Is it a bad idea to marry your first (and only) boyfriend? (Page 2)
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It depends where you are at in your life. If you think you're super young then no. If you think he is absolutely positively the one then yes. Don't exactly see the harm in it. But make sure you're mature and ready enough for it.
No.
My fiance was my first serious boyfriend.. Not my first of everything.. But the first guy i was really serious about.
If you love him, and you're ready, why not? Unless you feel like you're missing out by only being with one guy?
Not necessarily. Nah. If you two get along each other well and the guy is caring and genuinely nice, then I dont think there will be any problem. But you are still have time I guess. Let time do its work
Its ok to go out and gain experience. Sometimes you think your so in love with your first but when you step away with knowledge your more likely to find a better match for you. Just depends on how its going. If its not broken dont fix it.
It's not bad, but, i would think you'd be doing a disservice to yourself... I mean if you really think there's no other guy out there, go ahead butttt don't you think you'd like to have a little fun before you tie the knot (which is just a piece of paper anyway)
Depends. How long have you two been together? Do you already have a good job? Financial security? Enough money to buy a house, at least?
Point is, it doesn't matter if this is your first or tenth relationship, because it takes WAY more than that to have a sucessful marriage.
As a rule of thumb, though, it's never good to marry young. Wait until you're on your late twenties, at least. That's my advice.
yes it is very bad in my opinion because you haven't tried out the different flavors you just got the first one and assumed he it. get out live a little have some fun make some mistakes... NOT DANGEROUS ONES OR IRRESPONSIBLE ONES. but if you love this man marry him no questions ask. just think thoroughly its a tough long serious commitment
really rare but could be a cute story to tell kids :p i feel like it wouldn't matter. the number of partners you get in your like doesn't matter. its the bond and relationship that counts.
Are you happy? If yes, why does the number matter? If no, well, again, why does the number matter?
Oh that's right, it doesn't. Do what you want and don't worry about it :)
Depending on how old you are. I personally wouldn't marry my first boyfriend because you never know if there is someone better out there. But if you've been together for a long time and you feel like you really love him, then go for it. Its all about how you feel.
I married my first serious boyfriend. We've been together a little over 2 1/2 years (married for 6 mo) and have a 10 month old daughter. My mom was super against it because we were so young, but I know that he is truly the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have a long road ahead of us but we get to grow and face it together. I know that's super cheesy, but it's true. And never once have I felt like I was 'missing out'. I just got lucky way sooner than others 😊
I think it is good to have some time apart. I know I thought my first was amazing but after she left me I slowly realized there is more out there and better women for me out there.
You only need one. Many people have relationships with several people just to find the lasting one. If the attraction and connection is there with the first one, why not? It works out for many people.
I wouldn't choose that path.. first partner and die with him.. So boring life. You only live once.. why not meet other people and have more exotic life.
When you find real love, it is impossible for it to be boring.
If you truly love him, and know for a fact that he loves you, then I can't say it's a bad idea. I think as a general rule though, that if you're under 25, you should probably wait and see if your feelings last and are actually love, and not misguiding teenage hormones.
... But hey, that's just my two cents
Yes, of course, why not? If you guys REALLY love each other then why not share all your life together? :)
If you believe in sex before marriage then I guess not but personally I wouldn't because I'd always wonder what it's like with other guys who could possibly be better
What makes you think it's a bad idea to marry your first and only boyfriend? That was my only wish since when I was younger.
It's not a bad idea if that's what you want. Just don't marry too young. What you want at age 18 and what you want at age 28 could be completely different things.
Some people may say marrying anyone is a bad idea.
It worked for my Grandparents and they're still married 61 years later.