Why does the thought of being in a relationship scare me so much? (Page 2)

[jdbaird]

Because you're a logical thinker.

[genericname85]

what exactly "scares" you about relationships?

[Asker]

Pretty much everything. I'm a really solitary person, so thinking about being with someone and spending lots of time with them makes me uncomfortable.

[genericname85]

you don´t "have" to spend time with someone xD if you like someone though you will most likely enjoy spending time with them anyway. if not, they´re not the right person for you.

[slatyb]

It's ok, introverts can still have relationships. You need to be open about your need to be alone, and you need a partner who can accommodate that. My girlfriend and both need time alone, but we often are alone together. Not talking just doing our own thing but in the same space.