Have you ever been sorry you asked a question on GaG and wish you could just delete the whole thing?

[sage2021]

That's the bad thing about asking a question and people that don't even know you or understand where you're coming from twist the question and start being all judgy on you. Even in the face of going into great detail about what you mean, they still twist it and don't even know what I am talking about.
So, I just pull out of a question I asked if they aren't going to be reasonable nor understand where I am coming from.
I think the guys that hate women are the ones that must have put their 2 cents of an opinion only to put me down.
I guess I will have to ask more boring questions from now on, like do you still have all of your toes and fingers?🤬

[strateguy632]

i don't take such replies personally like you did. i expect different people to have different opinions.

i am not like the people who have experience "reporting stuff to facebook... and seeing it vanish!" yay, hid the troll... or the undesirable opinion. that just isn't my thing.

[Surely]

Yes, I have. Especially when spell check changes your words and makes the question into some other meaning.
Sorry about your loss! I know that you will work through this part of your life!

[sage2021]

@Surely
That darn spell check can change the entire meaning of someone's opinion her. Like if you write the word "does" and it changes it to "doesn't". WTF?

Thank you for remembering that I am struggling with a lot of emotions and grief. I guess there is just no way to grieve properly because with me, everyday I grieve differently. Some days
I miss him so much I end up with a stomach ache. Other days I look at all of our photos and read his text messages and songs he sent to me. Other days I can't bare to even look at pictures of him because it overwhelms me.
So it's hard, but I have a son that needs me, so I live for him, just as I always have.
Thank you for your words 😌

[douride2]

Yes I did one of those years ago. I was at a low point in my life & put more personal info out there then I should have. Thankfully an understanding admin helped me out with getting rid of the question.

[sage2021]

@douride2
You were lucky they took it down. See, I don't even know how to get in touch with them to do that 🤔

[douride2]

I put the word out to one of the long gone mods I was friends with & she helped me out of a bad situation. .

[douride2]

@sage2021 Thanks for a MHO.

[Siri137]

Yes, I've deleted a few of my questions. Not because of the criticism I received for asking them, but because I thought the question itself was either embarrassing or, in retrospect, silly.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I disagree. I think you should ask your question, because there will be people out here wanting to help.. You just have to learn how to ignore the muppets.

[sage2021]

@TommyMountainFigure
I hear you, but this last question I asked only one guy was nice to me.
It's hard for me to ignore it when I feel if only they knew me in real life they wouldn't be saying that. And by then, I feel like I stuck my hand in a snake pit.
After being on GaG three years, I am finally wearing my hard turtle shell because I am going through something in my life right now I have never experienced.
Last September 8 - just 6 months ago my boyfriend that was living with me died suddenly. I am still trying to figure out a way to deal with losing the love of my
life. Gone forever.

So when some stranger guy tells me I just always pick the wrong guys it just felt like I got sucker punched in my gut.

But I will try ok? 😊

[TommyMountainFigure]

I am so sorry for your loss. I have been sitting here for half an hour deleting, rewriting anything I can think of to try to help you through this terrible time. I honestly wish I had the words to ease your pain, I know however there are none. >:D< << that is an old style Yahoo Hug (I can't do the emotes properly in here)

[sage2021]

@TommyMountainFigure
Just knowing in your heart you are trying to ease my pain means a lot to me. Thank you very much for being such a kind person 🙂

[BCRanger10]

I'm sure there have been. Once or twice before, I've browsed through all the questions I've ever asked here. Each time, I've died inside a little when coming across many of my questions from the 2012-2013 time frame.

[BCRanger10]

Fortunately for me though, at least most of those cringey inquiries were anonymous 😆

[FunkyMonkee]

Once or twice but, only because those that responded turned it into something I never intended it to be. I'm just innocently trying to get an answer for things I could never experience myself and they make it into something quite perverse!

[JT017]

I haven't yet.

But I am surprised the amount of incels that are on this site that give garbage opinions. All they do is judge and they don't try to answer the question.

[exitseven]

Yes, a long time ago I asked a question if you knew somebody who was murdered. I was shocked at the number of people who knew people who have been murdered.

[worldscolide]

I'm one of em. There was a serial killer in my home town and he killed a friend of my family

[exitseven]

@worldscolide I know 5 people who have been murdered.

[worldscolide]

Ouch.. by the way the person that killed said family friend was Dennis Rader, Or BTK

[exitseven]

@worldscolide holy crap.

[Jamie05rhs]

Omg.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah sometimes because people take things the wrong way and don’t understand what I’m asking

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm confused, Sage. What was the problem with that question? I read it, and it seemed perfectly normal to me. And none of the comments were mean or rude. They all seemed to be adding helpful opinions.

[sage2021]

@Jamie05rhs
When someone tells me that things don't turn out good in my relationships because I always pick the wrong guy sounds like it's always my fault that it turns out the way it does.
If that was coming from someone that knew my personally, then it might make sense. But I think it's kinda cliche to say it's because I always pick the wrong guy just isn't the case Jamie.

Then to infer that I am bossy when they don't know me in person again, it's just not the case.
The question wasn't just about me, it was a generalized question, but they kept sounding like it was me personally.
"Is being bossy the criteria of being an Alpha Female"? I was asking in general.
Anyway...

[Jamie05rhs]

@sage2021 Who said that? I didn't see that comment.

[sage2021]

@Jamie05rhs
The people that are Anonymous on here are the ones that say that to me. Another one on a different question blamed me for picking the wrong guy for me and thought I should seek counseling for it.
If he had read the paragraph under the question he would have seen that the guy I got married to wasn't on drugs and didn't drink and neither do I and we got along great. Argued about once a year.

[sage2021]

@Jamie05rhs
They were two different questions where I was told that I pick the wrong guys.
One question was about Alpha Females and the other asked if you were ever sorry you posted a question here and wish you could delete it.
Then there was also the question about relationships and being with a chemicalized person.
So that's three.
Sorry for the confusion.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh; okay.

[Kelly6]

@sage2021 i once asked a stupid question and got being called stupid.

wanted to delete it but had to wait for days

[Anonymous]

nope. it got deleted for me because it was an "almost nude"

[BLP11520]

Twice for sure 😐

[Dargil]

I've wanted to edit typos and some content.

[worldscolide]

Good God which question was it?

[sage2021]

@worldscolide
It was my question
"Is being bossy the main criteria for being an Alpha Female"?

[serious]

Only once

[sirderpsalot123]

Nope

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope