He says he only dated me out of pity?

[Anonymous]

so this guy and I dated for a while like a year on and off know he says he only dated me out of pity can someone be with someone that long and live with them and tell you they love you and not mean any of it why waste there time or mine

[reflex]

seems hard to believe but yeah.maybe at frist he did love ya but along the way it died out and since he cared for you he couldn't break up with you .did his attidue change?like did he hug you less or kissed you less anyhting like that

[Asker]

His attitude didn't change we wanted me to move in with him and live to together he was taking marriage then 180 he never loved me I'm confused how guys think??