Should a guy want to be with a woman who only considered him after he almost died for her, as opposed to the guys she considered for just looking at her?
I'm still kind of blown away that all of you people would refuse to go on one single date with someone who almost died to save your life. That just seems ungrateful of their sacrifice, and your own life itself
Friendship should be enough. Otherwise it comes off that the guy saved her life not to save the life of a fellow human, but because he wanted a "reward" in return.
She doesn't owe him anything. Should she be be grateful? Yes. Should she be obligated to date him if he asks? No. Firefighters save people everyday risking their lives but nobody owes them shit.
A shot at dating? Sure. It's the least she could do for him. But it stops there. She shouldn't have to make out with him or have sex with him or marry him.
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Should a guy want to be with a woman who only considered him after he almost died for her, as opposed to the guys she considered for just looking at her?
she owes him a gracious and heart felt thanks.
that's really about it.
She is not obligated to date her.
She should be grateful though.
But that does not mean she should date her.
She doesn't owe him shit other than gratitude.
She owes him a nice wet warm bj at minimum.
@DeltsBrah: So if some girl saved your life, would you also owe her a sex act? What if it was a guy - do you owe him a warm wet BJ as well?
@musicbrain5 - Love this, girl! Yep. @DeltsBrah would owe the guy a BJ. lmao
No she doesn't owe him a shot at dating. She said they'll be best friends forever so that's cool.
No she doesn't owe him a date!
Because a date is worth more than being alive?
@M_A_X yes she should be grateful for saving her life... that alone should be enough "repayment"
I'm still kind of blown away that all of you people would refuse to go on one single date with someone who almost died to save your life. That just seems ungrateful of their sacrifice, and your own life itself
Friendship should be enough. Otherwise it comes off that the guy saved her life not to save the life of a fellow human, but because he wanted a "reward" in return.
Accept but have it clear im not interested romantically
She doesn't owe him anything. Should she be be grateful? Yes. Should she be obligated to date him if he asks? No.
Firefighters save people everyday risking their lives but nobody owes them shit.
That's a great story and I'm sure they will be connected for life. Whether that's just good friends or romantically time will tell.
She shouldn't feel obliged to date him. Though that dude does deserve to get his dick sucked by someone willing.
You owe him your life you say?
Time to pay up lol
duh accept if he saved me life!!!
wow that video and story is so touching, thanks for sharing it!
She doesn't owe him anything but it sure would be nice she "tipped" him! :D
No. But she should be grateful and I bet she really is.
Why ruin an epic party story by having to risk tacking on "and then she turned me down..." ?
Dude can pull chicks for a few years on points from this one ;)
considering girls these days, i wouldn't be surprised if she starts sucking the truck driver's dick later.
A shot at dating? Sure. It's the least she could do for him. But it stops there. She shouldn't have to make out with him or have sex with him or marry him.
I of course would go on a date if he saved my life
what a dumb ass little boy. he should have dove out of the way and let the bitch be ran over for not paying attention.
If I knew I would owe him sexual favors, I would rather him just let me die.