Girls would you be creeped out if a guy left flowers on your car with a note asking you out?

Question

There's this girl at the gym that I wanna ask out. We've talked a few times. First time I saw her, I fell headfirst into a stairclimber machine haha. But she's beautiful and seems like my type from our talks. She makes me lose all my cool and I'm a fumbling idiot around her that's why I wanna leave her a note. Is that creepy?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If I walked back to my car and saw this my reaction would go something like this:
*walking towards car*
Confused "what is that on my car?"
*realizes that yes, that is my car and there are flowers on it*
Surprised "oh, is this for me?"
*picks up flowers and cards*
Embarrassed and flattered "oh my gosh! Who left this?"
*reads card*
Nervous "oh my gosh, is he watching me read this?" *checks around nervously*
... and, assuming you left your number I would text you/call to thank you for the things and set up a date.

If you do end up leaving it for her, it would be cute if you left before she did from the gym... it's awkward if she left first and you were still inside or you were watching her reaction while she was seeing it. In addition, giving it to her in person would show more confidence, but I would understand if you just wanted to leave it.

Sara413 · Accepted Answer

Would honestly depend on if I already found the dude a little creepy or weird. If I already thought he seemed like a nice guy, and I was either interested romantically or just thought he was a nice dude I could be friends with, no I would not be creeped out. But if he's some dude that keeps talking to me at the gym and I'm just kinda polite to, then I'd be creeped out by it.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No, but why don't u go straight up to her instead and ask her out for coffee u know, and then get things started, its better otherwise she might be creeped out since i don't know her. I know asking someone out takes a lot of guts but its worth it.

zorro8888 · Accepted Answer

It would mean a lot more if you gave it to her yourself, some girls find fumbling idiots cute lol

rocelot · Accepted Answer

Watch and weep.

miserybusiness · Answer

It'd be cute.

That's assuming you don't screw up the note.

"Hello lady with the white van, my name is ___ and we go to the same gym at the same time. I like the way your breasts jiggle on the treadmill. Your butt is the perfect shape, and I enjoy watching you squat. If I might make a recommendation, can you please wear tighter yoga pants when you exercise? Also, would you go out with me?"

sallysuezulu · Answer

Even if you give the note and flowers in person it'd show more courage. He's shy and goofy and knows what he wants? That's what I like in a guy.

AmberDawnxo · Answer

No not at all. Just make sure the notes short and sweet. And I DEfintly think she'd like it :) That would make my day.

theCatcherintheRye · Answer

No car found. But you sir, win the asking out game. I'd love it.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh no... that would be nice but leave your picture too maybe he thinks is someone else lol

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all be more of a nice surprise and leave your name in card with number she'll bound to call/text you to thank you for making her day #JustSaying hha

lumos · Answer

it would be very creepy since I don't have a car.

MJas16 · Answer

Awww good luck on the date:)

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