Guys, if you let a (maybe even drunk) girl sleep over...

[Anonymous]

maybe you are drunk too, whatever, just in general, you let a girl friend stay over as she can't drive anymore/missed the last train/bus whatever, do you expect anything from it?

and if not, lets say you end up cuddling and liking each others' company, does it mean anything to you? and what if it happens a few times, do you have to like the girl or do you just let anybody really sleep over?

[MrOracle]

In general, most guys are probably HOPING that the girl is going to want to "be close" to them and end up having sex, and especially if the guy is drunk too, he's probably not very likely to be especially moral about not "taking advantage of her" because she's drunk. If the girl seems to be okay with it, most guys will go for it. Thus, cuddling and laying together is a BAD IDEA if you don't want things to go further than that, because they often will.

I've been in that situation, and I've always put her to bed separate from where I'm sleeping. I don't want her to wake up and feel taken advantage of in any way. Most girls have been grateful to be left alone.

A couple of times, the girl has left her sleeping area and climbed into bed with me, and in that situation, well, things happen.

[Anonymous]

Not expect but if a friend stays over and sleeps in my bed then yes I'm probably hoping for a little action. No big deal if it doesn't happen but it is nice. She has to be someone I am comfortable with if nothing is going to happen, she has to be a close friend. If it is a stranger and no sex she won't be sharing my bed or cuddling. But do guys let any girl sleepover yeah they do, mostly because he is hoping for some action.

[temptationfalls]

She sleeps in my bed, I sleep on the couch. I expect nothing from them. My friends know better than to come to my house planning to drink without a DD though. I've taken people's keys from them and locked them in my safe to prevent them from driving before.

I don't care who the person is. If you're drunk and can't get home, crash at my place (unless I don't like you. Then you get kicked out of the house as soon as I realize I don't like you). Guys get a nice spot on the couch or floor and girls have the option of my bed (alone) or a couch.

[Professor_Zoom]

Well, I question anything done while under the infulence of alcohol. It may happen, but if those things only happen when we're drunk then I have to wonder if those feelings are genuine.

Also, if I let a drunk girl sleep over, I don't expect anything. I'll most likely let her crash in the living room, and make her some coffee in the morning for the hangover.

[Mjeremy111]

Maybe you lik the girl or maybe she's just easy