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Why cheating is OK (Page 4)
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I find much of these responses disingenuous. I have a hard time believing that **no one** here has ever cheated on their significant other. The folks who so vociferously disagree are expressing a superior moralism that is largely ridiculous as it is false outrage. No one here would ever admit to cheating for fear of being mercilessly attacked. Does anyone here have the courage to admit that they have cheated on their partner at one time or another?
Or maybe they really didn't cheat !!!
Not all people like to cheat.
I've been cheated on by my ex, I know what it is.
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he first time we broke up over it, immature!
We got together again.
There was no drama. She did it again. NO big drama. I could have made a drama but I just accepted it as a fact, said "I hope it was a positive experience for you."
It happened again and I had the same feeling and reaction. Then she discovered she was pregnant from it and I helped her to get an abortion.
But by then I knew we hadn't much of a future together
I always knew that I did NOT OWN her.
And today I'd react in the same manner.
By that logic if I insult your mother I'm just helping you build character because I care about you. If you want to have casual relationships that's entirely up to you but don't try to justify it.
I agree you'd be helping me build character, because I'd have to overcome my irrational reactions to realize that your words ultimately aren't important since you don't know my mother. I'd thank you for the opportunity you provided for my growth.
You're welcome
See how it's possible for people of opposing viewpoints to come together constructively, despite you, for example, clearly trying to be offensive? You might learn from this.
I'm not trying to offend you. I am making a general observation. Most people aren't up for high stress relationships
Which goes back to my point: being upset about cheating is simply possessiveness, jealousy, and selfishness.
If you want to be in an open relationship no one is stopping you. I prefer the traditional system.
It's sad how you would choose such a restrictive and possessive form of a relationship. What are you afraid of?
AIDS. I'm afraid of Aids
You should learn about how to use a condom.
The only protection better than a condom is a closed zipper.
I have a weird love/hate relationship with cheating. So I don't know what to think about this post. Just a question I'd like to ask you: Why do guys like to fuck girls who have a boyfriend? To be the one they cheat with? And I mean just fucking, not starting another love relationship.
They don't. The opposite is true.
Why the girl want to be fucked by other guy if she is already in relationship?
personally i think that cheating is a really bad thing to do
Hardly. That's only what you have been conditioned to believe.
Take Owner wants to condition us all to believe that it's okay to break our promises to others, that our virtues need not protecting and upholding. He is of the people that wish to destroy our values in an attempt to further establish a system that treats us all the same, he can't see that we are individuals requiring freedom to live. Don't listen to him.
I've no desire to subvert anyone's agency, simply to educate them on their negative cultural conditioning and selfishness which needlessly cause them turmoil.
@mef1975 ; true dat!
So you really, really honestly wouldn't mind at all if your partner cheated?
No, I would not mind. 72% of men cheat, 70% of women. Odds are, I'm being cheated on right now. Why let normal behavior bother me?
It doesn't make it normal because people do it. What's normal in society is fucked. Don't let it erode u to accept dysfunction. I see why as happening yo ur mind but don't ignore mechanisms that guide u
Here's my solution to cheating: Have an open relationship. Let each other fuck other people.
Hell, I would go out of my way to help find guys to bang my girlfriend...(if I had one... and if she did the same for me in finding women for me to share with.)
Sorry, but this is bullshit. You're never going to find someone who will stay with you after cheating no matter how much they love you. And if you do, they won't fully trust you.
I assume she's cheating on me too, since so many people do it. I have no problem with her having sex with other people. It's just like masturbation, except it's happening inside her.
Obvious troll is obvious... God damn it... Litterally "God damn it" I hope He comes down and damns this
That assumes the existence of a God. An irrational leap in thinking.
I don't see cheating as a problem, it's like masturbation, just either you're in someone or someone is in her.
See... Troll ^^
He disses believers in an attempt to start a religious flame war, and then talks about cheating again for a reaction. My point is proven, c'ya
Cheating is no different than masturbating. If she cheats on me, the only difference is that she has someone inside her. I'm not jealous or possessive, so why should that bother me if she does that? Doesn't she have a right to have sex with whom she chooses? Why should her autonomy be a threat to me?
@DeltaDanner in my opinion it isn't trolling, it's a serious subject.
So lower the standards to meet the perverse? hm.. seems legit. You have been in too many bad relationships.
No, my relationships have been great, I simply refuse to be possessive or jealous. If she were to cheat, why should that bother me? Doesn't she have the right to have sex with whomever she pleases? Why should her autonomy threaten me? It turn, why should mine threaten her?
What specific benefits are their to you being in a relationship? This sounds like fuck buddies. No loyalty required. To me loyalty and intimacy are relationship exclusives. Certain pieces of me are reserved for those that are exclusively loyal and intimate with me. so again, what are the benefits of you being in a relationship?
Why cheat in the first place? It goes both ways. If you're trying to hurt your partner, that is unhealthy and is a good enough reason to break up.
Sir, put down the drugs and step away from the internet.
I can understand the idea is radical to many people, but how many of the world's best ideas haven't been considered radical at one point?
What's the conclusion to this Take? That all negative emotions should be dealt with through the uptake of drugs? That relationships are better and stronger when one partner cheats?
https://i.imgur.com/rreKA9X.jpg great bait mate
If I were baiting, I would say thank you for the recognition. However, I am entirely sincere. Cheating is NOT a big deal!
So the question becomes, how did this get promoted but my last one didn't?
Mine is a relevant commentary on the fact that cheating happens so regularly that it isn't a concern. It's no different than masturbation, simply it's happening with another person.
@asker No it's only because of how it's written, the admins don't care what it says as long as it is said well.
The admins don't care about content.
I like how you're brave enough to post such nonsense but only as anon while you continue to defend your opinion
Shaming tactics? How trite.
Seeing as it could be a test doesn't mean it's right to do. Relationships these data are yup blinded with sexual interactions and not enough Trust mutually. Cheating and building ones trust which is hard in the first place then instantly destroying not only that, but your honor, reputation, and their emotions.
how did you come to your conclusion, you personally.
Simply by not being selfish, it's quite straightforward. Why be threatened by someone else's autonomy? Cheating is no different than masturbating. If she cheats on me, the only difference is that she has someone inside her. I'm not jealous or possessive, so why should that bother me if she does that? Doesn't she have a right to have sex with whom she chooses?
There was no traumatic event, I just sat down and thought about it. The only reason to be upset is possessiveness born of insecurity and selfishness. There's no place for it in a loving relationship.
I see what you mean. if that's what you're into nothing wrong with it. your dating pool may be on a much smaller scale but not impossible to find a girl with the same interests.
sounds like the peyote dreams of a free-love hippie
I feel like I might forgive a guy if he cheated on me, but it would be highly dependent on the situation.
See how being rational can help you preserve a relationship? You are on the right path.
(This is Tinkerbell) I agree. But that doesn't make it Okay to cheat
The thing that you're saying about people being selfish if they leave you when you cheat. They sort of are, but that's the way it is. Completely unconditional love does not exist, people choose to date you for reasons that benefit them. Plus, if I'm not going to be selfish and let him cheat, he should be selfless too and not cheat. So, then there really is no problem.