song compels the whole, even to the point of death. Later these same women become invisible to the men they want, it's not all sunshine & rainbows.
Actions = consequences.
what if you are ugly fat smelly woman? I mean.. do you even care? she is ignored instantly. You can't compare men's life to super models on TV. Men have advantages at work. They can crawl up the stairs that women have glass ceiling. you can do heavy lifting than most girls do. that's not a advantage? whatever..
also getting pregnant is advantage? you want to carry a baby for 10 month leaving your body shape destroyed? is that a advantage? what if the child is not expected and you have to take care of him her for the rest of your life?
there are more male billionaires than female. is that a disadvantage?
I mean you can cross dress and start going out and enjoy female advantage. Many men do it nowadays what stopping you?
Be a tranny
YOU ARE A GAY
Nice excuses. A fat woman can lose weight and a smelly woman can take a bath/shower. I know tons of woman who looks in shape after giving birth. Since woman give birth everyone put them on the pedestal, meaning since man can't give birth, being a man is no challenge.
I'm not a tranny, and I'm not gay either. Sorry.
Also you women get put on the pedestal all the time cause you give birth for example. A men can't do that so anything else he does is futile compared to that. You have dumb people like Steve Harvey saying this all the time. The future of men are very sad and pointless.
Sounds like someone wants to change genders so bad… or stop using a blue account to attack men. 🤣 it’s pathetic.
That's exactly why we have these individuals called LADYBOYS. or Transgirls. Why do you think they did what they did?
It's not nearly the same being as born as a woman.
And they are still not a woman.
"Woman have so many privileges compared to woman that it's just sad..."
What privilege? Pretty privilege? Dude, I'm legit ugly lol.
When I started working as a professional programmer I was hugely advantaged as there was still a lot of sex discrimination in the field. Today I think we have ruined school for boys.
We don't.
Stop your whining and man-up.
Nobody says this to women.
cause men are the disposable gender. you need only one man to fertilize a billion women. but you a woman can only make like 20 children at max during her life.
If one man fertilize a billion woman than all their children will be siblings, and if those children have sex or make a family that's incest. So no, it doesn't work like that and it proves that man being disposable is a bad and unhealthy stigma. This is why I'm saying that man are not appreciated at all and this is why being a man sucks horse balls overall.
you're doing a lot of mental gymnastics to look past the point i'm making. you need WAY LESS MEN to keep the human race alive than women. even if you account for incest.
if you can not acknowledge that. you lost touch with reality. and that's not even some sort of sjw/feminazi talking point. it's just a fact.
It still has a bigger chance of incest. Also a person who lives for 90 years, that's 32.000 days. Take away the first 15-20 years of childhood. I understand your point but how exactly is this good about being a man?
xD i'm not saying this is good about being a man. i'm saying it sucks to be disposable. but you get the benefit of being stronger. i guess that's the positive aspect.
Alright bro than have fun putting women on the pedestal and looking down on yourself. Hope it will be worth it.
i'm not putting women on a pedestal. i'm being realisitc. for the procreation of the human race, women are just objectively more important. men are objectively more important for the structure, logicstics and infrastructure. because women can't do the heavy lifting of construction and maintenance. so men are needed. tho not for things that are nice for men xD
We have woman today who jack themselves up in the gym, and the feminist movement that say woman can do what man can. So what exactly is the point of being a man these days? It's a pathetic existance.
a woman who jacks herself up in the gym can never be as strong as a man who does the same. and that's the disadvantage of being a woman. cause "on a level playing field", you can never live up to male performance.
yes a strong woman can be stronger than a weak man. but all things being the same, men out perform women every time.
That is exactly what I observed as well. I agree with you 100%. Being a woman today is an unbelievable privilege. We, men, are treated badly by society and the world seems very gynocentric.
Yea, sadly it's all about women these days. We could only wish to be ever be treated as equel to them.
Once you realize “equality” isn’t real, and look humans as part of the animal kingdom, it makes more sense.
It doesn't matter if it makes sense or not because it still sucks no matter how you view it. It's actually pathetic.
Give me a break!
Yea, I know that nobody cares about men, including you. It's all the women.
Who set that system up? Did we say men should go into war? No men did. They called women weak and said they’re only good enough to cook for men. You guys also called yourselves weak when showing emotion while most women say the opposite. So yet again you’ve set yourselves up and us women get the blame when I’ve not once seen any woman say men shouldn’t show emotions etc. you guys just assume that’s what women think but it’s men who think that. And you lot like impressing other men so continue to walk on shells so other men don’t think of you as weak…
@Okaymynameisidkbuthi Not necessarily true. Many woman admits that they hate it when man cry, and they feel disgust. You woman can only appreciate strength.
