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Oh my fucking... another feminist post. You know what? If you want men to stop thinking you want our money, learn to pay for your damn selves. Stop looking at us to foot the bill.
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The extension for I is a truly empowered woman has men on her terms. As a compliment to her life rather than a need
My Dear Sisters: (Possible Wife) I don't want YOUR money, either! I'm looking for Love!
This post by another woman suggest otherwise.
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2764801-why-doesn-t-my-boyfriend-pay-for-me
I never liked a guy for his money. Money is one of the things I least care about cause it's irrelevant to me.
:( JEEZ, this site just makes me hate women. Women are so bitter aren't they.
All men hear is how much women don't need us. Just pushing us away. I am thinking it might be better to abstain from all relationships now.
What's the point if my future wife doesn't need my love because feminism has manipulated her.
I just give up.
Modern Man.
You undermined your entire argument.
And if for one second you don't believe women are after men's money, then go sit in divorce court.
Anyone who believes you need money to attract women is stupid af
Money will only attract a certain type of women, and not the good kind
OMG THANK YOU! So many guys seem to think all women are after their money, like uh nah hun I earn my own money, I don't need yours thaaaank you *eye roll*
As the matter of fact, I won't date a guy who doesn't pay for women. Sorry but culture set a big deal. Men should be the leader and be responsible for the woman. When it comes to equality, it comes to how each party treat each other well. We have roles, and each woman and man should realise that they have roles in accordance to their gender. Just an opinion.
So women are prostitutes that get bought then?
It's true, women don't want us for our money,
but we better have it.
Especially you both have kids.
Kids ain't cheap.
It's funny but the older I get the better my money makes me look.
Okay so why are we still expected to pay for the date?
You're not. But if men don't pay for dates, they complain saying they feel "emasculated".
Give me a fucking break..
@silverqueen you've had some bad experiences I assume & whilst some may very well feel that way, alotta guys want to pay but modem women end not rejecting out of being polite & fair but because they now take it as a stealing of independence for some reason. As opposed to a kind gesture & the handling of the situation can feel esmasculating.
@Wwwyzzerdd: the only time I think the guy should pay is if they were the one to ask the girl out. If she asks, she should pay. I think it's a kind thing to offer & never feel it's something anyone should be made to do. Dutch should be expected & anything else is a kindness
apologies, i missed writing "many" before modem women. I don't believe in blanket statements & that's what I sound like without that word, sorry
I don't. Some of us don't also. Splitting the bill is a thing you know?
That's what I said, lol "Dutch should be expected & anything else is a kindness." going dutch means both pay, if you don't know
@PinkLotusLove I never heard that. It's good to know.
Yeah true. I think when women say "How do I get him to ask me out?" it's like... Girl, just ask him out. And pay, because you're the one who's willing to go out with him. Lol
I have never had a person I was legitimately on a date with ever lift a finger to pay for anything. You may be different but that's how my life is.
@silverqueen Or you know... just agree to go out sometime without costing you a cent in the parks or fountains or gardens.
Nobody ever agrees to go out.
I'm convinced that women don't like those types of dates because whenever I suggest something like that they don't agree and suggest something else.
Those girls are not the girls you want to become your girlfriend in the first place.
So its pointless to try gotcha
No, you've been sold a bill of goods by the FI. Any woman that doesn't consider if her prospect is a success or a failure, is simply a failure herself.
Next you'll say you're good if he's a dead-broke deadbeat. Dumb.
Yes we already know that lol. The same goes for what most guys expect in a women, all of whom you don't really speak for lol.
Exactly! Guys don't know what women want because they can't read our minds, yet some are convinced they are right.
Dear woman,
When you stop talking about us all the time ( require full attention ) Then we will believe you.
Regards from a sexist pig.
Respect
Kindness to everyone
Aspirations
Support
Loyalty
Dedication and commitment
Tiime
Listener
Treated nice like a lady.
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Yeah, that's a lot to ask for
And those things don't get guys laid. Many women SAY they want these things, but are attracted to men who play hard to get, sweeps them off their feet with wit and charm, and make them feel something no matter if is negative or positive. Women love drama. All these good traits, they come second to attraction. If that weren't so, then why do women put so much stock on "spark" and "chemistry"?
The truth is, most women AND men want good values in a mate, however, those things don't ATTRACT, and without attraction, it doesn't matter if the guy is the most loyal supportive respectful person she has ever met.
Speak for yourself, sweetie! I'll take a dude's money! LOL. Just kidding. I won't... unless the dude is a Trumptard.
Nice try