Guys! Have you ever treated a girl bad and regretted? (Page 2)

[SwissCheeze]

Wait I thought/believed women/girls loved being treated like crap? That's why so many females date the a holes, jerks etc?

[tomfeltonforever]

Girls don't date a**holes (on purpose, unless they're mentally disturbed). They want to date guys with a lot confidence and backbones. They want to date guys who have goals and opinions that can stick up for themselves. They don't want a beta or a doormat. They don't want self-proclaimed nice guys that are actually misogynists that get angry at women for not dating them because they're "nice." They don't want indecisive and weak-willed men.

[SwissCheeze]

@tomfeltonforever so basically your admitting females love to date jerks? You just said girls don't date a**holes on purpose so basically that means they like them over the nice guys. Just admit what I said was true women and girls love to be treated like crap and always will.

[Sportsnutim]

Yes, she was a great gal and I dumped her. I have been kicking myself in the butt ever since.

[stevo1]

I've done it at least two times I can remember, in RL and here. I only regretted it in RL. Not here.

[Anonymous]

Like kheserthorpe, I only regret treating them too nicely.

[dipta]

You should always treat people nicely (not too nicely) with the same amount of consideration and respect you'd like to receive. That way you'll never regret it, even when people abuse your kindness >__<

[Opinion Owner]

I did.

[kheserthorpe]

dipta - perhaps initially that's a great idea.

In the longer term, its probably best to treat people how they treat you. You start treating well, and maintain it. If they treat you badly, you cut off treating them well. They treat you well again, you return to treating them well. You show them that you don't hold grudges and they can count on good treatment if they are good too.

Otherwise, you will train people to exploit you.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree. I'm not a bad guy, I just learned not to be nice if I'm not getting it in return.

[Anonymous]

No...women need that good-bad rollercoaster.

so I don't regret it

[adamfk1]

no , but all girls treat me bad because I'm ugly

[SwissCheeze]

Same here I was once used by a girl in HS.

[6Paul11]

Yes.

[blackkid2]

I just felt bad.

[Anonymous]

I never treat a girl wrong she is my queen

[Anonymous]

No they don't