That's a pretty long time not to kiss someone you've been going out with. Here's what I say you do: Ask him to hang out at the park. It'd be best if there was no other kids or teenagers or adults there, just you guys. If you want a cute first kiss, I suggest kissing on the swings. But don't make it happen too fast. take your time. Or if you want a magical sweet kiss.. Take a walk when the sun is about to go down. Like right when its somewhat dark, yet somewhat daytime outside. Sit on bench outside, it can be wherever.. school, mall, park. and slowly make it obvious you wanna kiss him. then just do it! but make the kiss a little slow. a peck won't mean as much as a REAL kiss. Have fun :)
My bf and I had our first kiss the first time we met, haha. Well, sorta. I was dared to kiss him on the cheek, LoL. Our REAL first kiss though, was our second time hanging out. We've been together for a month too. :) Honestly, it was easy for us to have our first kiss and felt natural when it happened. Sure, it happened early in the relationship, but we are a very... connected couple, haha. I don't know how to explain it. I'd just say whenever you guys feel comfortable. You don't have to rush into it. Just talk about it with each other. :)
Uhh... assuming that we didn't date beforehand or anything, I'd expect to get a kiss on the same day we became official. And if we date, I'd expect to get a kiss at least on the second date and onwards. I don't think I'd be able to go an entire month without kissing my boyfriend... just seems odd to me. Like it's merely a friendship and not an actual relationship.
My first kiss (ever) was with my ex. It was on the first time we spent a night together (there was no sex lol, I prefer to wait a little longer than the 2nd date to get sexually involved). For most cases I would say that whenever you both feel the time is right. Although a month as a little long to wait for a first kiss lol. My personal opinion is that your first kiss with someone is a physical representation of your mutual acceptance of the nature of your relationship. Kissing is what separates "good friends" or "Best friends" from "a couple".
How adorable are you! Anytime it feels right sweetie.
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First guy I ever dated, it took me about a week maybe more because I was so nervous having never done it before. He would kiss me on the cheek to be a gentleman but he stole a kiss after finding it hard not kissing. In the end, it all doesn't matter when but if u wait too long he might not think you like him that much. Now I kiss on the first date to test the chemistry - especially if I really like him. If u want to take it slow, start with a cheek kiss. Dont think too much about it and just go with the flow.
aww baby don't listen to these stupid guys !!! a lot of people kiss a lot sooner than you have but it doesn't matter. you should do it whenever you feel comfortable. I think waiting a month is definitely long enough, but don't ever let anyone pressure you into doing something you don't want to do:)
Ok just wait until Valentine's day have dinner with him and say goodbye with a tight hug, theb look in his eyes for a few seconds and kiss him, this is fool proof seriously, if he can't kiss you under those circumnstances... he may never kiss you at all :000000
It depends on your age. My first boyfriend didn't kiss me for 5 months. I finally got so sick of it that I grabbed him at his birthday party after he touch the bottom while cutting the cake and planted on him.
I have a feeling that, we were a unique situation. He could just be working up to it... or timid. At the end of the day, give me a little longer to work up the courage and then go for it yourself if he won't,
Hmmm... I don't know... let's go out & see!!!
Seriously, if u have selected the correct age category AND have been exclusively dating (explicitly, not just in YOUR mind), then you should have already kissed. In fact, would you date someone exclusively withOUT kissing? I'm not sure what the point would even be... unless u r actually 14...
Are you saying there isn't a point in dating without intimacy?
anytime! he's probably nervous as hell and thinking the same things you are. next time your together and if the mood feels right sit next to him, put your arm around his neck and go in for a soft kiss and just see how things go from there! he'll love it I promise :) guys love a girl that can take charge
First kiss is the important thing in any relationship. Its memory remains till the last of your life. So if you find out that your boyfriend is the right person on whom you feel special then its better to know each other first then get physical. This helps to build a syrong relation and develop love.
So dont be in a rush. Wait till you think you can trust him.
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After I asked out my lover when we were in highschool and she said yes, she went to kiss me on the cheek and I panicked and went for the lip kiss cause I thought thats what she was doing. It was an awkward little connection and I apologized and suggested we try again and it was magical. it happens when it happens. It can happen right away or even weeks after.
I become quite shy and frightened about courting till my buddy convinced me to try out this app referred to as DoULike. I wasn't waiting for tons, but then I matched with this awesome girl named Julie. We began chatting and honestly hit it off. After a couple weeks of messaging, I in the end worked up the courage to ask her out on a real date.
We met up for dinner and the verbal exchange flowed so naturally. I turned into amazed via how snug I felt together with her. We began happening more dates over the subsequent month - mini golfing, films, walks inside the park. I turned into falling for Julie, however nonetheless felt tense about making a pass bodily.
Finally, after our fourth date, we have been pronouncing goodbye and something simply felt proper within the second. I requested Julie if I should kiss her, and she thankfully stated yes! It turned into brief and awkward in the beginning, however also exciting - in any case, it turned into my first kiss!
If you are 18-24 and you've never kissed your BOYFRIEND then that's a little strange. You textedand hung out and then both ddecided 'hey wanna be bf gf?' I'm assuming? A kiss usually happens some time after you are officially 'not just friends' anymore.
You should kiss by the 2nd date. The longest it has taken is the 3rd date. but if it goes that far, the chemistry probably isn't there and you should move on. If you have been together a month and not kissed? wow... don't know what to say. Not sure why you would be together.
My first boyfriend and I kissed a week after we got together. I didn't kiss the guy I'm dating until our 5th date (3 months after meeting. I always wait until I'm ready. Now I'm older I understand it is good to see if you are compatible early on, but if I'm not ready I'm not going to force it. If a guy can't be patient, then he isn't the guy for me!
I have never been in a relationship, and have never kissed anyone. Nor do I plan to. If that were to change, though... if someone tried to kiss me on the first date, or even just in the near future, it would freak me out and probably be the end. Personal space and privacy is very important to me. Anything that happens too quickly makes me want to get away.
I kissed my current boyfriend before we even started dating, it just depends on you and when you feel comfortable, but I would say most people kiss by the end of the 2nd date.
There is no right time for a first kiss. It really depends on the couple.
When I first started seeing my bf, we took things slow. It was definitely frustrating. But it took like 5 dates before we even held hands. Our first kiss was on date 6 or 7 I believe. And it was really cute. Basically the date ended he gave me a big hug and them planted one right on my lips. It was so cute! :)
And we're not young either. I'm 26 and he's 31.
It is not about how many days or times you had dates. I think it is about feeling. If you wanna kiss him at first date, kiss him. If you are not sure then don't. Dating is like a trial to see if you like that person for real or not. So..
There is no normal. Don't compare yourself to others. Just do it once you feel you really want yo
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Least that's when mine was. But my relationship is backwards. :D
If you set a timeline for events in your relationship you will be nothing but stressed and disappointed.
I think it should happen before you officially started being boyfriend and girlfriend. I think a small gentle kiss at the end of the first date would be really sweet. Only if you had a good time and you actually like the person though
My hubby and I had our first kiss our very first date. Granted we spent three months talking daily so by the time we actually decided to meet, if just felt right.
If it feels odd ( you will know) and the same goes for it feels right.
Honestly I dated my ex for two months not once did he kiss me and I'm the type of girl that wants a guy to make the first move I I have to make the first move than I feel they don't have the balls 5 do it themselves
When you feel its the right moment!
If you just want to kiss, you should make the move and see how he reacts.
If he reacts bad just have a talk and figure out a correct speed to move the relationship :)
I don't know what's normal, because I haven't been in a relationship either, but I would probably wait a month, because I feel like your first kiss should be important.
A first kiss is the sweetest thing, but sometimes it's a difficult step, it's a sign of trust and a deep feeling between two people, if you feel like you trust each other then the best time for that step is when you feel like u our both ready, just be carefully and take each step at a time!
