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I slapped my boyfriend during an argument, is this okay? (Page 3)
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Physical violence is never the answer. How would you feel if he slapped you and called you a dumb bitch in front of your friends?
No, violence between couples, between anybody, is wrong. I know sometimes temper can fly, but you should never lose control to that point.
Resorting to physical violence during a somewhat harmless argument is pathetic. That's all I have to say about it.
of course it's not okay LOL.. i've been with my bf for many years and i never lay a hand on him. :)
Slapping ANYBODY is unacceptable, regardless of gender. You may be stressed and whatnot, but you need to handle your problems like an adult...not like a 5 year old child.
it doesn't matter the gender. It's still wrong to slap your SO like that.
He needs to dump you as of now and you should be his ex girlfriend.
Um, no it's not okay to hit anyone unless he was like being abusive.
It'll be fine. He can take it. It probably wasn't hard than done other hits he's taken in his life. Just say sorry.
He has definitely taken harder hits than one slap from me, his dad's violent. He cares a hell of a lot less about this slap than most of these punks online do.
Useless bastard was kinda harsh though. Just tell him all the stress you're under and tell him he isn't useless and remind him of all the times he was useful.
No it's not okay. The only time you should attack physically is for self defense. If things were that heated you should leave.
Your dumb ass would be out on the street and single the moment you threw an insult in my general direction.
But I guess your boyfriend has no self respect, so you got that going for you I suppose.
there are quite e few cases in which it is ok for either side to slap the other one... but being an irrational bitch is not one of them
Let me tell you my circumstances. My feelings were that our relationship was falling apart, I felt so insecure, I know I was overbearing, turns out a mutual friend that he was close to was crushing on him and getting into his head, he was spending less time with me.
Soon after, my baby sister got diagnosed with meningitis and died soon after. I came into school and the stress of it all just overloaded. It was one slap. I didn't punch him or kick him in the sensitives.
would you be finde if he slapped you for the same reason?
I would definitely empathise with what he's going through. I think it's pretty tough. I'd get that his emotions overcame him. I'm not a ruthless/unforgiving human being. We all slip up under pressure sometimes.
well if that´s your point of view it´s fine i guess. for me it would not be ok.
You're being a bit too precious.
i just don´t slap people i like. not even in extreme anger. my signifikant other would be the last person on earth i´d slap. i have been socialised this way and i don´t think i am too precious here, its just my point of view.
It's wrong but considered more socially acceptable than the other way around.
Depends on who you ask about that social acceptability. Most people will still think you're a "disgusting sassy bitch" the other way around, and they're pretty damn right to make that assumption, I think.
Yeah...
Doing it in public is the worst you can do.. especially slap him, that probably got him angry. Maybe you should apologize if you think its appropriate, and next time do it in private.
I suppose if he actually deserved it, it would be allright I would have simply grabbed your arm though.
Nah. Violence is never right, it's just a way to express yourself but I don't believe it is good. Unless you're Sean Connery. Lol jk
If you were my girlfriend , I would beat the shit out of you.
Responding to violence with violence is bad, you just need to cut them out
Hitting women is never okay and it's illegal you'll get arrested. Don't get into a relationship until you sort out your anger issues.
I agree. Sort yourself out saka1
Please consider taking some anger management sessions , you sound like you need plenty.
Not a feminist but get seek a psychologist. It's not normal to want to use excessive force on someone. if someone slaps me, that doesn't give me any rights to hit them with a baseball bat and give them serious injuries.
You are the worst kind of female.
Same to you
No its domestic abuse. Those people should have intercede and called the cops.
I'd break up with you and call the police to report assault. No it's not acceptable. What you did was weak. How would you feel if your boyfriend slapped you to shut your sorry ass up during an argument?