@Okaymynameisidkbuthi lol yes but I’m talking about modern times :) that was like I don't know 250 years ago or whatever. When biden was asked to make women also follow that rule and he said maybe women all over the country freaked out, calling it unfair. Idc what happened that long ago; the future is now :)
womens advantages are on a very short window of time though. Guys have it much harder early in life but i feel like things get much better for us as we get older and women start to lose their superpowers as they age.
I disagree. Why is being a 50 year old man better than being a 50 year old woman in any way? Look at Halle Berry, and Jennifer Lopez. I doubt you know any man in real life who look nearly as fit and young in their age.
cuz our looks don’t matter as much as theirs do. u think leo decaprio has a better life now or when he was in his 20’s? j lo doesn’t even look that good anymore
If it doesn't matter to you than more power to you. I don't want to look like an old hobo as I age. Looking good, and being in shape has tons of health benefits too, plus if you feel good in your skin you are more confident and happy within yourself.
lol bitter delusional men be like, no matter the age most women will be more wanted than you because of your bitterness and physical unattractiveness 🤣🤣
Leo was 100% more wanted when he was younger and actually attractive, but again you are delusional. So you don’t care about facts or reality 😂😂
@Aphrodite801 he has more money and status now you tard looks are irrelevant 🤣 u keep trying to relate guys to women and it’s just not the same
If women didn’t care about looks y’all wouldn’t get rejected all the time for being ugly 🤡 y’all approach random women all the time damn time and we go off your looks 🤡🤡
It’s always the ugly guys being delusional about looks 🤣🤣 most if not ALL the women you approach are rejecting your ass because of your looks keep crying about that lmao
Literally you’ve obviously been rejected most of your life and that was because of your looks and your personality 😂😂 nothing else lots broke men have gfs you’re just a bitter loser.
@Aphrodite801 can you go be a bitch somewhere else please? ur trying to cause drama where no one cares what u have to say ✌️🖕
Leo is viewed as a literal pedo now 🤡🤡 more status wtf are you smoking so many people don’t like that WEIRDO now
Men have a lot of disadvantages dude I'll agree. But I think most people would agree it still much better to be a man than a woman. I don't trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die 😆
A smart women would never trade with a man. Trust me bro.
Need to weed out the weak and keep the strong.
The only thing necessary for anyone and I mean anyone to take advantage is for others to not do a damn thing. Rise up or accept your role..
I hate my role.
Then transition to a woman if you hate it so much.
@CrimsonAngel09 The only chance to be a woman is to be born as a woman. I can never be a real woman.
ugh. you must be republican. this is so misogynistic. You name says it all.
I am a Donald Trump supporter.
I am a republican because I don't like to bend over and take the D from Obama and Biden. I also don't want to see our planet in flames like you.
Being a man is one of the easiest things in the world.
Lol I love when people block because their feelings are hurt @uglymite
Bad joke. I would laugh about what you said if it wasn't so stupid. Ask all the man who died in their dangerous work place or the tons of man who committed suicide. Or ask the man who died in war.
What’s stupid is you having an account complaining about being a man. It’s embarrassing actually 😂
Not a joke, men make everyone’s lives more miserable, that’s including other men. You can’t play victim when you are the problem.
Obviously. When someone borns as a man he is automatically problematic and a problem to society, based on your logic. Doesn't this proves my point?
It’s only the short ugly bald men that have those disadvantages 😜
I'm not ugly or short. I just lost a lot of my hair, but I can fix that. It still sucks that man have to deal with this in the first place since evolution doesn't care about man either.
It's an overstatement to say no disadvantages. How about consider their biological disadvantage?
That most of them are gorgeous? That's not a disadvantage if you ask me.
You are saying that not me and if you are so blind to see the biological disadvantages i am talking about, you're only looking at one side of the story here and you could be the problem. Maybe you're projecting your own failure to every men here. Its not our fault your life sucks.
Or if it really isn't your fault something happened in your life, it is still your responsibility to fix your own.
Do you need a tissue? Stop feeling sorry for yourself and make the most with what you have.
Endless opportunists bring endless problems, mate.
Men have tons of advantages and disadvantages, as do women.
Please go outside to the real world. Get some fresh air.
It's sad that you think so
I mean it's the truth.
I don’t know what to say to this, honestly 🤣
The grass is always greener on the other side.
This time it's a tually is.
they don’t.
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