Slogans don't change reality. People are drawn to success, women included. They don't necessarily want to take money away from the guy, but they want the things he can buy them. I'll believe the natural human behavior I see around me every day over a sassy headline on social media.
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How many women have you dated ma'am to know this is true?
When Guys say women want our money, its because we actually encounter these women all the time and we are speaking about ACTUAL experiences and not some fantasy world that you created in your head.
Again, how many straight women have you dated to come up with this conclusion? Obviously you don't attract/interact with gold-digger because they are not coming for YOUR money.
This is the whole point of my article. And yes, shit does happen and I did mention, that gold diggers exist. It's up to the boys to decide whether they fancy throwing money at girls because if you do, then this is how you attract such kind of girls in the first place, how you maintain such girls in the first place and how you remember getting such girls in the first place.
How do I attract these kinds of women? Dude these women seek you out. You really think women are these innocent creatures?
I've been making money for years but lived a modest life. Six months ago I bought a very, very nice car and I posted it on social media, with the caption "hard work pays off" . You wouldn't believe how many women started messenging me and wanting to hang out. Girls in my office who never spoken to me, started making small talk and adding me on FB.
So I'm not picking these women out. I have no idea who is being genuine or not. This My Take means nothing to me because you are not in my (or other guys) position to know what's it's like. Even most of my male friends who are very well off, are starting to dress down, and take girls on very low key cheap dates, because they to have encountered a lot of gold diggers who pretend like money isn't what they are after. Yet they only want to eat at expensive restaurants, get bottle service at clubs, expensive gifts etc.
That was entirely under your control. You flaunted with status symbols like your car. Of course gold diggers will notice you right away, why shouldn't they? What your male friends are doing is what every man with common sense should be doing if he doesn't want to deal with any gold diggers. So pat them right on their back for being clever about approaching the dating.
I think there must be something going on. Women are speaking up about what turns them on and what doesn’. Plus, they are doing so with candor and getting rid of stereotypes/ just remember that guys can hold the door for you and then fuck you fast and hard with your ankles around his back holding you up. Pull your hair a little as he takes you. Th
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After inspecting all the comments and this, uh, article... Well, I have a lot to, comment. *Most* women want a man who has a job that can support them, because that means he actually cares about the relationship. I, myself, don't really care much for money, as long as we wouldn't be in debt, etc. Also, I see dudes talking about how *some* women don't pay for dinner, movies, etc. There are a few reasons for this. As you all know, a while back women didn't make hardly any money, so a man had to, and, although now women can be well off, it is still a worldwide habit, *stereotype*, for men to pay, it is also kind. I don't speak for all women or all men, but, *MOST* women just want a gentleman, and *MOST* men (this answer brought to you by male friends), want a woman who appreciates and provides kindness, is pretty, and knows how to help/contribute.
Its because men don't find independent women the top level of attractiveness. Ie how often do men worry specifically about what fat women want? Its not a common concern because its not something most men care about. Just as most men typically date dependent women, this is a concern with them and sure men could just date independent women but thats like suggesting to paint a sinking ship instead of fixing the hole. Lol
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I have two brothers who come across gold diggers all the time. So as much I want to agree with you, it's so so different in the real life. :(
"BUT we also do not want a lazy bum, who is unemployed, unambitious, has no perspective and doesn't know what to do with his life either and doesn't do anything to improve his situation." Exactly, poor men can't afford women, it's still a prerequisite that a man has money before you date him.
So you are saying men care about looks women care about money, that makes women literally whores/prostitutes. Someones looks are at least gender specific, it's just being heterosexual, money is exchange for almost everything, needing it is saying you are a product... a prostitute.
No. My point suggests that just like men think women value money over anything else, women also think that men value looks more than anything. That's what I'm trying to convey.
So to actually disprove each other, we have to act the way we're NOT expected to act. This is how stereotypes get broken. By going against them. Because that's what they are at the end of the way- only stereotypes :)
This seems kinda bullshitty, and written in a most pretentious fashion to boot. And this idea that it's our fault for not catching a gold digger sounds a lot like victim blaming to me. Not that this is very applicable to me since I have no interest in this, "modern woman."
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So one of my professors said that the university knows the most used websites based on computers using the schools wifi.
After youtube and social media the most used website is Seekingarangements.[com] which is a sugar daddy website...
thats weird because just about every female i know won't date guys if they don't have a lot of money, I've always felt ownership was better thin money, i always worked towards owning things, i have a descent house and vehicle but because i dont have a lot of green to waist, im looked down on.
Dear Modern Women: Now that we've both established that most women DO care about a man's worth.
