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This is why I don't seriously date a lot of girls out there.I never consider relationships with girls who go to bars because the last thing I need to have on my mind is a girl throwing away her money, health, and potentially our relationship weekend after weekend.
Guys are looking to hook up at bars. Have that in your mind for each and every guy that approaches you. They want to hook up. They are not interested in what you do for a living. They are not interested in what you do for fun. They don't care who your friends are. They see a girl drinking and an opportunity to hook up and play their hunting games. Plus a lot of guys are very desperate. They'll buy you drinks with the pure intention of wanting you drunker to make it easier for them. The chances of a relationship coming out of a bar are rare. Even if you find someone at a bar to go to bars with, then you gotta deal with more people approaching you at the bar and him probably getting annoyed resulting in more fights. People have clouded judgment from drinking. Then you got the really nasty people who want to spike something special in your drink. They are out there.
By 25+ hopefully you are tired of the bar scene.
its only rude if your leading them on then rejecting them later on in the conversation by mentioning you have a boyfriend . if its clear that your just being friendly and out having a good time then some chating shouldn't be an issue
Other, I have no idea. I have the same problem as does practically every woman in a relationship. If you don't talk to them you're a stuck up bitch and if you do then you're a prick-tease, attention loving whore. Basically you can't win but does it really matter what some random guys think. What does matter is what does your boyfriend think cause mine just laughs. One thing I have found somewhat useful is my engagement ring. If a guy comes upto me I smile and just hold my hand up but if I have a single friend I introduce them. I think as long as you don't leave it too long into the conversation to mention your boyfriend or take drinks off a guy you should be ok
Guys strike up conversations in bars mainly because they hope it will lead to more. Not sure what you are doing that is making it so easy for them to talk to you. I do not look at guys or look them in the eyes or pretty much do anything other than talk to my friends and relax when I am out, so most guys unless they are hardcore players will not approach me. Not making eye contact is a big signal that you are not interested or not available.
So, I don't think it is bad to talk to a guy but I think it is misleading to them and the way to avoid being rude would be to avoid being particularly easy to talk to in the first place.
Talking is fine. Flirting is wrong. Sometimes dudes at the bar have girlfriends too, but are just wanting to chat with someone while their buddy is in the pisser. But if he's coming on to you, try to get it across that you're taken.
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I say go ahead and talk to them. I'm sure your man knows what bars are all about, and since he's still not coming with you, that must mean he's okay with it.
Seriously, though, the only time I ~wouldn't~ accompany my girlfriend someplace like that is if it's specifically labeled a "girls' night" and my presence would be a buzz kill. I do worry a little bit. I mean, my girl knows to keep an eye on her drinks and make sure nobody slips her anything, but you can't be 100% vigilant all of the time.
You would come across as rude if you didn't talk, because if they get to deep in the convo, you can always mention, your boyfriend, this will either make them cut the convo short or accept your not available and just choose to enjoy your company, its always happening, not every guy wants to get in your knickers, so never ignore a guy, this would come across as stuck up and your end up with a reputation as "stuck up" there's no harm in talking, its what bars are far,x
Honestly you know what bar scenes are about, some people come for socializing but a lot of guys come to hopefully take a girl home or get a number in the very least. If your not approaching these guys then just let them know your taken. Oh and don't accept drinks from guys its an invitation to conversation.
It should be assumed that all women at bars have a man.
I see nothing wrong with a woman going out with the girls to have a good time. Sitting there like a bump on a log is boring, stupid and a waste of time. Have fun.
If you're just talking friendly? Nope. If you're flirting with them? Yep.
depends on what you mean by talk. flirting & leading them on is not right even though plenty of girls do it to get drinks & attention. if its just talking then its fine
its OK as long as you don't give false signals or lead someone else on. make it clear you have your romeo.
You should bring up your boyfriend within 5 minutes of conversation. Otherwise it can lead to a lot of confusion.
Do you tell your boyfriend that you talk to other guys, you know so your not rude? And what if the table was turned, say he went out with his friends somewhere and women came up to him and talked to him, would you care?
no its not bad at all. You can talk to the opposite gender and be friends with them
yes, I think it's bad
I don't see why it would be
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