Yeah strange, that last part, I generally have a rule of more than ten years younger, something might change if I really want a family, but abiding by laws and bring guided by morals seems to make me comfortable. I actually don't look my age, so girls get surprised when I tell them.
I mean, I wouldn't want to date someone who is still in high school or someone who has already married twice and experienced all the things I still want to experience, true.
But that is just the practical side to age, I could see myself dating a 45 year old, if they somehow are in the same spot in their life that I am.
there are things which dont need to be said and are implied no matter what and i think when its said that age is just a number then it is implied that we need to keep our minors safe and out of such context
I get where you're coming from, but when it's two consenting adults, then yes, age is just a number. Just because someone may have more experience doesn't mean they've gained any more wisdom from it than someone with less experience, and wisdom is what truly matters.
I dated or at least sort of dated a woman from my work. She's 40 and I'm 23. We had a few weeks of fun and both decided it won't work out for long enough. She already has a child and knew that I want to start a family. She knew that she wouldn't be able to and didn't want to ruin my chance of starting one. It worked out fine.
I agree, I doubt I'll ever date someone who's more than 5 years older than me. I am just not that attracted to older guys, so I might be exception too.
See, the thing is, there's something called context. The context is two consenting adults. End of that story.
However that doesn't mean that there aren't any responsible and mature teens out there. Same to say that that doesn't mean there aren't any naive adults.
So really, to two mature minded individuals, age is just a number. However it is definitely rare to find a teenager/child out there with the capability to understand differences between reality and hormonal/emotional augmented perspective and even after that function under rational assumption.
@Germanium Generally yes. The only thing that holds is life goals. The truth is that the average person lives to be an average age, thus a 20 year old girl who wants a child with a 70 year old man will by the average only have a father for the child till age 12-14 based on the average, and based on the average for those who live past the average we'd be maybe getting to 20. So, by doing this she sets herself and her child up to loss of a husband/father at the maximum age of 40/20. As an example.
Obviously pedophilia is an atrocious act, but I'm in my twenties and I'm dating a woman who is almost forty. I don't mind. She doesn't mind. Why is it anybody's business at that point?
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Yeah strange, that last part, I generally have a rule of more than ten years younger, something might change if I really want a family, but abiding by laws and bring guided by morals seems to make me comfortable. I actually don't look my age, so girls get surprised when I tell them.
I mean, I wouldn't want to date someone who is still in high school or someone who has already married twice and experienced all the things I still want to experience, true.
But that is just the practical side to age, I could see myself dating a 45 year old, if they somehow are in the same spot in their life that I am.
Definitely. Even if the younger one isn’t minor it’s really weird for someone young dating someone older than their parents. Goodness gracious.
“Aww. She’s so cute. Is she your daughter?”
“No, she’s my wife...”
lol Awkward.
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there are things which dont need to be said and are implied no matter what and i think when its said that age is just a number then it is implied that we need to keep our minors safe and out of such context
I get where you're coming from, but when it's two consenting adults, then yes, age is just a number. Just because someone may have more experience doesn't mean they've gained any more wisdom from it than someone with less experience, and wisdom is what truly matters.
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I dated or at least sort of dated a woman from my work. She's 40 and I'm 23. We had a few weeks of fun and both decided it won't work out for long enough. She already has a child and knew that I want to start a family. She knew that she wouldn't be able to and didn't want to ruin my chance of starting one. It worked out fine.
If someone dated and marry someone with a large age gap... eventually you will be changing their diapers.
I find the dude who is 66 and says his girlfriend is 22. This dude is lying big time. He’s married lol
I agree, I doubt I'll ever date someone who's more than 5 years older than me. I am just not that attracted to older guys, so I might be exception too.
Yeah,
the easiest argument is:
if age is just a number then pedophilia doesn't exist and thus isn't bad.
..
See the look on their faces as they attempt to muster out an excuse
See, the thing is, there's something called context.
The context is two consenting adults. End of that story.
However that doesn't mean that there aren't any responsible and mature teens out there. Same to say that that doesn't mean there aren't any naive adults.
So really, to two mature minded individuals, age is just a number.
However it is definitely rare to find a teenager/child out there with the capability to understand differences between reality and hormonal/emotional augmented perspective and even after that function under rational assumption.
@Germanium Generally yes.
The only thing that holds is life goals.
The truth is that the average person lives to be an average age, thus a 20 year old girl who wants a child with a 70 year old man will by the average only have a father for the child till age 12-14 based on the average, and based on the average for those who live past the average we'd be maybe getting to 20.
So, by doing this she sets herself and her child up to loss of a husband/father at the maximum age of 40/20.
As an example.
Yea tell that to the pedos who think age is just a number lol
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i agree about experience but if a 20 year old and a 40 year old are both starting school and have never dated-why not.
20 year age gap has a 95% of seoaration so yeah there is that too.
Good thing that VS model met her boyfriend in France then. She was 17, he was over 18. He would be slapped with a statutory rape charge lol.
I agree though that a 20 years age gap rarely works for most people.
R. Kelly says it's just a number. But that guy also believes he can fly...
Lol ;)
So you're saying R. Kelly could give some golden advice? 🤔
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@Caaarl They probably could share stories. 😂
@Caaarl Lol
@majorG Actually, he didn't. Aaliyah did. He's just walking the talk😏😂😊
So whats upsetting you?
when i was early 20s all the people that i truly wanted were in their 30s even late 30s.
Obviously pedophilia is an atrocious act, but I'm in my twenties and I'm dating a woman who is almost forty. I don't mind. She doesn't mind. Why is it anybody's business at that point?
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It all depends on the people involved: what they have in common; what makes them gel; their core beliefs. And how mature they are (mentally).