I'd just like to add that a man who has any worth doesn't care about your degrees, how independent you are, or how much money you have. Men who have money don't care, and why should we? Why would a girl with a fancy career and 60hr work week job be appealing to a guy who already has enough money to raise a family? I'd rather date a part-time McDonald's employee.
'And yes, money, educational degrees and titles, and status, are well known to be attractive to so many women.' .. you mean to say that an unemployed, unbathed woman who reeks of body odour and has ratty looking hair is attractive to men?
bad hygiene goes hand in hand with being homeless. 'And your typical man making a good living will value youth and beauty far more than a woman's job title.' .. and you guys are STILL surprised when a woman drops you like a hot potato once you give her the money/expensive shit she was interested in from the start? 🤣
@kaylaS91 what does being homeless have to do with me stating women are attracted to money and status? Did i say women should be homeless or unemployed?
On average, women want a man with higher status who makes more cash. On average men are happy to date lower status women if they have youth and beauty. Degrees don't mean nearly as much to men--a hot waitress is more attractive than a cute admin.
Not all, but I'm pretty sure I know more than several girls who tried hard to catch a big fish. It doesn't mean they would just go after the money and that's their only concern. But they were picking men as per their status
funny how this girl sayin she speaks for all women when she says they don't want us dude's money, but I seem to remember that last time I waved 200 bucks in a ho's face and told her to suck my dick she didn't waste NO time.
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Slogans don't change reality. People are drawn to success, women included. They don't necessarily want to take money away from the guy, but they want the things he can buy them. I'll believe the natural human behavior I see around me every day over a sassy headline on social media.
How many women have you dated ma'am to know this is true?
When Guys say women want our money, its because we actually encounter these women all the time and we are speaking about ACTUAL experiences and not some fantasy world that you created in your head.
Again, how many straight women have you dated to come up with this conclusion?
Obviously you don't attract/interact with gold-digger because they are not coming for YOUR money.
Down vote me ladies :)
This is the whole point of my article.
And yes, shit does happen and I did mention, that gold diggers exist. It's up to the boys to decide whether they fancy throwing money at girls because if you do, then this is how you attract such kind of girls in the first place, how you maintain such girls in the first place and how you remember getting such girls in the first place.
How do I attract these kinds of women? Dude these women seek you out. You really think women are these innocent creatures?
I've been making money for years but lived a modest life. Six months ago I bought a very, very nice car and I posted it on social media, with the caption "hard work pays off" . You wouldn't believe how many women started messenging me and wanting to hang out. Girls in my office who never spoken to me, started making small talk and adding me on FB.
So I'm not picking these women out. I have no idea who is being genuine or not. This My Take means nothing to me because you are not in my (or other guys) position to know what's it's like. Even most of my male friends who are very well off, are starting to dress down, and take girls on very low key cheap dates, because they to have encountered a lot of gold diggers who pretend like money isn't what they are after. Yet they only want to eat at expensive restaurants, get bottle service at clubs, expensive gifts etc.
This My Take was just to path yourself on the back. But you have no idea how it is in the real world.
That was entirely under your control. You flaunted with status symbols like your car. Of course gold diggers will notice you right away, why shouldn't they?
What your male friends are doing is what every man with common sense should be doing if he doesn't want to deal with any gold diggers. So pat them right on their back for being clever about approaching the dating.
I think there must be something going on. Women are speaking up about what turns them on and what doesn’. Plus, they are doing so with candor and getting rid of stereotypes/ just remember that guys can hold the door for you and then fuck you fast and hard with your ankles around his back holding you up. Pull your hair a little as he takes you.
Th
After inspecting all the comments and this, uh, article... Well, I have a lot to, comment. *Most* women want a man who has a job that can support them, because that means he actually cares about the relationship. I, myself, don't really care much for money, as long as we wouldn't be in debt, etc.
Also, I see dudes talking about how *some* women don't pay for dinner, movies, etc. There are a few reasons for this. As you all know, a while back women didn't make hardly any money, so a man had to, and, although now women can be well off, it is still a worldwide habit, *stereotype*, for men to pay, it is also kind. I don't speak for all women or all men, but, *MOST* women just want a gentleman, and *MOST* men (this answer brought to you by male friends), want a woman who appreciates and provides kindness, is pretty, and knows how to help/contribute.
Its because men don't find independent women the top level of attractiveness. Ie how often do men worry specifically about what fat women want? Its not a common concern because its not something most men care about. Just as most men typically date dependent women, this is a concern with them and sure men could just date independent women but thats like suggesting to paint a sinking ship instead of fixing the hole. Lol
I have two brothers who come across gold diggers all the time. So as much I want to agree with you, it's so so different in the real life. :(
"BUT we also do not want a lazy bum, who is unemployed, unambitious, has no perspective and doesn't know what to do with his life either and doesn't do anything to improve his situation." Exactly, poor men can't afford women, it's still a prerequisite that a man has money before you date him.
Tell me again how the price is $0.00
This might be true.
But when men start dating fat women, we will start dating poor men!
Sounds fair right? :)
So you are saying men care about looks women care about money, that makes women literally whores/prostitutes. Someones looks are at least gender specific, it's just being heterosexual, money is exchange for almost everything, needing it is saying you are a product... a prostitute.
That's the dumbest comment I've read in a while.
My point still stands.
Explain how it is dumb, your standing point seems to suggest women value money in a man as much as a man values aesthetics in a women.
No. My point suggests that just like men think women value money over anything else, women also think that men value looks more than anything. That's what I'm trying to convey.
So to actually disprove each other, we have to act the way we're NOT expected to act. This is how stereotypes get broken. By going against them. Because that's what they are at the end of the way- only stereotypes :)
Hmm... so your price is 0,00€. I'll take two. thanks
Hahaha okay.
You're into polygamy then.
Yeah. We'll have to move to Utah. I hear it's very picturesque.
This seems kinda bullshitty, and written in a most pretentious fashion to boot. And this idea that it's our fault for not catching a gold digger sounds a lot like victim blaming to me. Not that this is very applicable to me since I have no interest in this, "modern woman."
So one of my professors said that the university knows the most used websites based on computers using the schools wifi.
After youtube and social media the most used website is Seekingarangements.[com] which is a sugar daddy website...
Fucking hilarious if true.
thats weird because just about every female i know won't date guys if they don't have a lot of money, I've always felt ownership was better thin money, i always worked towards owning things, i have a descent house and vehicle but because i dont have a lot of green to waist, im looked down on.
Dear Modern Women:
Now that we've both established that most women DO care about a man's worth.
I'd just like to add that a man who has any worth doesn't care about your degrees, how independent you are, or how much money you have. Men who have money don't care, and why should we? Why would a girl with a fancy career and 60hr work week job be appealing to a guy who already has enough money to raise a family? I'd rather date a part-time McDonald's employee.
Look lady fam I want to believe you, but gold diggers exist
Thank you. Many won't believe it because it's a shield they can use against genuine connection, sadly.
Money does NOT turn me on. I do NOT pick guys based on his income. keep saying this and people don't believe me. I completely agree with this post.
Family court and how fiercely women defend alimony really says otherwise.
And yes, money, educational degrees and titles, and status, are well known to be attractive to so many women.
'And yes, money, educational degrees and titles, and status, are well known to be attractive to so many women.'
.. you mean to say that an unemployed, unbathed woman who reeks of body odour and has ratty looking hair is attractive to men?
@kaylaS91 i didn't see where i claimed personal hygiene was unimportant. Could you show me?
And your typical man making a good living will value youth and beauty far more than a woman's job title.
bad hygiene goes hand in hand with being homeless.
'And your typical man making a good living will value youth and beauty far more than a woman's job title.'
.. and you guys are STILL surprised when a woman drops you like a hot potato once you give her the money/expensive shit she was interested in from the start?
🤣
@kaylaS91 what does being homeless have to do with me stating women are attracted to money and status? Did i say women should be homeless or unemployed?
no you stated that a mate having a degree, 'status', being well known and attractive are exclusively sought out by women.
So... I ask you if you'd be cool dating or fucking a woman who was a highschool dropout who lived off welfare and was basically slumming it.
@kaylaS91 actually no, i didn't say that.
On average, women want a man with higher status who makes more cash. On average men are happy to date lower status women if they have youth and beauty. Degrees don't mean nearly as much to men--a hot waitress is more attractive than a cute admin.
... alright? I'm curious where you pulled these 'averages' out of?
There's tons of girls that say that then they get upset when guys don't pay
Bad luck happens to the guys because those girls aren't relationship material.
Dear men, I speak for ALL women.
Sincerely, one person.
Um no, she's speaking for most women and not all.
@BrittBratt2416
''Dear Men, We DON'T Want Your Money! Get Over Yourselves. Sincerely, Modern Women''
Yes.. modern women can be the ones who agree with her. Just cause she said modern women doesn't mean all modern women
@BrittBratt2416 I can understand that, but I personally would've said "... A modern woman".
@BrittBratt2416 Thanks!
Reading comprehension isn't a very common skill nowadays, especially on the sensitive parts of the world wide internet.
Not all, but I'm pretty sure I know more than several girls who tried hard to catch a big fish. It doesn't mean they would just go after the money and that's their only concern. But they were picking men as per their status
funny how this girl sayin she speaks for all women when she says they don't want us dude's money, but I seem to remember that last time I waved 200 bucks in a ho's face and told her to suck my dick she didn't waste NO time.
Yeah, I got money to blow bitches. whats up