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Very generic question: "Should we wish our S. O happy birthday wishes" when she's asked for space?

Sorry the story is long so, I'll try to give an insight for everyone to understand.

Everyone in their relationships have an era of highs and lows. My problem is this. We've had a wonderful 3 year relationship. But of course like every relationships, we've had our up's and downs. So we were in term of arguing and having rows over many things in life. Just like couple times, she has asked for space several time in the relationship. I've tried my best not to violate her request, but on the other hand have always been the one to reach out because of missing her a lot. So the last time she has asked for space again was on the 4th of November, I've reached out once again (I know I shouldn't have). Text was fine, but when ever I try to call, she kept saying she does not wanna talk yet. Which at this point arguments kicked in because I couldn't take this space all the time etc. (I'm sorry, I know I suck in this area). The argument went so wrong (Text of course) that I tried to persuade her that Text isn't taking us anywhere and that we had to speak it through on a call. Things got more bad (No insults or nasty words, just peek anger).
She said she is done and it's over etc several time. But as we slowly cooled off a bit, she said do the basic, just respect my request of asking for space just once etc... I apologised once again and left it as it is.
Now my question is, this happened yesterday (15/11/2022). And her birthday is on 2nd of Decemeber. What do I do?
I don't wanna really violate her space this time, but I also don't wanna use her birthday as an excuse to reach out again. Please I'm desperate for help!

Sorry for the long story in advance.
Very generic question: "Should we wish our S. O happy birthday wishes" when she's asked for space?
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