Girlfriend posts modeling pictures on Instagram and guys always give her attention. How to handle it?

[alltheabove1212]

On Instagram, sometimes my girlfriend posts modeling-esque pictures. It's really annoying because I know she just loves the attention. What do I do about guys ("Orbiters") who comment on the post and give her a bunch of attention?

I can't call her out and say "I don't like those pictures you post!" And I shouldn't talk about other guys saying stuff because it'd make me look insecure.

Guys, what do you do in this situation to stay cool? I know she's hot so she's going to get attention everywhere.

[rjroy3]

Well first things first, it's not that this makes you insecure. You are insecure, because you have a hot girlfriend that has options. You should take solace in the fact that you're getting ass and they are not. She's with you for a reason. Understand your self worth.
Second, this is who she is and it's part of the reason you got with her. The sexy photos, the way she dresses in public all of it. You can't tell her what to do. Now if she's posting pictures that are on the edge of p*rn graphic or "private" photos being put out there, you can tell her it makes you not invest in the relationship as much. So she can look at her actions and see that it effects you and you don't come across as needy. Just remember, she's with you for a reason.

[BertMacklinFBI]

just know the facts, she's your girlfriend and every other guy can only slobber over a picture while you're getting the real thing.

[alltheabove1212]

She took a picture of like, her with a shirt on sitting down with just some underwear on... shouldn't I be upset?

[BertMacklinFBI]

I feel you concern that she is being provocative and letting the world see it but if its what she really wants to do then just let her because its better than being the controlling boyfriend and annoying the crap out of her. if you two have trust then you have nothing to ever worry about.

[alltheabove1212]

Exactly! I try to think of what those guys who date models or popular girls on social media. What good would come from saying I don't like it? She'd take it down and I'd look jealous and controlling. I'd feel better but she'd probably roll her eyes. I just won't acknowledge the picture. Plus she's all for me anyway in the big picture

[BertMacklinFBI]

exactly. this is what I always tell insecure girls when it comes to shit like this, let reality be the judge of your emotions, not social media:P im not saying you're an insecure girl by the way but this kinda applies lol. real life > social media. so you're golden bruh :D

[alltheabove1212]

What if she like, becomes friends with people from Instagram and is snapchatting with them?

[BertMacklinFBI]

that's fine too. everyone does that actually. that's why I leave social media at social media. I don't ever let it affect my reality. it just gets addicting to go from 1 social media to another so I honestly wouldn't worry too much about it. to her its probably no big deal, she's just doing it because she enjoys it and gets a kick out of it.

[alltheabove1212]

You got a solid mindset man I must say. I might actually come back and read this every so often to set me straight

[BertMacklinFBI]

hahaa thanks man! I honestly think you're perfectly fine though.

[Anonymous]

Yes you can say that because that's a valid feeling you're having. If my bf did that, I would be very uncomfortable and not ok with that. You need to tell her to stop seeking male attention elsewhere. Not okay! Even if it's cyber attention, it's still not ok

[crazyincalifornia]

Live with it. I do the same thing. I think it's harmless. Still, if you are really bothered about it let her know.
And yeah you're probably a bit insecure. So is she. that's whey we do it. LOL!
Tell her! Don't be too afraid. She might not stop though.

[kittykatg]

If it bothers you that much you should tell her. It's better to openly discuss your feelings on the matter and come to a compromise or at least a mutual understanding. If you let it boil up, you're gonna blow up at her or somebody else. Neither are good.

[Izzy2102]

Is modeling her job?
Because if not, I don't see why you can't just straight out say you don't like that other give her so much attention

[alltheabove1212]

It's not her job. She likes posting fun/sexy pictures

[Izzy2102]

just tell you're a bit jealous