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Good point.
I was starting to feel alone because it can be fun to be someone you get along with. Even walking in the store seeing other couples bother me. I tell myself I wish I didn't have drama from my child mom, things would be a lot better.
I'm really just taking my time to get myself together and hopefully I will be ready when the time come.
Being single for my whole life, sometime i wonder how does it feel like to have someone caring for your being. But then i again, i hate the idea for having to consider someone else when it comes to decision making, all the compromising and adjusment i have to do to make things works.
Your still so young girl! I didn't date at all until I was 20. Just trust that you will when the time is right :)
Do you have a boyfriend?
cause if you do... LUCKY GUY!
you seem to very intelligent, experienced and wise as well as understanding
I wish i was your age, i would love to just soak up all your ideas and passions while drinking a glass of wine and enjoying a sunset or something lol! 😍😍😍
Very good take. I'm still confused whether I should remain single throughout life, or not. So far had been single and mainly 2 things sucks -- loneliness and lack of sex. But, I'm also very much worried about the loss of freedom, burden of having a relationship etc. -- that's too intimidating enough to make me tell "no".
Find a woman who makes you feel more free and alive with her than without her.
I hear you. I can deal with the lack of sex, that's why I think a long-distance relationship could work for me. I'd be okay with only a little bit of sex here and there. The problem for me is the uncertainty. Will I ever get a girlfriend that I'll be happy with? It looks unlikely. Will I ever get a girlfriend at all? Honestly, I don't see how I will.
"Find a woman who makes you feel more free and alive with her than without her. "
I did, just to lose them :(
Aftet having a few bad relationships and growing up im at a point in my life where i want to be single. By purposely trying to nate date anyone gives me the time to explore myself and work on myself and such. Its like a resort for your inner feelings to relax, take a break and such. Im honestly starting to enjoy it or at least have a better understanding of who i want to date in the near future
The phrase "If you are unhappy single, then you'll be unhappy in a relationship" doesn't make any sense. Obviously if you're unhappy because you're lonely, getting a relationship will fix that.
Though I don't expect the average girl to understand, they have a bit of an easier time getting a boyfriend.
Ha :) but women usually aren't attracted to unhappy guys. Kind of a Catch22 :)
I don't agree with the phrase either, I believe that being in a loving relationship with someone you really like and who likes you back can totally make your life better. Its also true with friendships obviously.
If all that you've known in your life is being single, while you watch everyone loving and being loved by someone, then being single wouldn't be as wonderful anymore. Sure, there are freedom that comes with being single. But there are also the torture of loneliness from not having someone who appreciates you. If you've always been single, you'd wonder what is the problem with you that makes no one wants you
This is me, finally someone who gets yet
There's nothing wrong with you. there is a time for everything. It's just not your time yet. Waayyyy better than dating a bunch of people and getting your heart broken over and over and over.
I used to date online but I stoped because I knew relationships would be hard on me and that's why I wanted to be single and I like being single cause I can do what I like to do and also I find ways to entertain myself by going to fun places with a friend like go to museums and shopping and go walking on a trail and I spend my time online doing games or Twitter YouTube Pinterest and tumbler
Thank you for this lovely take @Ozanne I've never been in a single relationship in my 30 years of life. It can get pretty lonely and yeah there were moments where i'd wonder if i'd meet anyone at all who would want to be with me. I agree focusing on yourself is very important. I should just live life and if i just happen to meet someone ill go for it. I won't go seeking for it at least until i feel completely happy with myself and where im at in life.
I've been single most of my life. And I never suffered from sexual frustration... Rosy palm and her five sisters were more than enough to satisfy me. When I was in a relationship, the invasion of privacy and the incessant expectations being heaped on one after the other... I hated being committed so bad that I pretended to be impotent so that she'll dump me... And life has looked up since
I'm just single because I'm not in a place were I can traditionally date right now lol, I am a relationship guy though I love being in them and want to be in them lol.
I enjoy being single but i dont have too many single friends and most are dating someone which means less time to hang out with them. I just want a balanced life having me time and then going out with friends but most of the time events i see people go to are only for couples and i feel like im being left out bc of it
Single is all fine and dandy but when you have nothing else but to be single, then it starts sawing at your heart. Being single is ok if you have already been in a relationship, not if you haven't.
Great myTake Ozanne, really pertinent points.
However it was tricky for me being single and happy, only when i found her did i really begin to enjoy my own and our lives together, but it worked out in the end.
Of course it is ok. Relationships are not joke. Everyone deserves the right person.
I personally prefer being single than a meaningless relationship.
This reminds me of one of my favorite songs. The intro is hilarious, but if you just want the song, skip to about the 3 minute mark.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rU-sCw1xnLUI can handle being single most of the time. It's the sexual frustration that builds up and gets me feeling lonely and wanting a relationship. Personally I would rather have less free time and zero sexual frustration than the way things are now.
I feel ya, brah!
the sexual frustration leads me to sadness other than that its ok. I miss having one person in the world who pretended to care.
I wouldn't mind being single if I knew that I could be in a relationship. It's the knowing that there's no hope that sucks.
Why would that be? (The no hope part.)
I'm not attractive.
Not talking about looks, I'm handsome enough, but I've got nothing that turns a woman on. I'm loving and kind, but so what? So's a dog.
Girls want a partner who's fun to be around, makes her feel excited, protected, happy, someone who's attractive. I can't give that to them.
Humans seek relationships out of an instinctual need to reproduce. Being single is much more logical once you understand how unnatural relationships are.
Humans seek relationships because our greatest desire is to love and to be loved.
Man is visually turned on by the female's signs of fertility such as healthy weight of good breast sizes, etc.
Women are attracted to his height, resources, wealth, his social skills and other signs of high status.
Two get together if both find what they are searching for in each other. Chemical reactions happen bonding them together so they can create offspring.
There is no love, only science.
Hun, true love is not a feeling. It is a verb. It's a choice. It's saying "no matter what, I chose to show you love."
You're talking about "being in love" which is a feeling, I'm talking about love. Greek forms are agape and phileos. Not eros.