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I've been in a committed relationship with a small scale rapper for almost a year now and wanted to write about what it's been like. I feel like these points apply to almost every relationship. #1 Get ready for a whole...

“Don't be in a hurry to condemn because he doesn't do what you do or think as you think or as fast. There was a time when you didn't know what you know today.” -Malcolm X I had debated with myself about what I should do...

Things Guys Say Just To Get In Your Pants Men do and say a lot of crazy things in order to get sex from girls. Here are some things guys will tell girls just to get in their pants. Though many of these phrases come out...

One thing that bothers me about death is my fear the death was preventable, whenever an unjustly wronged person dies, I wonder whether it was health issues or suicide. I remember I once went to an optometrist to get my...

Being Pretty Can Hurt Can being attractive actually have a negative effect on a persons life? The answer is Yes, it absolutely can hurt a person in some aspects of their life. Here are some reasons why being pretty can...

Depression is something I have dealt with my entire life and many millions more in this world face the same daily struggles themselves. While I don't feel there is as big of a social stigma as there used to be, it still...

I don't believe in censorship of opposing ideals so please feel free to post here as you'd like with your thoughts. Some of us can accept criticism. : ) Insecurity. It's a word that angers some and describes many more...

After 5 years of chasing a man who I was deeply in love with, I messaged him after not hearing from him for a while to find out that he was now in a relationship. Immediately then was a rip of pain in my heart. I started...

Why do some men have issues if women are single by 35 or 45? How is it affecting you? Instead of giving genuine advice, you are using manipulations at the best by injecting the idea of how a woman is supposed to be ; A...

Jesus said if you seek God’s kingdom and His righteousness, that God would clothe you more than the flowers or lilies of the field. So what does this clothing mean? My aunt is obese but full of kindness and compassion and...

First this not an attack on men. Women get a bad rap about playing games when men do it too. The double standards . If a woman is too easy she’s a ho and he won’t think twice she hold out too long maybe if he sticks...