I agree with '275153'. Whenever you feel comfortable with him. You shouldn't rush into it. It should just happen. Whenever the timing is right, you will know.
i would want to have the first kiss asap just to get the awkwardness out of the way, they we can just kiss whenever ;)
Whenever it feels right. There's really no 'timing' your first kiss let it come naturally and don't force it or it'll be awkward more than likely
The longest i waited was a week. Don't start kissing until your ready both of you. Your first kiss is specail and will probaly always remember it so make sure you are both ready for it
The right moment will arrive. You will find a time when the setting is right and the mood is right. Of course you can create that moment if you want but why not let love take its own course :)
In my current relationship I had it about a month into my relationship but it can be earlyer or lating in the relationship! I've had relationship wher it happened pretty late and pretty early.
To each their own! I actually think a month in is very late (for me anyway). I've never started a relationship with someone I didn't kiss first. Otherwise, how do I know if there's physical compatibility?
With my first girlfriend it took like a month. I can't remember. But now a days, its like 2nd date, sometimes 1st. I have hit 3rd base on a first date. XD
For me It's all all about the first kiss. "If u can kiss,. u can't fuck and if u can't fuck, i don't want u." Quotes By -Me harsh, but It's my take
Whenever the right moment approaches. You'll know when it does. My boyfriend and I had been dating a few weeks before our first kiss.
Whatever feels right. Some girls a week or two for me and once the first date we were making out so whatever feels natural.
Omg! You are so cute! Dont wait too much, kiss him immediately;)
Whenever you two feel it's the right time. No pressure, go with the flow :)
well I wouldn't care ig its on the first day but tf he doesn't feel confortable until a certain moment I will do it just when both are confortable. dont think too much in it. It will come at the right moment.
It depends on the person really. I waited 2 months and a half to get my first kiss.
When you want to. I kissed my man on the first date. We already knew each other well before that.
End of the first date usually, sometimes sooner depending on situation.
I've been in a relationship for over a year and I still haven't kissed him yet... except for on the cheek once but we're not ready... just go at your own pace. You'll know when you're ready.
I've always had first kisses by the second date. Usually the first.
You can't plan it wait for the moment sounds sitcommy but its true
I’ve been with my boyfriend for exactly a month and we had our first kiss 2 weeks ago.
don't think about it, if you can. you do it when it feels right.
I usually do it before dating, but whenever you feel ready it'll be okay
Awweeee. It depends on how much you like the guy and if you feel comfortable around him enough to.
I was my boyfriend's first real kiss, and i was patient until he was completely comfortable with the idea. It wasn't until 2&1/2 months that we had our first kiss. The key is patience and knowing when you both are ready so it isn't awkward :)
I'd say soon but generally whenever you feel the time is right. if yur heart races and your breath gets hard and his is the same but your both not willing to move in for it, or are just shy, go for it, lol.
Really it doesn't matter when, it really matters where, you want to be alone, for example would you rather be at school or at the mall, its all yours and his preference. And also you don't want to rush things, I think a month is fine.
My opinion is that you should wait until marriage just to make your wedding that much more special, but if you feel it should come sooner go ahead I suppose.
I think that's sweet :)
maybe not "necessary", but definitely sweet!! especially coming from a man
i'm actually a girl by the way i'm using a guys profile.
Awww. Since it's not my first kiss I usually kiss a guy on first or second date if I'm really into him. I remember my first kiss was with my first bf after a year of ldr.
This totally depends on your relationship. I didn't kiss my partner until the seventh-ish date (which was around a month). Do what feels right for you and your date.
Don't give yourself a set time, just kiss him if you want to kiss him
Been with my girl 5 months she won't see me at all so no kisses it's more like internet dating this it's a loss take
Right before the first date is over you sneak it in lol.
Usually by the 2nd or 3rd date.
Doesn't have to be scientifically timed or anything. Kiss him when you feel like it.
He kissed me the day before he asked me out, when you both feel comfortable with it and the moment's right, time doesn't matter
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